Re: hello saline girls

[Guest guest]

I think your post was very true and very kind. I feel it is wrong to

knock people for sharing any feelings they have about their Dr,

however there has been threats of a lawsuit by one Dr if we say

anything negative about her, For that reason I feel we need to be

cautious when we speak out negatively about Dr's. I also feel if

someone did a wonderful job on you, and saved your life, you should

be able to share that as well, without being chastised. It works both

ways.

Saline Support to me is supposed to be a safe place where we SUPPORT

eachother, and not tear eachother down. I have been in tears once

again because I feel I was unfairly misquoted, and that has been

extremely hurtful. But life goes on, I can only express and share

what I had happen to me, the health I now have and that my surgery

was a succsess and that my surgeon is awesome TO ME. No one has to

take any of my advice or believe me. That is again, somthing that

each and every patient is responsible for, as you stated, if we pick

a surgeon, and don't speak out about our concerns then we have to

take responsibility for that as well. I researched, made myself very

clear what I wanted done, and take responsibility for it. I think

that we are all adults here and we do need to admit when we are

wrong, and I have also done that.

To me this group is about helping. If I give someone advice about my

surgeon and they go to her and are not happy, is it right for them to

blame me? If so then I am going to just stop even recomending

anything, because what if anything I say is eventually going to be

coming back at me and be my fault.

I tried so hard to help others, not hurt them. I will be muchmore

cautious now on this site, as to what i say because apparently it is

often times going to come back at me.

I really am sad about that, and sad that not everyone gets great

results.

I wish I could make everything better for everyone. I wish I could

share the health I have with the sick, and help all those in pain.

Unfortunaly I am just one person and I don't have any super powers to

do those things.

I wish that everyone could try to get along and continue with

support, rather than being angry and bitter, bitterness is something

that will def affect your happiness and health. Is it too much to ask

that we try to get along? Please?

Hugs

In , " debsings04 " <debsings04@y...>

wrote:

> Hey girls,

>

> just a little add on to all the latest posts.

>

> I don't want the opinions & passionate feelings to stop. Just be a

> little more considerate.

>

> I couldn't possibly see how we all could ever agree on views, but

> thats okay. I don't want to be like everybody here. I want to be

> unique.

>

> I don't think any of the women here should ever feel bad for

> expressing how they feel about their surgeons. I'm glad we are here

> to tell it. Thats the good news!!!! If you love your sugeon I can

see

> how you would want to honor him/her & show them respect. Especially

> if they saved your life. Nobody should feel bad for that.

>

> My wish is for all of us to have happy experiences. I think we can

> all have it at some point. Remember I found my PS on my own,

however

> I did ask for alot of help and input when researching in the

> beginning. I will never forget that. How I was so greatful to find

> that. So, keep in mind many women are here to get info. Whatever

they

> decide is their choice & they are responsible for their results

good

> or bad.

>

> The title of the group is " saline support " . That means support for

> everybody no matter what the situation. The way I see it is if you

> are true to how you feel it shouldn't matter if people side with

you

> are not. I think that is where " peace " is.

>

> What is saline support about to you?

>

>

> Deb