Re: amy/everyone/ EXPLANTED SUPPORT......

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In a message dated 4/28/2004 5:08:09 PM Eastern Standard Time, halvey70@... writes:

This is a group where you can speak your mind and have opinions but the 'rocking the boat' so to speak occurred when you talk about having surgery w/ all the "hehe's" and "lol's". It seemed rude and mocking. For us is is not a laughing matter - this is hard for you to understand as you stated before - if you want something bad enough you will get it. I completely agree with you there - been there

Shari very well put.....and i also agree with T enough is enough this is starting to get me upset too, the heehee's and lol's are not funny and they are rude....lets just all back away if she needs us we're here, if not oh well...........we can't change every mind....maybe we should retitle the group name so that it states that this is for support like "explanted support" this way people that are sick know this is for them and not anyone off the street lining up for boobs can get into, or do a screening before letting someone in....hey a lot of groups do it, like a questionnaire like why did you come here, what are you looking for out of this group etc...and then take it from there.... love to you all BJ just a thought....

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If you read the website it is clearly stated what this group stands

for, it is for those who have been harmed by saline implants, those

who are ill, those seeking help, and finally those who may want to

ask questions before getting implants. We love to help women out with

this decision and i agree if one is set on getting them it is hard to

talk them out of it, however, to come here and ask questions, be

mature and kind and understanding is one thing, if they still want to

get implants I am not going to call them names or belittle them,

however, if they come here making jokes and a mockery of all the

things we have been through, I am not just going to let them do that

to us. We deserve to be treated with respect. This group is a safe

haven for ladies with terrible illness and none of us are emotionally

able to deal with someone coming here and disrespecting us as most of

us have had enough of that from our PS's and dr's and other supposed

support forums. This is a safe haven for victims of implants. Not for

those seeking answeres to what they should wear for their pre op boob

job and hee hee haa haa, that is def for another group.

In , Baboola57@a... wrote:

> In a message dated 4/28/2004 5:08:09 PM Eastern Standard Time,

> halvey70@a... writes:

> This is a group where you can speak your mind and have opinions but

the

> 'rocking the boat' so to speak occurred when you talk about having

surgery w/ all

> the " hehe's " and " lol's " . It seemed rude and mocking. For us is is

not a

> laughing matter - this is hard for you to understand as you stated

before - if you

> want something bad enough you will get it. I completely agree with

you there -

> been there

> Shari very well put.....and i also agree with T enough is enough

this is

> starting to get me upset too, the heehee's and lol's are not funny

and they are

> rude....lets just all back away if she needs us we're here, if not

oh

> well...........we can't change every mind....maybe we should

retitle the group name so

> that it states that this is for support like " explanted support "

this way

> people that are sick know this is for them and not anyone off the

street lining

> up for boobs can get into, or do a screening before letting someone

in....hey a

> lot of groups do it, like a questionnaire like why did you come

here, what

> are you looking for out of this group etc...and then take it from

there....

> love to you all BJ just a thought....