can we all please get along

[Guest guest]

I would just like to say that some of these posts are

disturbing/upsetting me. This is one of the reasons why I left here

last time. We all have different experiences with our plastic

surgeons. Some have good experiences, and others do not. I can vouch

for that one. Even certain topics are not agreed upon. BUT we really

need to stick together as much as possible. If someone here has a

problem, they should address it via email. I have learned to do that.

There are lotsa new, and some old members here, and we do not want to

scare them away. The woman here are are sick, scared,and desperate

for help and advice. We need to focus on helping others. This is a

place where we come to feel comfortable and for advice, and a kind

word. I am not taking sides or being mean, so please, knowone take

this personal. I think that all the woman here have been so helpful

and kind to me. I would not be here today, and improved healthwise if

it were not for some of the advice given here. 'hugs' teresa

[Guest guest]

Thank you - I agree. The bickering has really been upsetting me lately - I have been so sick the last week... I am on neither side either and I fully understand both points but we all can agree to disagree. I had numerous bad experiences with PS's and wish with every breath I have left in me that I had seen Dr. Huang or Dr.Feng or any of the others on the list for my explant but I didn't. I am sure they are all wonderful and maybe I wouldn't be as sick as I am had I seen one of the more experienced ones but it is too late for that. All I have is the support and help I get from you ladies to keep me going - I look so forward to reading my mail when I get the chance so maybe I can help someone new or learn something to help me. It is just sad & disappointing when I get so excited when I see I have 20 new messages and start reading them and 15 are people fighting. Please... I love everyone in the group unconditionally - you all have helped me so much.

love

Shari