Shari

[Guest guest]

Don't beat yourself up over this girlfriend, you were not to blame

for this. It is so hard though isn't it? What happened to us is so

unfair. I lost my daughter due to illness, she was only 7 when I got

my implants. I was so self centered about this, I could have saved

that money for something else, but after all the crap I had been

through (bad marriage and another relationship that was mentally

abusive) huge weight loss, etc I felt I deserved to fix those saggy

boobs. I thought i had so many years to spend with my kid, what was a

few weeks of recovery, but for me those few weeks never ended, I got

sick and then sicker and sicker and my daughter ended up at her dads

almost every day wondering what was wrong with mommmy. After awhile I

got the stregnth enough to try to live a normal life and took her

places like the beach and stuff, but it was so hard I would have to

come home and lay down and rest. It just was not fair to her.

At least your child is young and strong, kids are strong, their

immune systems are much better than ours, he will get over this

sweating is a great way of detoxing.

hang in there.

Hugs