Guest guest Posted November 28, 2008 Report Share Posted November 28, 2008 Give him articles to read or both of you take my class and if he doesn't read all or much, then you will have a reason to say he can't be part of the decision unless he researches as much as youi Sheri At 08:01 AM 11/28/2008, you wrote: >My husband sent this to me this morning. > >http://uk.reuters.com/article/email/idUKTRE4AR24420081128 > >It doesn't seem to matter what evidence I present him with. He still >thinks our daughter should get some of the vaxes. I get so tongue >tied with him when I try to respond to these things. He just thinks >I'm pulling things out of my bum. What are your responses to this? > >Thanks, >Caroline > > >------------------------------------ > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 28, 2008 Report Share Posted November 28, 2008 I feel for you Caroline. My ex was just as block-headed about it. As Sheri has said in the past I believe - 'If he does not read all of the material he does not get to decide'. In this, assumed is the actual absorption of the material you present, not read and deflect with no direct exchange of justification to the opposite. Throwing articles like this at you means he is fundamentally trusting what is out there and paid for by the pharmaceuticals in the media and medical professions. If you can meet on some common ground at a more basic level, he might come to see the light on where the strings lead and why. There is tons of information on that level, historical and current. Good luck, Liz > > My husband sent this to me this morning. > > http://uk.reuters.com/article/email/idUKTRE4AR24420081128 > > It doesn't seem to matter what evidence I present him with. He still > thinks our daughter should get some of the vaxes. I get so tongue > tied with him when I try to respond to these things. He just thinks > I'm pulling things out of my bum. What are your responses to this? > > Thanks, > Caroline > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 28, 2008 Report Share Posted November 28, 2008 I am concerned that a measles epidemic is possible not because of a decrease in MMR uptake, per se, but because of a quantitative and qualitative shift in the extent to which infants under 12 months of age are protected by measles-specific maternal antibodies. I understand that, among women who contract wild-strain measles, their infants will benefit from the presence of maternal antibodies for the first 12 months of life. Conversely, women who did not contract wild-strain measles but who were vaccinated with MMR, their infants will benefit from the presence of maternal antibodies for approximately the first two months of life. Considering that MMR is not administered before 12 months of age, at any given point in time, there exists a very large at-risk population of infants between 2 and 12 months of age who are at great risk of not only contracting measles but also suffering substantial adverse health outcomes should they contract the disease so early in life. Vicky > > > > My husband sent this to me this morning. > > > > http://uk.reuters.com/article/email/idUKTRE4AR24420081128 > > > > It doesn't seem to matter what evidence I present him with. He still > > thinks our daughter should get some of the vaxes. I get so tongue > > tied with him when I try to respond to these things. He just thinks > > I'm pulling things out of my bum. What are your responses to this? > > > > Thanks, > > Caroline > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 28, 2008 Report Share Posted November 28, 2008 Well, you can also say that everyone is at risk for everything. The only measles epidemics these days in developed countries are in VACCINATED people. Some " protection " that vaccine gives. My mother did not breastfeed any of my brothers and me, so I had no benefit of maternal antibodies. There was no MMR vaccine when I was growing up in the 1950's-60's, and I had mumps and rubella (don't even remember the rubella, but a blood test says I had it). No one I know had measles. I didn't die. No one I know died. Two of my kids had the MMR, two didn't. None got measles, mumps or rubella. They're all still alive. However, my oldest had his health ruined by the MMR. But I suppose that's okay as long as he doesn't get measles??? Winnie Re: Measles " epidemic " feared Vaccinations > I am concerned that a measles epidemic is possible not because > of a > decrease in MMR uptake, per se, but because of a quantitative and > qualitative shift in the extent to which infants under 12 months of > age are protected by measles-specific maternal antibodies. I > understand that, among women who contract wild-strain measles, their > infants will benefit from the presence of maternal antibodies > for the > first 12 months of life. Conversely, women who did not contract > wild-strain measles but who were vaccinated with MMR, their infants > will benefit from the presence of maternal antibodies for > approximately the first two months of life. Considering that > MMR is > not administered before 12 months of age, at any given point in time, > there exists a very large at-risk population of infants between > 2 and > 12 months of age who are at great risk of not only contracting measles > but also suffering substantial adverse health outcomes should they > contract the disease so early in life. > > Vicky > > > > > > > > My husband sent this to me this morning. > > > > > > http://uk.reuters.com/article/email/idUKTRE4AR24420081128 > > > > > > It doesn't seem to matter what evidence I present him with. > He still > > > thinks our daughter should get some of the vaxes. I get so tongue > > > tied with him when I try to respond to these things. He > just thinks > > > I'm pulling things out of my bum. What are your responses > to this? > > > > > > Thanks, > > > Caroline > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 28, 2008 Report Share Posted November 28, 2008 As I understand it, the maternal antibodies spoken of come across the placenta, not through breastfeeding. Breastfeeding probably provides additional protection, but everyone gets some through the placenta. And they last for a year, hence why MMR isn't given until then. Except that now that isn't the case with the new generation of mothers who were vaxed instead. I hadn't thought about babies being the victims in a new epidemic. And just picture if that's true, the fear being ramped up to the nth degree, because it's happening to babies, not older children. I fear their fear. Bronwyn Wife to Kurt since 5/02 Mom to: Dorian (7/04) Faith (2/06) Quinn (4/08) and my faithful steed Teo (4/91) since 9/95 From: wharrison@... <wharrison@...> Subject: Re: Re: Measles " epidemic " feared Vaccinations Date: Friday, November 28, 2008, 2:31 PM Well, you can also say that everyone is at risk for everything. The only measles epidemics these days in developed countries are in VACCINATED people. Some " protection " that vaccine gives. My mother did not breastfeed any of my brothers and me, so I had no benefit of maternal antibodies. There was no MMR vaccine when I was growing up in the 1950's-60's, and I had mumps and rubella (don't even remember the rubella, but a blood test says I had it). No one I know had measles. I didn't die. No one I know died. Two of my kids had the MMR, two didn't. None got measles, mumps or rubella. They're all still alive. However, my oldest had his health ruined by the MMR. But I suppose that's okay as long as he doesn't get measles??? Winnie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 28, 2008 Report Share Posted November 28, 2008 I would ask him four things: 1) How many of those 1,049 children were vaccinated? 2) How many in England and Wales who were not vaccinated got measles? 3) How many of those who got measles had severe health problems as a result? 4) How many died? If the answer is 1) most; 2) don't know; 3) none; and 4) none (and I suspect none because you can bet your bippy they'd have mentioned it), then what's the big deal? Winnie Measles " epidemic " feared Vaccinations > My husband sent this to me this morning. > > http://uk.reuters.com/article/email/idUKTRE4AR24420081128 > > It doesn't seem to matter what evidence I present him with. He still > thinks our daughter should get some of the vaxes. I get so tongue > tied with him when I try to respond to these things. He just thinks > I'm pulling things out of my bum. What are your responses to this? > > Thanks, > Caroline > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 28, 2008 Report Share Posted November 28, 2008 Can you delay him " until public school " (5yo)? Sometimes if you postpone the decision it might give more time for the facts to present themselves clearer, even in the media perhaps. He might think clearer when the baby is not a baby anymore and survived perfectly fine. Once the children get to school age it seems easier to understand they have immune systems themselves. <g> -Arlynn Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 28, 2008 Report Share Posted November 28, 2008 You know what I wonder (not truly worry about, but " think about " ) is that all of us kids of the 60's and 70's who got all these shots are no longer " protected " , so if measles, mumps and rubella start springing up again, us old folks (relatively speaking) will be very, very sick. We should have gotten them as little children, when the sickness is not as dangerous. That's the true course of nature. But now we've screwed it up. I'm thinking mumps, measles or rubella at age 43 could be quite dangerous. Thanks, docs!! But there's always a booster, huh? ; ) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 28, 2008 Report Share Posted November 28, 2008 Assuming the vaccines worked. If they didn't--and I don't believe they do--then there's no reason to think that the diseases will be gotten later. It's entirely possible those who were vaxed actually got the disease (as I did with Rubella) and never knew it. It might have been called something else, or it could been mild enough not to have been called anything because you weren't taken to the doc. So, probably nothing to worry about. Sure it can happen, but it doesn't mean automatic death. I do know someone who got chicken pox as an adult 10 years ago and she was covered from head to toe. But then she got over it and was fine. Winnie Re: Measles " epidemic " feared Vaccinations > You know what I wonder (not truly worry about, but " think > about " ) is > that all of us kids of the 60's and 70's who got all these shots > are no > longer " protected " , so if measles, mumps and rubella start > springing up > again, us old folks (relatively speaking) will be very, very > sick. We > should have gotten them as little children, when the sickness is > not as > dangerous. That's the true course of nature. But now we've > screwed it > up. I'm thinking mumps, measles or rubella at age 43 could be > quite > dangerous. Thanks, docs!! But there's always a booster, huh? ; ) > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 28, 2008 Report Share Posted November 28, 2008 People should do the responsible thing and let nature correct itself meaning no booster shots and let measles and mumps happen. Re: Measles " epidemic " feared You know what I wonder (not truly worry about, but " think about " ) is that all of us kids of the 60's and 70's who got all these shots are no longer " protected " , so if measles, mumps and rubella start springing up again, us old folks (relatively speaking) will be very, very sick. We should have gotten them as little children, when the sickness is not as dangerous. That's the true course of nature. But now we've screwed it up. I'm thinking mumps, measles or rubella at age 43 could be quite dangerous. Thanks, docs!! But there's always a booster, huh? ; ) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 29, 2008 Report Share Posted November 29, 2008 measles deaths declined before vaccination so I can't see what the problem is. And measles is harmless in healthy kids and under proper medical care. and they have never proven antibodies are a measure of protection. Vitamin C levels would be a better factor. From: vdebold >I am concerned that a measles epidemic is possible not because of a >decrease in MMR uptake, per se, but because of a quantitative and >qualitative shift in the extent to which infants under 12 months of >age are protected by measles-specific maternal antibodies. I >understand that, among women who contract wild-strain measles, their >infants will benefit from the presence of maternal antibodies for the >first 12 months of life. Conversely, women who did not contract >wild-strain measles but who were vaccinated with MMR, their infants >will benefit from the presence of maternal antibodies for >approximately the first two months of life. Considering that MMR is >not administered before 12 months of age, at any given point in time, >there exists a very large at-risk population of infants between 2 and >12 months of age who are at great risk of not only contracting measles >but also suffering substantial adverse health outcomes should they >contract the disease so early in life. Vicky Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 30, 2008 Report Share Posted November 30, 2008 If you feel tongue tied around your husband, why not get a third party health professional to present the facts for you, without the emotional involvement? Vaccinations have not been proven effective as the diseases we vaccinate against started to decline before mass vaccination programs were started. There are probably some videos on Mercola.com. Wasn't there someone on the board where the children's classmates who had been vaccinated were coming down with the disease and her son who had not been vaccinated was healthy? Health cannot be guaranteed. You just have to take the best care of yourself and your family with the current knowledge we now have. Although I have my children vacinnated (2nd delayed vac.s) I don't see how injecting toxic substances will improve one's health and its a shame that those who choose not to or delay vaccinations are given such a hard time when we just want our children to have a better shot at good health. > > My husband sent this to me this morning. > > http://uk.reuters.com/article/email/idUKTRE4AR24420081128 > > It doesn't seem to matter what evidence I present him with. He still > thinks our daughter should get some of the vaxes. I get so tongue > tied with him when I try to respond to these things. He just thinks > I'm pulling things out of my bum. What are your responses to this? > > Thanks, > Caroline > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 30, 2008 Report Share Posted November 30, 2008 At 09:32 AM 11/30/2008, you wrote: >If you feel tongue tied around your husband, why not get a third party >health professional to present the facts for you, without the emotional >involvement? > >Vaccinations have not been proven effective as the diseases we >vaccinate against started to decline before mass vaccination programs >were started. In some cases, but more importantly, DEATHS from these diseases declined BEFORE the vaccine > There are probably some videos on Mercola.com. Wasn't >there someone on the board where the children's classmates who had been >vaccinated were coming down with the disease and her son who had not >been vaccinated was healthy? Health cannot be guaranteed. You just >have to take the best care of yourself and your family with the current >knowledge we now have. Although I have my children vacinnated (2nd >delayed vac.s) I don't see how injecting toxic substances will improve >one's health and its a shame that those who choose not to or delay >vaccinations are given such a hard time when we just want our children >to have a better shot at good health. I'm confused why you are vaccinating then? There is no safe vaccine ever. Sheri > > > > > > > My husband sent this to me this morning. > > > > http://uk.reuters.com/article/email/idUKTRE4AR24420081128 > > > > It doesn't seem to matter what evidence I present him with. He still > > thinks our daughter should get some of the vaxes. I get so tongue > > tied with him when I try to respond to these things. He just thinks > > I'm pulling things out of my bum. What are your responses to this? > > > > Thanks, > > Caroline > > > > > >------------------------------------ > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 30, 2008 Report Share Posted November 30, 2008 I took my wife to a homeopath and he gave her a 2 hour lecture! She gave up after that, but I was fairly new to the anti-vax thing then john Re: Measles " epidemic " feared If you feel tongue tied around your husband, why not get a third party health professional to present the facts for you, without the emotional involvement? Vaccinations have not been proven effective as the diseases we vaccinate against started to decline before mass vaccination programs were started. There are probably some videos on Mercola.com. Wasn't there someone on the board where the children's classmates who had been vaccinated were coming down with the disease and her son who had not been vaccinated was healthy? Health cannot be guaranteed. You just have to take the best care of yourself and your family with the current knowledge we now have. Although I have my children vacinnated (2nd delayed vac.s) I don't see how injecting toxic substances will improve one's health and its a shame that those who choose not to or delay vaccinations are given such a hard time when we just want our children to have a better shot at good health. > > My husband sent this to me this morning. > > http://uk.reuters.com/article/email/idUKTRE4AR24420081128 > > It doesn't seem to matter what evidence I present him with. He still > thinks our daughter should get some of the vaxes. I get so tongue > tied with him when I try to respond to these things. He just thinks > I'm pulling things out of my bum. What are your responses to this? > > Thanks, > Caroline > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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