Re: There are angels on earth

[Guest guest]

I wanted to tell the group that the people here really are amazing! I got several calls from Shari when she heard that my husband had left me last week. She and her husband have invited me to go to Tampa for a vacation from my devestation. I can't believe that they would open their home to a stranger with an illness and a 2 yr. old boy.

I found out from a friend that had been having an affair for the past 5 months. Instead of him begging for forgiveness, he told me that he fell out of love with me at least a year ago because he couldn't handle my illness. All the Dr.s, meds, and symptoms were to much for him and he said he thinks of me as a friend now. He loves our 2 yr. old but moved out anyway. I had no idea all this was happening.

My heart is broken, I thought that our marriage was solid and that he would stick with it no matter what. I spent the 1st week in bed which proved to him that I am a weak person who depended on him for everything. He misses the strong, fun, energetic girl he married. He said that I have sucked all the life out of him ,and he has been unhappy for yrs. I actually apologized to him for ruining his life, and begged him to stay. I hate the girl I have become.

I'd like to go to Tampa as long as the flights are reasonable. I still can't get over the fact that Shari has opened her home to me and Quinn. She is an amazing girl and her husband must be a saint. Thank God for people like her and also Patty for having this group!!! Love, Daryl

Re: can we all please get along

Thank you - I agree. The bickering has really been upsetting me lately - I have been so sick the last week... I am on neither side either and I fully understand both points but we all can agree to disagree. I had numerous bad experiences with PS's and wish with every breath I have left in me that I had seen Dr. Huang or Dr.Feng or any of the others on the list for my explant but I didn't. I am sure they are all wonderful and maybe I wouldn't be as sick as I am had I seen one of the more experienced ones but it is too late for that. All I have is the support and help I get from you ladies to keep me going - I look so forward to reading my mail when I get the chance so maybe I can help someone new or learn something to help me. It is just sad & disappointing when I get so excited when I see I have 20 new messages and start reading them and 15 are people fighting. Please... I love everyone in the group unconditionally - you all have helped me so much.loveShari