Guest guest Posted May 20, 2004 Report Share Posted May 20, 2004 : A good healthy sex life is normal and healthy(lucky you), be happy! As for past sexuality, I don't know of many women, including myself that don't have regrets in that area--it's part of being human. I wish I had given my virginity to a man other than the one I chose to give it too. He turned out to be an ass! That's how life goes, we live and learn. Hugs, "Jane"naturalbeauty38 <naturalbeauty38@...> wrote: I don't know what the deal is with me but I am always horny, so maybe I have too many hormones ha ha. I don't know, but my hubby sure likes it, no complaints there. I have actually been like that since i turned 30 and it has only gotten worse. Sex was a BIG PART of why i got implants, because when my boobs went south i was so worried I would never have sex again. I got implants really for that reason, all about sex for me. Not really about how i would look in a tank top, more about how I would be able to have sex again and not be self consience. Anyhow it worked out because I love the way I look now and am happy with the little boobs. I have all kinds of tricks to make them look bigger, or to just let them look small, I think men like small breasts because it makes them feel they are with a youthful woman, and my breasts are def youthful looking, as in a 15 year olds breasts! ha ha.I hope you get your sex drive thing figured out, and yeah depression can be a sex killer, or it can drive you the other way into a sex addict, which I have also been through in the past.That is a bad one let me tell ya. Can get ya in lots of bad situations.I am glad that is all behind me now.-C , Jane Doe wrote:> I don't get horney really at all. I think it's because I have low DHEAS and testosterone. I'm going to the gyn on 6/2, I'll have to inquire about that....> Depression is a sex killer too.> > > naturalbeauty38 wrote:> Ann,> > Can I ask you how old you are and if your taking any kind of > synthetic hormones? I am almost 40 and personally have always been > the opposite of most of the women I know, meaning I am like a sex > fiend. I really cannot go more than a day without it without feeling > tense, and when I get my period I become so moody because it messes > with my sex life. Anyhow, I wish I new why some of us are so much > more naturally prone to being sexual than others. I am not sure why I > am this way but I have been my whole life and I don't take anything > at all for it. There were some breast enhancement pills I wasted my > money on and they seemed to make me even more into it but I stopped > taking them awhile ago. I do know that lately I have seen commercials > about some new thing for women, but I cannt for the life of me recall > what it is. I will try to find out for you. I am curious though about > your age, if you are still menstruating etc....or on any synthetic > hormones or birth control pills.> Fill me in and maybe I can be of more help. Also depression and > anxiety can result in a decreased sex drive, so that could be an > issue too. Is this something that has happened slowly over time or > fast? Do you think it could be related to your implants issues? I > know immediately after explant when I was so down on myself I thought > I would never have sex again. For me the number one thing that messes > with my sex drive is my self esteem, if I feel fat, or that I don't > look nice I don't want sex at all. I am very picky about this stuff, > and I guess it is to hubby's advantage because i buy tons of sexy > clothes to wear to make myself feel really hot. To me self esteem is > key, if you have tons of confidence in how you look and feel hot > about yourself, usually that will help your sex drive. I just bought > these 7 inch heels and several sexy dresses and outfits and these > make me feel like a sex kitten, hee hee, not to be too risque' here > but I even do little strip teases and things, it always helps me feel > sexy. It took me awhile to adapt to my smaller boobs, but now I have > figured out what looks good on the small breasted body and there are > allot of things that realy look better on small breasted women in the > lingerie dept. I would try to buy some sexy clothes, some perfume, > take a warm bath, get all dressed up, do fun things like that, > instead of a magic pill I feel our self esteem is the number one > thing that motivates us sexually.> let me know if I can help in any way at all. This is really one of my > favorite topics, hee hee, sex! and I think that this can always be > improved!> hugs> -C> > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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