Re: Re: Work CONSTANT...BJ

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I agree - this is the first time I have seen things getting so nasty and out of whack - I think maybe some people are being too sensitive or taking things completely out of context that are said - I completely understood the "original" message in question and never even thought of it meant in a negative way - was making a point about other family members not understanding out situation that was completely misunderstood. I will be the first to say that I am very emotional since I have become sick but I would never think anyone here would say anything to hurt or offend me - I may not agree with everyone all of the time but we all have a right to express our opinions without being attacked.

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In a message dated 5/14/2004 9:51:57 PM Eastern Standard Time, faussettdp@... writes:

Pam,That's exactly my feeling. I wish the negativitywouldn't even be posted in the first place, but Ifound that the best way to deal with it is to notrespond to it (however, for me if it gets out ofhand,then I have to take necessary steps). But in the long run, responding only continues theagony. I found the best way to respond is to just hitDELETE and forget about it!Patty--- Pam <nannapam3103@...> wrote:> BJ, I've been here since late October and I promise> you, nothing like > this has happened until just recently. I feel the> same as you - > afraid to say anything - that it will be picked> apart and taken the > wrong way. I'm not going to leave though. I just> hope it will > stop. If we don't respond to the negativity,> eventually it will go > away...at least I hope!> > Pam

Patty and Pam,

I agree whole heartedly with the both of you, i know its easy to just delete but the key thing is in order to know whether something is negative or not i have to read it in order to determine to delete lol lol that's the part that bothers me, i can refrain from answering the post because i am not into all that negativity but the thoughts linger in my mind...ya know what i mean lol lol.....I know and speaking for myself that being sick all the time i am overly sensitive and sometimes edgy, and if anyone says something to me that i don't agree on i get more edgy so that is why i don't respond to a lot because i am very sensitive and sometimes i jump before i walk so i feel its best not to say anything until i cool down alittle......its hard to do but i am learning that its me not them.......make any sense????? but i thank you both for your comfort....i will be staying and trying to deal alittle better with all this and trust in the fact that there are people here that will help me....thanks BJ

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In a message dated 5/14/2004 9:17:05 PM Eastern Standard Time, halvey70@... writes:

I agree - this is the first time I have seen things getting so nasty and out of whack - I think maybe some people are being too sensitive or taking things completely out of context that are said - I completely understood the "original" message in question and never even thought of it meant in a negative way - was making a point about other family members not understanding out situation that was completely misunderstood. I will be the first to say that I am very emotional since I have become sick but I would never think anyone here would say anything to hurt or offend me - I may not agree with everyone all of the time but we all have a right to express our opinions without being attacked.

thank you, bingo you hit it on the head.....couldn't of said it better myself as i get a loss for words when i am feeling this out of whack.....i am overly sensitive and i know i am and guess i am proud of it.....shows i have compassion too lol lol and i agree i really didn't thing anyone would hurt or offend me intentionally....and i may not always agree either but hey that's America and lets be thankful we have that right......love ya all BJ