Re: shari: I did something crazy yet satisfying....long email

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Doesn't sound crazy to me.I would have taken it a step further by confronting the doctor with that situation directly.

I wanted to confront my PS about how he butchered and lied to me. I never did--too afraid I'd get an overwhelming urge to kick him in the nuts.bethlakey <bethlakey@...> wrote:

Way to go Shari!Even I don't have the guts to do that. I haven't seen my original PS in ages.You rock,:)Beth> Hello all> > I did the craziest thing today that I just had to share... I guess most of > you know that I am fighting the battle w/ my disability through work. Yesterday > they called and said that they would partial pay but needed medical records > from my other docs since explant (weird - they won't approve me based on fibro > but they will if I can show them a timeline of events showing that I went down > hill since the implants-kinda the opposite of what I thought..)> > Anyways, I had to go today to my ENT's office to sign a release for them to > fill out my med records

form for the disability people. I had my little boy > Logan with me and as usual I felt like crap. I went to the ENT' office who > happens to be the same complex as my original implanting PS. As we were getting > back into the car I was having trouble lifting him into his car seat as usual > and he said "mommy, are you still sick. but why are you so sick?" the same > questions he asks me daily that breaks my heart everytime he says it. something > hit me then - I am not sure what it was but I pulled him back out of the car > and went back into the bldg and down to the PS's office. I walked in and there > were several women in the waiting room filling out paperwork. I just stood > there holding him and didn't say a word for several minutes. The lady behind > the counter asked if she could help me (there were two at the desk) and I said > "No Ma'am... My baby son

here was just asking me why I am sick for the > millionth time and I wanted to bring him here before his mommy dies to let him see the > place that made her sick and the reason why he also was sick. Logan said "is > this a bad doctor mommy?" and I said "well baby.... this is the doctor that > didn't tell mommy the truth and now I have made you sick too and I am sooo, > sooo sorry." (I was tearing up) "This is also the doctor that wouldn't help mommy > after he made her sick when she was begging him for help". Then I smiled, > thanked her, and walked right out the door. that lady's mouth dropped and she > didn't say a word - in the middle of it l looked up and saw that the women in > the waiting room had stopped and were staring at me and my son with the look of > fear in their eyes. Crazy - yes probably but man how good I felt when I left > there. It was like a

ton of bricks of hatred were off of my shoulders.> > just thought I would share that> > love> shari

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Right On Girl! More of us should follow suit. I wish we could picket or somehting outside of these offices. Why can't we sue! Jane Doe <oceanlilly_csu@...> wrote:

Doesn't sound crazy to me.I would have taken it a step further by confronting the doctor with that situation directly.

I wanted to confront my PS about how he butchered and lied to me. I never did--too afraid I'd get an overwhelming urge to kick him in the nuts.bethlakey <bethlakey@...> wrote:

Way to go Shari!Even I don't have the guts to do that. I haven't seen my original PS in ages.You rock,:)Beth> Hello all> > I did the craziest thing today that I just had to share... I guess most of > you know that I am fighting the battle w/ my disability through work. Yesterday > they called and said that they would partial pay but needed medical records > from my other docs since explant (weird - they won't approve me based on fibro > but they will if I can show them a timeline of events showing that I went down > hill since the implants-kinda the opposite of what I thought..)> > Anyways, I had to go today to my ENT's office to sign a release for them to > fill out my med records

form for the disability people. I had my little boy > Logan with me and as usual I felt like crap. I went to the ENT' office who > happens to be the same complex as my original implanting PS. As we were getting > back into the car I was having trouble lifting him into his car seat as usual > and he said "mommy, are you still sick. but why are you so sick?" the same > questions he asks me daily that breaks my heart everytime he says it. something > hit me then - I am not sure what it was but I pulled him back out of the car > and went back into the bldg and down to the PS's office. I walked in and there > were several women in the waiting room filling out paperwork. I just stood > there holding him and didn't say a word for several minutes. The lady behind > the counter asked if she could help me (there were two at the desk) and I said > "No Ma'am... My baby son

here was just asking me why I am sick for the > millionth time and I wanted to bring him here before his mommy dies to let him see the > place that made her sick and the reason why he also was sick. Logan said "is > this a bad doctor mommy?" and I said "well baby.... this is the doctor that > didn't tell mommy the truth and now I have made you sick too and I am sooo, > sooo sorry." (I was tearing up) "This is also the doctor that wouldn't help mommy > after he made her sick when she was begging him for help". Then I smiled, > thanked her, and walked right out the door. that lady's mouth dropped and she > didn't say a word - in the middle of it l looked up and saw that the women in > the waiting room had stopped and were staring at me and my son with the look of > fear in their eyes. Crazy - yes probably but man how good I felt when I left > there. It was like a

ton of bricks of hatred were off of my shoulders.> > just thought I would share that> > love> shari

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After I walked out the door I thought, darn - I should have asked to see him for a minute as I had a quick question and then did it to him. Hindsight..... It was such a spur of the moment thing I really didn't think of what I was gonna do until I got in there. I really don't know what came over me - I have never really done anything like that before. I have just been so depressed lately and he is always asking why I am sick so I just snapped and I am glad I did. My hubby was like "what - oh wow????" he couldn't believe it either. My sister last night said I should do that once a week of consult day!! - who knows, maybe I will!!

love shari

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There's always a next time--lol. I'm sure his secretary told him all about it. Next time go in alone and confront him in front of many of his patients. Be cilvil yet blunt and honest in your feelings.Your honesty will no doubt cause him shame and embarrasment. Keep cool though, you don't want them to accuse you of illegal behavarior. You might want to email him or a friend about what implants did to you and how you feel about it and make COPIES and distrubute these copies on a busy day in his office.This is perfectly legal providing the content is true.

It might help you--a catharsis is usually good in these situations.

As for my former PS, I intend to erect a "name him and shame him" type of website on the Internet.I have medical records to back up what he did to me, so I'm covered.

LMhalvey70@... wrote:

After I walked out the door I thought, darn - I should have asked to see him for a minute as I had a quick question and then did it to him. Hindsight..... It was such a spur of the moment thing I really didn't think of what I was gonna do until I got in there. I really don't know what came over me - I have never really done anything like that before. I have just been so depressed lately and he is always asking why I am sick so I just snapped and I am glad I did. My hubby was like "what - oh wow????" he couldn't believe it either. My sister last night said I should do that once a week of consult day!! - who knows, maybe I will!!love shari

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I think we should get the list of doctors together that put these wretched things in us and make an internet site of doctors who poision women. Can we do that? How far legally can we go. The company that put mine in went bankrupt like in 4 years after mine were implanted, he should of told me that. He shouldn't have lied and said they were mostly saline when they were silicone gel. I thought all along I had saline until they were explanted. A total LIE. I've been collected my story, because appartemntly when I got really sick I would write down my symptoms because I've been applying for disability for a long time. there is an amazing amount of detail and journaling. I didn't find out the implants were what was making me sick until 2 and 1/2 years after a full blown onset. I never suspected they could be ruptured until explant. They were both ruptured intrcapsular and extracapsular. A

lot to find out. but I talked to Dr. Feung's nurse. She said they could have just been leaking slowly. If I continue to improve or if I develop fullblown Lupus is unknown, but I thinkI've improved emensely in just 9.5 months, considering the extent of my condition. I think there's definate hope for anyone who gets them out. See, that's another thing the medical profession dosen't want to tell us. Oh, if you get them out you may not improve and you'll be very unhappy with the way you look. (so in other words, keep them in because you probalby won't get better) B.S. That's another thing THEY NEED TO KNOW, WE DO GET BETTER WHEN WE GET THE POISION BAGS REMOVED. WE DO GET BETTER. I KNOW B.I. MADE ME SICK AND I KNOW I'VE IMPROVED IMMENSELY BECAUSE THEY'RE OUT! I tell everyone I can. I'm out to save every women I can. My chiropractor asked me? If they're not ruptured they

don't cause any problems then right? I said no, the silicone sheds off the outside. I said, if you wife has them you better have her get them out. I said at first you may not suspect the implants our making you sick, but there will be a thread of evidence when you look back, like autoimmune stuff going on. I said most of the symptoms our body aches... (what i didn't say was, once you got the body aches, you've been very impaired. I don't know if I'll ever really shake the fibromyalgia now. I've been going through another series of shoulder-neck-migraine pain, and chest pains and all the way down both arms.I can't sleep on my side. I think there's something wrong with my lungs or heart. I'm not sure and I'm very concerned. the pain at night is almost ER level. I feel like I'm wheezing, but I don't have a cold. My TMJ is excruciating, I get nauseated. I'm studying and sitting upright leaning over a table and my

body is tightening up. I've got constnat headaches. wennt to chirorpractor. Hope someone has advice on this pain.. good night. You go Shari girl. good night ladies. love, michelleJane Doe <oceanlilly_csu@...> wrote:

There's always a next time--lol. I'm sure his secretary told him all about it. Next time go in alone and confront him in front of many of his patients. Be cilvil yet blunt and honest in your feelings.Your honesty will no doubt cause him shame and embarrasment. Keep cool though, you don't want them to accuse you of illegal behavarior. You might want to email him or a friend about what implants did to you and how you feel about it and make COPIES and distrubute these copies on a busy day in his office.This is perfectly legal providing the content is true.

It might help you--a catharsis is usually good in these situations.

As for my former PS, I intend to erect a "name him and shame him" type of website on the Internet.I have medical records to back up what he did to me, so I'm covered.

LMhalvey70@... wrote:

After I walked out the door I thought, darn - I should have asked to see him for a minute as I had a quick question and then did it to him. Hindsight..... It was such a spur of the moment thing I really didn't think of what I was gonna do until I got in there. I really don't know what came over me - I have never really done anything like that before. I have just been so depressed lately and he is always asking why I am sick so I just snapped and I am glad I did. My hubby was like "what - oh wow????" he couldn't believe it either. My sister last night said I should do that once a week of consult day!! - who knows, maybe I will!!love shari

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Hi :

You can say anything you want about your experience with your PS and the implant disaster as long as it's true and you have medical documentation of illness to back it up.

I intend on naming and shaming my PS when I'm strong enough. I have photos taken by doctors, medical records and the opinions of other PSs IN WRITING that what Dr. X did to me was outside of the bounds of standard medical care. I'm covered and intend to expose this man for the type of doctor he is and there's not a darned thing he can do about it.

I'm sorry you received sub-standard medical care. I feel for you

LMmichelle king <michellerking1@...> wrote:

I think we should get the list of doctors together that put these wretched things in us and make an internet site of doctors who poision women. Can we do that? How far legally can we go. The company that put mine in went bankrupt like in 4 years after mine were implanted, he should of told me that. He shouldn't have lied and said they were mostly saline when they were silicone gel. I thought all along I had saline until they were explanted. A total LIE. I've been collected my story, because appartemntly when I got really sick I would write down my symptoms because I've been applying for disability for a long time. there is an amazing amount of detail and journaling. I didn't find out the implants were what was making me sick until 2 and 1/2 years after a full blown onset. I never suspected they could be ruptured until explant. They were both ruptured intrcapsular and extracapsular. A

lot to find out. but I talked to Dr. Feung's nurse. She said they could have just been leaking slowly. If I continue to improve or if I develop fullblown Lupus is unknown, but I thinkI've improved emensely in just 9.5 months, considering the extent of my condition. I think there's definate hope for anyone who gets them out. See, that's another thing the medical profession dosen't want to tell us. Oh, if you get them out you may not improve and you'll be very unhappy with the way you look. (so in other words, keep them in because you probalby won't get better) B.S. That's another thing THEY NEED TO KNOW, WE DO GET BETTER WHEN WE GET THE POISION BAGS REMOVED. WE DO GET BETTER. I KNOW B.I. MADE ME SICK AND I KNOW I'VE IMPROVED IMMENSELY BECAUSE THEY'RE OUT! I tell everyone I can. I'm out to save every women I can. My chiropractor asked me? If they're not ruptured they

don't cause any problems then right? I said no, the silicone sheds off the outside. I said, if you wife has them you better have her get them out. I said at first you may not suspect the implants our making you sick, but there will be a thread of evidence when you look back, like autoimmune stuff going on. I said most of the symptoms our body aches... (what i didn't say was, once you got the body aches, you've been very impaired. I don't know if I'll ever really shake the fibromyalgia now. I've been going through another series of shoulder-neck-migraine pain, and chest pains and all the way down both arms.I can't sleep on my side. I think there's something wrong with my lungs or heart. I'm not sure and I'm very concerned. the pain at night is almost ER level. I feel like I'm wheezing, but I don't have a cold. My TMJ is excruciating, I get nauseated. I'm studying and sitting upright leaning over a table and my

body is tightening up. I've got constnat headaches. wennt to chirorpractor. Hope someone has advice on this pain.. good night. You go Shari girl. good night ladies. love, michelleJane Doe <oceanlilly_csu@...> wrote:

There's always a next time--lol. I'm sure his secretary told him all about it. Next time go in alone and confront him in front of many of his patients. Be cilvil yet blunt and honest in your feelings.Your honesty will no doubt cause him shame and embarrasment. Keep cool though, you don't want them to accuse you of illegal behavarior. You might want to email him or a friend about what implants did to you and how you feel about it and make COPIES and distrubute these copies on a busy day in his office.This is perfectly legal providing the content is true.

It might help you--a catharsis is usually good in these situations.

As for my former PS, I intend to erect a "name him and shame him" type of website on the Internet.I have medical records to back up what he did to me, so I'm covered.

LMhalvey70@... wrote:

After I walked out the door I thought, darn - I should have asked to see him for a minute as I had a quick question and then did it to him. Hindsight..... It was such a spur of the moment thing I really didn't think of what I was gonna do until I got in there. I really don't know what came over me - I have never really done anything like that before. I have just been so depressed lately and he is always asking why I am sick so I just snapped and I am glad I did. My hubby was like "what - oh wow????" he couldn't believe it either. My sister last night said I should do that once a week of consult day!! - who knows, maybe I will!!love shari