Guest guest Posted May 28, 2004 Report Share Posted May 28, 2004 Going and talking to an attorney is not the same as hiring one. It is good to get advice now, ahead of the game. Believe me, I do know what I am talking about. Assets can be hidden, steps can be taken to make you worse off. Now is the time to seek info. and take an inventory of all assets. Lynda At 08:23 AM 5/28/2004, you wrote: >yep, yep, and more yep. Well said. > > > > > > I was so worried about you yesterday. > > > > In your post you said your husband wants you to wait till he gets > > home. (and this gives you hope) > > > > From my experiance (not all the time this happens) but he may just > > what to have you put on hold because he won't be home to file > > himself. If you wait till he gets home there is a 90% chance that >he > > will file after he covers his butt. > > > > You need to see and ATTORNEY NOW! take this time while he is gone >to > > gather all the important paper work you need. > > > > Change the locks on the doors. > > Make sure money has not disappeared from your accounts. > > > > Until the papers are filed he is free to move money, change > > accounts, etc. Once the papers are files he can't touch a thing by > > order of the court. > > > > Even after you file, you can still try to work things out, but you > > and your son will be protected. > > > > One of the reasons he may be leaving is he see's you as weak. > > Show him your not. Make a stand. Make him fight to get you back. > > MAKE HIM BEG. > > > > TODAY AT THIS VERY MOMENT YOU ARE NOW THE GIRL BEFORE YOU GOT >SICK. > > YOU ARE STRONG, AND YOU ARE NOT HIS DOORMATE. > > > > I know I know, your sick , scared, and very emotioal. Just don't >let > > him know that. > > > > I'll try to call you later. > > > > Love Cricket > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 30, 2004 Report Share Posted May 30, 2004 Lynda's right.Lynda <coss@...> wrote: Going and talking to an attorney is not the same as hiring one. It is good to get advice now, ahead of the game. Believe me, I do know what I am talking about. Assets can be hidden, steps can be taken to make you worse off. Now is the time to seek info. and take an inventory of all assets.LyndaAt 08:23 AM 5/28/2004, you wrote:>yep, yep, and more yep. Well said.>>>>> > I was so worried about you yesterday.> >> > In your post you said your husband wants you to wait till he gets> > home. (and this gives you hope)> >> > From my experiance (not all the time this happens) but he may just> > what to have you put on hold because he won't be home to file> > himself. If you wait till he gets home there is a 90% chance that>he> > will file after he covers his butt.> >> > You need to see and ATTORNEY NOW! take this time while he is gone>to> > gather all the important paper work you need.> >> > Change the locks on the doors.> > Make sure money has not disappeared from your accounts.> >> > Until the papers are filed he is free to move money, change> > accounts, etc. Once the papers are files he can't touch a thing by> > order of the court.> >> > Even after you file, you can still try to work things out, but you> > and your son will be protected.> >> > One of the reasons he may be leaving is he see's you as weak.> > Show him your not. Make a stand. Make him fight to get you back.> > MAKE HIM BEG.> >> > TODAY AT THIS VERY MOMENT YOU ARE NOW THE GIRL BEFORE YOU GOT>SICK.> > YOU ARE STRONG, AND YOU ARE NOT HIS DOORMATE.> >> > I know I know, your sick , scared, and very emotioal. Just don't>let> > him know that.> >> > I'll try to call you later.> >> > Love Cricket>>>>> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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