Guest guest Posted May 27, 2004 Report Share Posted May 27, 2004 Dear Darryl, He says all that now, but he is going on feelings. There are days when I adore my husband and days when I can't stand him. I think your husband will be the one to regret his decision. Again, the other woman is probably just that, the other woman. He has only known her 5 months, that is not enough time to build a solid relationship like the one you have shared. At any point, I can't tell you what to do, but I think you need to take charge. BE strong!! Get mad, get more mad!!!! The jerk is leaving you, (sorry, I'm trying to get you fired up here). You have NO promises that he is going to do any of the things he had promised. Get an attorney now!! Do it while he is gone. At this time, I feel based on what you have said, he feels he can walk all over you and is doing it. Make sure you and your son's interests are protected. Do this for yourself. You will have to be in control of your health and your future. I like the other suggestions I have read for you about making goals. Write them down, you can start off with baby steps, and check them off along the way. You will be so proud of yourself Darryl. We are here for you. ps, yes he is right, the person who usually files first typically has the upper hand, i'm assuming he wants to file first, UNBELIEVABLE! :)Beth Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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