Guest guest Posted May 14, 2004 Report Share Posted May 14, 2004 BJ, I've been here since late October and I promise you, nothing like this has happened until just recently. I feel the same as you - afraid to say anything - that it will be picked apart and taken the wrong way. I'm not going to leave though. I just hope it will stop. If we don't respond to the negativity, eventually it will go away...at least I hope! Pam > > > Pam and others: > > > When I stay home I go insane, I know for a fact no one > > > would chose to stay home, NO WAY, if your home it is cause your > too > > > ill to work. I just cannot imagine staying home, I would be > pulling > > > my hair out with boredom. > > > > :eye roll. 'for a fact', eh? What are your sources? 'fact'! > > > > > anyhow, you girls take the time if you can afford it and rest, > and > > > when your all ready to get back to work I am sure you will do it, > > as I doubt anyone really wants to stay home, unless they have small > > > children to keep them busy. > > > > Ah, there's the concession, those small children. But I thought > you > > just told us 'for a fact no one would chose to stay home, NO WAY, > if > > your (sic) home it is cause your too ill to work.' > > > > Ever met a work at home parent who owns their own business? Or > what > > about a homeschooler? Or an adult who cares for their ill parent > at > > home (for no pay)? Or a writer? > > > > I don't know if you realize it but your credibility decreases when > > you make statements like these. If you have an opinion, we're all > > ears. But when you attempt to state a 'fact' and make sweeping > > generalizations including derogatory comments about other women > (who > > you cannot know a thing about), it is unfair and just plain false. > > > > You know i am very new to this group and right now i am about ready to leave > it, i want and need help so badly and this constant petty picking is driving > me crazy, i am so afraid to say or ask anything here without it being twisted > and turned into some none important arguing......i am so far beyond that in my > life and if i wanted it i would just look around my everyday life and get it, > i thought i was safe here but it looks like i am not, all i want is people who > understand and can talk to me like an adult and can help, not pick apart > everything thats said , i love this group but this stuff really should stop, it > stifles people from being honest and being able to express anything they > feel......or think.....P.S whose side are we on anyways........ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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