Daryl

[Guest guest]

I am so glad that you our back on line with us. It was good talking

to you the other night I just wish it had been under better

circumstances.

I can tell you this. You will feel better by taking positive baby

steps. Taking back control, and not acting like the victim.

When my husband walked out on me. I cryed for a couple of weeks

(pity party) and than I went and got box's, I packed up all his

crap, I called the attonory, I filed for divorce.

You did nothing wrong except get sick. I know that you say he is a

wonderful man. But a REAL MAN would not run out on his sick wife and

child. I had to come to relize that my was a nice guy, but he

was not a MAN. These guys really need to grow up. Life is not

perfect and stuff goes wrong. When you are a grow up you have to

learn to face the bad stuff HEAD ON. What is so sad, is that these

guys will always be runners. Where all of this has made me stronger

and wiser, and I can look at myself in the mirror an know that I did

ever thing I could, I gave it my all. I feel sorry for them.

You are going to get your health back and you are going to have a

wonderful life and move on. Your husband in a couple of years will

regret what he has done and this will stay with him for the rest of

his life. When his son is around 16 and asks his dad what happened,

he's going to have to look him in the eye and tell his son that he

left you guys because you were sick. Talk about losing the repect of

your child.

Daryl, look in the yellow pages for an attonory. Most will see you

the first time with out a charge. Go to a couple before you decied.

take your medical records with you. I don't care how much your

husband tells you that he is going to help you not to worry. All

this changes TRUST ME ON THIS, You need to make sure that you and

your son are taken care of. IN WRITTING from the courts. Because you

have not been married 10 years you will not get spoual support for

very long, unless you can prove that you are disabled. You need a

good attorny to do this.

Please Please Please don't put your furture and your son's furture

in the hands of the man that walked out on you and your son.

As you can see, his word means nothing.

I am sorry for being so blunt. But this is to important not to be.

Honey start taking your baby steps, Call an attorney today.

Love Cricket