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> Has anyone had any experience with seasonal affective disorder? Supposedly

the lessening in daylight hours has an effect on serotonin levels etc. Some

people do some kind of light therapy all though the winter months.

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Dear All

Follow the work of Ott who published a book " Health and Light.Also

Dr. Damien Downing who published " Day Light Robery "

There is a great deal of Info on the web but I can personally attest to the

usefulness of using additional blue violet from a black light fluoro as used

in discos etc.

A fair amount of work has been done on learning and behavioural outcomes

using so called full spectrum lighting which involves using high colour

fidelity lighting as used by printers and painters who have to accurately

colour match ( 5500K) supplemented with the black light fluoros.

Windsor

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Hi ,

I don't know much about SAD, my mom has it and " fixed herself " by going to

Mexico every winter. Obviously that's not an option, but I did see something

in the last week about sick building syndrome and it's relationship between

people who had offices with windows vs. people with no windows(they had more

sick days and were more depressed). I thought maybe there might be a

relationship, and having him sit near windows at school and home may help.

The report also talked about the value of skylights. I know that right after

all my babies were born, we kept them in direct sunlight to clear up their

jaundice. Maybe there is something to it?

Sincerly,

SAD

> Has anyone had any experience with seasonal affective disorder? Supposedly

the lessening in daylight hours has an effect on serotonin levels etc. Some

people do some kind of light therapy all though the winter months.

>

> I am asking because this time every year, after an initial good start back

to school my son takes a dive. He clearly is perseverating more and

teachers have said that he has really increased nervous stims over the past

few weeks.

>

> Of course we think of allergies and the other usual suspects but I am just

interested to learn more about this light thing. Thanks,

>

>

>

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Hi Friends...thigs are rough emotionally. I have to have an MRI and

went to the new " Open " type as I am very overweight. Well, my weight is

no problem, but my size is. I'm only 5'2 " and I'm, truly, as big around

as I am tall. I couldn't fit!!! I really worked on getting some

weight/bloating down ovr th next ten days, but in a healthy way. I went

to the MRI again. I fit part of the way, but not enough. The tech has

been very sweet, and encouraged me to keep up the good work and come

back next week as I am very close to being able to have the MRI done.

So, my MRI appointment is for next Monday, and my neurosurgeon

appointment is Wednesday. I have to see him whether or not I have MRI

films to bring.

One Dr. is encouraging me to have bariatric surgery - gastric bypass -

but I'm not sure if that is really wise to do. Besides, I have

insurance through the state for low income folks and they don't cover

that surgery without a long and lengthy battle, which I am not up to.

I'm a " glass half full " girl, and I count my blessings, of which I have

any. I know today is just one of those rouh patches. I just need some

encouragement and support. Thank you all for being here.

Hoping....

Tess

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Tess,

I'm very sorry that you're feeling so discouraged. Of course you do.

It's humiliating to have gone through what you did. Bless the technician

for being kind.

Those MRI machines, even the open ones, don't have much room for the

subject. I wish they would come up with devices that could accommodate a

more realistic range of body types. Believe me, you are not the first

person to have this problem.

I wish I could be there to give you a hug and tell you that it's OK.

Don't feel bad. Your size is nothing to feel ashamed about.

Instead of a gastric bypass that your one doctor is recommending, maybe

laparoscopic adjustable gastric banding (LAGB) would be a less-invasive

and, perhaps, less-expensive option. I would ask your doctor's opinion

about it. Maybe, too, your insurance would more readily cover it.

http://www.bioenterics.com/us/surgeon/lapband/

http://www.reutershealth.com/frame2/arch.html

Hang in there. I'll be thinking of you.

Hugs,

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> Hi Friends...thigs are rough emotionally. I have to have an MRI and

> went to the new " Open " type as I am very overweight. Well, my weight

is

> no problem, but my size is. I'm only 5'2 " and I'm, truly, as big

around

> as I am tall. I couldn't fit!!! I really worked on getting some

> weight/bloating down ovr th next ten days, but in a healthy way. I

went

> to the MRI again. I fit part of the way, but not enough. The tech

has

> been very sweet, and encouraged me to keep up the good work and come

> back next week as I am very close to being able to have the MRI done.

> So, my MRI appointment is for next Monday, and my neurosurgeon

> appointment is Wednesday. I have to see him whether or not I have MRI

> films to bring.

>

> One Dr. is encouraging me to have bariatric surgery - gastric bypass -

> but I'm not sure if that is really wise to do. Besides, I have

> insurance through the state for low income folks and they don't cover

> that surgery without a long and lengthy battle, which I am not up to.

>

> I'm a " glass half full " girl, and I count my blessings, of which I

have

> any. I know today is just one of those rouh patches. I just need

some

> encouragement and support. Thank you all for being here.

>

> Hoping....

>

> Tess

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HI Tess, Just wanted to encourage you to hang in there....This too shall

pass....It's really tough when those bad days come but they do help us enjoy

the good days to the fullest. I went by today to see my nephew to check on

his 4 yr. old son who has been battling cancer since his 1st birthday. This

little kid never lets up; he bounces through his treatments, tolerates the

times he does feel bad but most of the time he is enjoying life to the

fullest. He has really been a ray of HOPE to me in my ordeal. Hope that today

you can look for that Ray of Sunshine.

Be Blessed,

Becky

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Tess I know how you feel I am only 4'11 and weigh 200 lbs but it does us no

good to be hard on ourselves. You sound like you are doing the right things hope

you have sunnier days :) with love Kat in Fla. I will be praying for you.

Tess_St_Pierre@... wrote: Hi Friends...thigs are rough emotionally. I

have to have an MRI and

went to the new " Open " type as I am very overweight. Well, my weight is

no problem, but my size is. I'm only 5'2 " and I'm, truly, as big around

as I am tall. I couldn't fit!!! I really worked on getting some

weight/bloating down ovr th next ten days, but in a healthy way. I went

to the MRI again. I fit part of the way, but not enough. The tech has

been very sweet, and encouraged me to keep up the good work and come

back next week as I am very close to being able to have the MRI done.

So, my MRI appointment is for next Monday, and my neurosurgeon

appointment is Wednesday. I have to see him whether or not I have MRI

films to bring.

One Dr. is encouraging me to have bariatric surgery - gastric bypass -

but I'm not sure if that is really wise to do. Besides, I have

insurance through the state for low income folks and they don't cover

that surgery without a long and lengthy battle, which I am not up to.

I'm a " glass half full " girl, and I count my blessings, of which I have

any. I know today is just one of those rouh patches. I just need some

encouragement and support. Thank you all for being here.

Hoping....

Tess

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Hello Group,

I as well have not posted in a few weeks and don't

have a good excuse. I am sorry as well for all not

having a great time and I as well didn't know how much

June lighting a candle would help until this morning.

More in a different post.

So I do thank you and also, welcome to all the new

comers you are in the right place with wonderful

people.

My love and prayers, Sheri

--- june dixon <juner24@...> wrote:

> Hi Tess,I am so sorry for what you have had to

> endure. Good luck in getting your weight down,it is

> a huge struggle for most arthritic people to lose

> weight and I commend you for your efforts.

>

> Today I decided to make today a candle day for

> everyone on the list who is hurting emotionally and

> physically. I am watching the Olympic closing

> ceremonies and burning my red (bravery) candle.

>

> Hugs

> June

>

>

> [Non-text portions of this message have been

> removed]

>

>

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hi tess, i know it can all be quite overwhelming. you should write down your

questions that are concerning you, call the nurse. maybe even get a second

opinion. it is your body. i did the surgery on my hands and it was great. did

the surgery on my feet. well.... a little better. my dr told me my feet would

be easier than my hands. he was wrong!!!! just like they told me my hip would

be in more pain than my hand. (they took a piece of bone from my hip and put

it in my wrist.) that was wrong too. i think if it were me, i'd do the back

thing and let the tonsils wait. you have lived this long with them. let us

know what happens. kathy in il

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Tess: Sorry you are so overwhelmed. This little poem came to mind, hope it

helps you:

After the clouds, the sunshine; after the winter, the spring; after the

shower, the rainbow, for life is a changeable thing.

Remember, you are not alone, we all h ave been there. I will keep you in my

thoughts and prayers and may you see the rainbow beyond the clouds.

Love & Prayers,

Jan in SC

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Dearest Tess. I'm so sorry to hear how overwhelmed you are feeling. I

understand and share the desire to just get better. You will be in my

prayers.

Hugs,

Carol in FL

[ ] sad

Hi Friends...I am feeling weary & overwelmed with the various problems,

Physical therapy,surgeries being discussed. I just want to get better,

feel better. Please keep me in your thoughts & prayers.

Love...

Tess

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I'm so sorry you're feeling overwhelmed and worn down, Tess. It must be

unnerving to have so many critical decisions to make. Try to keep

focused on the goal - much better health. You can do it!

You bet you're in my prayers!

[ ] sad

> Hi Friends...I am feeling weary & overwelmed with the various

problems,

> Physical therapy,surgeries being discussed. I just want to get

better,

> feel better. Please keep me in your thoughts & prayers.

>

> Love...

>

> Tess

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Tess,

It can be overwhelming, but please just take one step at a time. I will keep

you in

my prayers that you will find the strength to deal with whatever life brings

you.

hugs,

a

[ ] sad

Hi Friends...I am feeling weary & overwelmed with the various problems,

Physical therapy,surgeries being discussed. I just want to get better,

feel better. Please keep me in your thoughts & prayers.

Love...

Tess

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Tess,

Sending my prayers and love to you during this stressful time. I think that

these life altering decisions are part of the RA process. You can't get one

thing without sacrificing the other. Having said that, though, I do feel

that you have good communication with your medical team and the correct

answers will come. I have also been offered the gastric bypass surgery and

can't say that I am ready to sign on the dotted line yet. Although, the

results are EXTREMELY IMPRESSIVE under the right circumstances. Right now, I

too, am facing more knee surgery, possible back surgery, gastric bypass

surgery and let me not forget, the wonderful insurance problem. I am trying

to take one thing at a time and put one foot in front of the other to try to

get through these days. Yesterday the stress of everything just got to me

too much and I was in bed fast asleep before my daughter's boyfriend even

left. Good thing Ron was up and keeping guard. Don't feel a heck of a lot

better this am and hate to take all the medication to get thru another day.

Well, the weather is HOT here, like everywhere else it seems, and I will take

some pleasure in continuing to fix up the back yard, well watching Ron due

the work actually! We are now ready for the furniture and the fountain to go

in.

Look for the little things in life to seek happiness and help you make these

decisions, the answers WILL come! Hang in there, we are ALWAYS here and

can't tell you the right answers, but sure do have good ears to listen!

Enjoy the springtime weather and take time to smell the flowers!

Gentle, tender, decision making angel hugs,

Debs in FL

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Tess...your feelings are fine whatever they are...you are in my

thoughts...sounds like you have good plans for your hospital trip...and your

family is kicking in....I'll be thinking of you....marge

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> OK, here come the tears. I've only cried one other time about this, but

> boy am I feeling sad right now. Way more sad than scared. I think I feel

> just a bit ticked off, too. First of all, I have 4 beautiful, wonderful

> kids who I would not trade for anything. They are my heart, and bless me

> beyond measure (they are adopted). But, I think back to those days of

> wanting to get pregnant so badly, seeing all my friends touch their

> tummies and feel their babies. My first thought is what was so wrong

> with me that I couldn't have that experience? It's so normal and natural

> and a bazillion women have no problems. Of course I know I'm a bit off

> the wall here. None of us experience every blessing in life. Besides,

> why not me? For whatever reason, that was the way it was. I am 52

> and probably wouldn't choose to have a baby now even if I could. It's

> being Grammi time, and I love that. But I am so sad for the girl I was

> in her 20's & 30's who hoped every month there would be a lovely

> surprise, but was left broken-hearted. I guess saying good-bye to that

> dream is hitting me pretty hard now. Tears are ok, they need to come

> out.

>

>

> Love You All...

>

> Tess

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