Guest guest Posted August 17, 2003 Report Share Posted August 17, 2003 There's nothing wrong with tears. Sometimes you have to let them out. Every change in your life does cause you to grieve a little, and that's fine. Best of luck to you, and I hope it all goes well. Noreen [ ] sad OK, here come the tears. I've only cried one other time about this, but boy am I feeling sad right now. Way more sad than scared. I think I feel just a bit ticked off, too. First of all, I have 4 beautiful, wonderful kids who I would not trade for anything. They are my heart, and bless me beyond measure (they are adopted). But, I think back to those days of wanting to get pregnant so badly, seeing all my friends touch their tummies and feel their babies. My first thought is what was so wrong with me that I couldn't have that experience? It's so normal and natural and a bazillion women have no problems. Of course I know I'm a bit off the wall here. None of us experience every blessing in life. Besides, why not me? For whatever reason, that was the way it was. I am 52 and probably wouldn't choose to have a baby now even if I could. It's being Grammi time, and I love that. But I am so sad for the girl I was in her 20's & 30's who hoped every month there would be a lovely surprise, but was left broken-hearted. I guess saying good-bye to that dream is hitting me pretty hard now. Tears are ok, they need to come out. Love You All... Tess Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 17, 2003 Report Share Posted August 17, 2003 Tess, I understand what you are saying. If I were in your shoes I would probably feel the same way. That is how I look at things. I'm sure that it is a little natural for some to feel the way that you do. Why couldn't it work for you as a younger woman and why does it have to work the way it is working now that you have to have it out. Reasons that are just beyond us I guess. Cry if you like as that can be therapeutic. Hope that after the surgery and all is going well that your spirits will also. Hugs and prayers Terri [ ] sad OK, here come the tears. I've only cried one other time about this, but boy am I feeling sad right now. Way more sad than scared. I think I feel just a bit ticked off, too. First of all, I have 4 beautiful, wonderful kids who I would not trade for anything. They are my heart, and bless me beyond measure (they are adopted). But, I think back to those days of wanting to get pregnant so badly, seeing all my friends touch their tummies and feel their babies. My first thought is what was so wrong with me that I couldn't have that experience? It's so normal and natural and a bazillion women have no problems. Of course I know I'm a bit off the wall here. None of us experience every blessing in life. Besides, why not me? For whatever reason, that was the way it was. I am 52 and probably wouldn't choose to have a baby now even if I could. It's being Grammi time, and I love that. But I am so sad for the girl I was in her 20's & 30's who hoped every month there would be a lovely surprise, but was left broken-hearted. I guess saying good-bye to that dream is hitting me pretty hard now. Tears are ok, they need to come out. Love You All... Tess Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 17, 2003 Report Share Posted August 17, 2003 Tess, I'm sorry you're feeling down about what wasn't. I can understand that. It's good to cry. Let the tears come. [ ] sad OK, here come the tears. I've only cried one other time about this, but boy am I feeling sad right now. Way more sad than scared. I think I feel just a bit ticked off, too. First of all, I have 4 beautiful, wonderful kids who I would not trade for anything. They are my heart, and bless me beyond measure (they are adopted). But, I think back to those days of wanting to get pregnant so badly, seeing all my friends touch their tummies and feel their babies. My first thought is what was so wrong with me that I couldn't have that experience? It's so normal and natural and a bazillion women have no problems. Of course I know I'm a bit off the wall here. None of us experience every blessing in life. Besides, why not me? For whatever reason, that was the way it was. I am 52 and probably wouldn't choose to have a baby now even if I could. It's being Grammi time, and I love that. But I am so sad for the girl I was in her 20's & 30's who hoped every month there would be a lovely surprise, but was left broken-hearted. I guess saying good-bye to that dream is hitting me pretty hard now. Tears are ok, they need to come out. Love You All... Tess Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 31, 2004 Report Share Posted May 31, 2004 It saddens me that there has to be so much bickering. Imparticularly I get really sick and tired of so many people critisizing the Dr who saved me from Deformity and from illness and changed my entire life. For those of you who do not like or agree with Dr Feng's way of doing business I suggest you just simply go to another Dr. She did a great job and I am happy, so can everyone please quit putting her down. She has done probably more explants than any other PS out there, especially saline, her practice is EXTREMELY busy and it is hard to get in. I am not in charge of what or how she bills, so stop taking it out on me. I am weary of this issue. No one has to go to her just because I happen to think she is the best, and no one is going to change my mind about it, so lets move on. thanks and have a nice holiday. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 8, 2004 Report Share Posted December 8, 2004 Christy I am new here to and thought it was a good support site but, i feel there is too much gossip on and off the site for my taste. I also feel that accusing people of doing things without knowing it for sure is immature. I am glad you are happy here and feel you are getting what you need. I don't feel that way. For that reason and a few others I will be leaving. Good luck to you SodaRene2@... wrote: - I honestly don't think people were trying to be mean. It sounds like muff has a history with this site and has been using different names to start trouble. I do not know for sure because I am new here as well. However, I received an e-mail saying that L.M. and other names have been used by somebody to come on here and bad mouth others. Maybe that is what happened here or maybe somebody confused muff with somebody else. Anyhow...the women here have been a tremendous help to me and to countless others. I cannot imagine anybody intentionally trying to hurt someone else. I think there is more to it then we know about. Most importantly...this is a place you can come to for help and support so please don't ever think otherwise. Christy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 8, 2004 Report Share Posted December 8, 2004 , There is no accusing without knowing. We know. We have been here, have experienced, and we know. Please trust us when we tell you that there are trouble makers afoot and mufflil is none other than one who has been removed from this site at least three times. Lynda At 03:27 PM 12/8/2004, you wrote: >Christy > >I am new here to and thought it was a good support site but, i feel there >is too much gossip on and off the site for my taste. I also feel that >accusing people of doing things without knowing it for sure is immature. I >am glad you are happy here and feel you are getting what you need. I don't >feel that way. >For that reason and a few others I will be leaving. > >Good luck to you > > > >SodaRene2@... wrote: >- > >I honestly don't think people were trying to be mean. It sounds like muff >has a history with this site and has been using different names to start >trouble. I do not know for sure because I am new here as well. However, >I received an e-mail saying that L.M. and other names have been used by >somebody to come on here and bad mouth others. Maybe that is what >happened here or maybe somebody confused muff with somebody else. > >Anyhow...the women here have been a tremendous help to me and to countless >others. I cannot imagine anybody intentionally trying to hurt someone >else. I think there is more to it then we know about. > >Most importantly...this is a place you can come to for help and support so >please don't ever think otherwise. > >Christy > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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