Re: Re: UPSET RE FRIEND! (oops - typo!)

[Guest guest]

Sometimes I get fed up with asking about

others, my mum who has now passed away used to say I got too involved

as does my partner, I have scoliosis and respiratory failure myself and

am always asking about others rather than look after myself, I have

just recovered from a chest infection.  I use a ventilator at night.

I don't like moaning but people think my disability is very minor including my

friend! I'm sure that if she has anything major her family will tell me!! If

they do I will be the first to give sympathy, I don't want sympathy but haven't

even eaten tonight with all the upset!  It seems that everytime I am ill or me

or my partner needs support I always seem to find someone worse off, I think you

can do too much sometimes, my mum used to say I thought of others too much

too!  She and my father used to do a lot of voluntary work but she was told off

herself for doing too much fora  friend as it used to make her ill and

stressed.

From: elan_spire <elan_spire@...>

Subject: Re: UPSET RE FRIEND! (oops - typo!)

gallstones

Date: Wednesday, 13 January, 2010, 19:51

 

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> maybe it's just best to be with her just as she as best you can

That should read:

be with her just as she IS as best you can...