Guest guest Posted September 1, 2008 Report Share Posted September 1, 2008 Dear Kate, I think it may be beneficial to give your doctor a brochure IF you ask him to look online to see other articles to support your medication failures. If you share with him that you are in touch with Still's patients world wide that have failed and then tried different biologics with success, do you think he may listen? Maybe he will find something there at the International Still's Disease Foundation site. It is www.stillsdisease.org <http://www.stillsdisease.org/> and we do and Bob will send you brochures to anywhere in the world that requests them. Simply email him at Oldgoat378@... and give him your postal address and request for as many as you wish to receive. Good luck dear and please let us know how you fare. If anyone has got any thoughts on how I can get the message across I'd be really grateful. If anyone in the UK has gone through this or has found some info to give to their GP, I'd also be really grateful. If you think the brochures might be a good way forward,can they be sent to us in the UK? Best wishes to everyone Kate (UK) ____________________________________________________________ Save on Cell Phones. Click Now! http://thirdpartyoffers.netzero.net/TGL2241/fc/Ioyw6i4uMmK7f9GsOc8T18N14b1qWNG96\ mtHGR8cLVp4ZVXLktAqce/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 1, 2008 Report Share Posted September 1, 2008 Dear Kate, I think it may be beneficial to give your doctor a brochure IF you ask him to look online to see other articles to support your medication failures. If you share with him that you are in touch with Still's patients world wide that have failed and then tried different biologics with success, do you think he may listen? Maybe he will find something there at the International Still's Disease Foundation site. It is www.stillsdisease.org <http://www.stillsdisease.org/> and we do and Bob will send you brochures to anywhere in the world that requests them. Simply email him at Oldgoat378@... and give him your postal address and request for as many as you wish to receive. Good luck dear and please let us know how you fare. If anyone has got any thoughts on how I can get the message across I'd be really grateful. If anyone in the UK has gone through this or has found some info to give to their GP, I'd also be really grateful. If you think the brochures might be a good way forward,can they be sent to us in the UK? Best wishes to everyone Kate (UK) ____________________________________________________________ Save on Cell Phones. Click Now! http://thirdpartyoffers.netzero.net/TGL2241/fc/Ioyw6i4uMmK7f9GsOc8T18N14b1qWNG96\ mtHGR8cLVp4ZVXLktAqce/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 2, 2008 Report Share Posted September 2, 2008 Kate I went threw this my self here in the USA . what i did was two things first I printi=ed off a lot of info I did find on the web and gave it to my doc then asked them for a referal to a second doc just to make shure we were both on the same page . well he would not give me one so in the end I did change to a new doc and it was the best thing i did . it is not easy getting a doc to understand when there not open to ideas or illness there closed off to and seconed it is also hard to educate some one who is not open to learning about some thing they may not belive in to begain with as was my case , both lead me to finding a new doc and in the end it ws a blessing . the first change came in my primary doc and then when he refered me to my rummy that set of the second change and now i would be upset if i had to change again . now we do not always see eye to eye but i know they both belive there is an illness called stills and one will treat me for it and the other knows it is out of his area of work but will fight to help me find some one that will work with me it has not been easy and for me this was a 5 year road I travield to get here so best of luck to you but never just give up always keep trying as we never knw what may be the trigger that sets thig off in our favore hugs the rednecks Marty & G. the redneck's my space http://www.myspace.com/martyg58 Stills ; An illness I know to well! To learn about Stills http://www.stillsdisease.org/stills_info If you find yourself in a hole, the first thing to do is stop diggin'. In the old days a man who saved money was a miser; nowadays he's a wonder. ~Author Unknown " Taking my gun away because I might shoot someone is like cutting my tongue out because I might yell `Fire!' in a crowded theater. " -- Venetoklis a government and its agents are under no general duty to provide public services, such as police protection, to any particular individual citizen... -- Warren v. District of Columbia, 444 A.2d 1 (D.C. App.181) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 2, 2008 Report Share Posted September 2, 2008 Kate I went threw this my self here in the USA . what i did was two things first I printi=ed off a lot of info I did find on the web and gave it to my doc then asked them for a referal to a second doc just to make shure we were both on the same page . well he would not give me one so in the end I did change to a new doc and it was the best thing i did . it is not easy getting a doc to understand when there not open to ideas or illness there closed off to and seconed it is also hard to educate some one who is not open to learning about some thing they may not belive in to begain with as was my case , both lead me to finding a new doc and in the end it ws a blessing . the first change came in my primary doc and then when he refered me to my rummy that set of the second change and now i would be upset if i had to change again . now we do not always see eye to eye but i know they both belive there is an illness called stills and one will treat me for it and the other knows it is out of his area of work but will fight to help me find some one that will work with me it has not been easy and for me this was a 5 year road I travield to get here so best of luck to you but never just give up always keep trying as we never knw what may be the trigger that sets thig off in our favore hugs the rednecks Marty & G. the redneck's my space http://www.myspace.com/martyg58 Stills ; An illness I know to well! To learn about Stills http://www.stillsdisease.org/stills_info If you find yourself in a hole, the first thing to do is stop diggin'. In the old days a man who saved money was a miser; nowadays he's a wonder. ~Author Unknown " Taking my gun away because I might shoot someone is like cutting my tongue out because I might yell `Fire!' in a crowded theater. " -- Venetoklis a government and its agents are under no general duty to provide public services, such as police protection, to any particular individual citizen... -- Warren v. District of Columbia, 444 A.2d 1 (D.C. App.181) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 2, 2008 Report Share Posted September 2, 2008 Kate I went threw this my self here in the USA . what i did was two things first I printi=ed off a lot of info I did find on the web and gave it to my doc then asked them for a referal to a second doc just to make shure we were both on the same page . well he would not give me one so in the end I did change to a new doc and it was the best thing i did . it is not easy getting a doc to understand when there not open to ideas or illness there closed off to and seconed it is also hard to educate some one who is not open to learning about some thing they may not belive in to begain with as was my case , both lead me to finding a new doc and in the end it ws a blessing . the first change came in my primary doc and then when he refered me to my rummy that set of the second change and now i would be upset if i had to change again . now we do not always see eye to eye but i know they both belive there is an illness called stills and one will treat me for it and the other knows it is out of his area of work but will fight to help me find some one that will work with me it has not been easy and for me this was a 5 year road I travield to get here so best of luck to you but never just give up always keep trying as we never knw what may be the trigger that sets thig off in our favore hugs the rednecks Marty & G. the redneck's my space http://www.myspace.com/martyg58 Stills ; An illness I know to well! To learn about Stills http://www.stillsdisease.org/stills_info If you find yourself in a hole, the first thing to do is stop diggin'. In the old days a man who saved money was a miser; nowadays he's a wonder. ~Author Unknown " Taking my gun away because I might shoot someone is like cutting my tongue out because I might yell `Fire!' in a crowded theater. " -- Venetoklis a government and its agents are under no general duty to provide public services, such as police protection, to any particular individual citizen... -- Warren v. District of Columbia, 444 A.2d 1 (D.C. App.181) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 2, 2008 Report Share Posted September 2, 2008 Hi Kate, I went through a few PCP docs before I found a Rheumy that believed in me, and it was years he stood by me before we could properly diagnose Still's. And like you, I'm going through treatment after treatment and nothing is really working well for me, not enough to get me out of this flare. All I can say is that you NEED a doc that believes in you, your disease, and the fact that together you will come up with a treatment plan that works for you eventually, but you both need to be committed to hanging in there while you tweak doses, add things, try new things, etc..... find a doc you can believe in and who believes in you. hugs, Jo In a message dated 9/1/2008 8:49:38 A.M. Eastern Daylight Time, Weekskate1979@... writes: failed, he seems to have totally lost interest in me. He seems to **************It's only a deal if it's where you want to go. Find your travel deal here. (http://information.travel.aol.com/deals?ncid=aoltrv00050000000047) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 2, 2008 Report Share Posted September 2, 2008 Hi Kate, I went through a few PCP docs before I found a Rheumy that believed in me, and it was years he stood by me before we could properly diagnose Still's. And like you, I'm going through treatment after treatment and nothing is really working well for me, not enough to get me out of this flare. All I can say is that you NEED a doc that believes in you, your disease, and the fact that together you will come up with a treatment plan that works for you eventually, but you both need to be committed to hanging in there while you tweak doses, add things, try new things, etc..... find a doc you can believe in and who believes in you. hugs, Jo In a message dated 9/1/2008 8:49:38 A.M. Eastern Daylight Time, Weekskate1979@... writes: failed, he seems to have totally lost interest in me. He seems to **************It's only a deal if it's where you want to go. Find your travel deal here. (http://information.travel.aol.com/deals?ncid=aoltrv00050000000047) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 2, 2008 Report Share Posted September 2, 2008 Hi Kate, I went through a few PCP docs before I found a Rheumy that believed in me, and it was years he stood by me before we could properly diagnose Still's. And like you, I'm going through treatment after treatment and nothing is really working well for me, not enough to get me out of this flare. All I can say is that you NEED a doc that believes in you, your disease, and the fact that together you will come up with a treatment plan that works for you eventually, but you both need to be committed to hanging in there while you tweak doses, add things, try new things, etc..... find a doc you can believe in and who believes in you. hugs, Jo In a message dated 9/1/2008 8:49:38 A.M. Eastern Daylight Time, Weekskate1979@... writes: failed, he seems to have totally lost interest in me. He seems to **************It's only a deal if it's where you want to go. Find your travel deal here. (http://information.travel.aol.com/deals?ncid=aoltrv00050000000047) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 3, 2008 Report Share Posted September 3, 2008 Look up GRASP. Hold on, and I'll do it for you ... ... It's www.grasp.org I know they have adult groups, and I think they've got teen ones too. If anyone will know, it'll be (the head of it, MJ Carley). Also, there may be parent support groups near you. We all know about rough days, so you aren't alone. Love, Francine In a message dated 9/3/2008 1:26:51 A.M. Eastern Daylight Time, fdabull@... writes: I am the mom of a 13 year girl with Aspergers. Everyday at some point or another is a major struggle, for her and I both. We (my hubby and myself) are desperatly seeking a teen Aspie support group for her. She really needs the support from those who can completly understand her. Any help at all would be appreciated. We are located in Lomita, California. Thank you so much... It's only a deal if it's where you want to go. Find your travel deal here. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 3, 2008 Report Share Posted September 3, 2008 Hi y- I am also the mother of a 13 year old Aspie girl. We are in Northern California. My suggestion would be to contact UCLA and find out what programs they have, or else contact USC's Keck School of Medicine. Many medical schools have programs that your daughter might be able to participate in. If you want, you can also email me directly and we can compare notes. :)EllenFrom: y Da Bull <fdabull@...>Subject: HELP!Autism and Aspergers Treatment Date: Monday, September 1, 2008, 7:17 AMI am the mom of a 13 year girl with Aspergers. Everyday at some point or another is a major struggle, for her and I both. We (my hubby and myself) are desperatly seeking a teen Aspie support group for her. She really needs the support from those who can completly understand her. Any help at all would be appreciated. We are located in Lomita, California. Thank you so much...------------------------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 3, 2008 Report Share Posted September 3, 2008 You will want to contact medical/therapy offices that deal with autism, they would most likely know who or what is going on in your area. You might also consider getting her a paid companion to take her out once a week or whatever you can afford to have a break. ) From: y Da Bull <fdabull@...>Subject: HELP!Autism and Aspergers Treatment Date: Monday, September 1, 2008, 8:17 AM I am the mom of a 13 year girl with Aspergers. Everyday at some point or another is a major struggle, for her and I both. We (my hubby and myself) are desperatly seeking a teen Aspie support group for her. She really needs the support from those who can completly understand her. Any help at all would be appreciated. We are located in Lomita, California. Thank you so much... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 5, 2008 Report Share Posted September 5, 2008 thanks for the URL. the magazine looks great. Lyn Re: HELP! Look up GRASP. Hold on, and I'll do it for you ... ... It's www.grasp.org I know they have adult groups, and I think they've got teen ones too. If anyone will know, it'll be (the head of it, MJ Carley). Also, there may be parent support groups near you. We all know about rough days, so you aren't alone. Love, Francine In a message dated 9/3/2008 1:26:51 A.M. Eastern Daylight Time, fdabull (DOT) com writes: I am the mom of a 13 year girl with Aspergers. Everyday at some point or another is a major struggle, for her and I both. We (my hubby and myself) are desperatly seeking a teen Aspie support group for her. She really needs the support from those who can completly understand her. Any help at all would be appreciated. We are located in Lomita, California. Thank you so much... It's only a deal if it's where you want to go. Find your travel deal here. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 6, 2009 Report Share Posted February 6, 2009 Hello Marie, Although it may still be viable, I would suggest you ask for a new culture. Kombucha microflora do not particularly like the cold and it could take a good long while for the yeasts and bacteria in the culture you have stored to regain enough balance to brew properly. It is always best to store a Kombucha culture in a glass container with finished KT at room temperature and covered with an air permeable, tightly woven cloth held on securely with something like a rubber band. There are frequently people on this list who have extras and who will gladly mail them out for cost of postage and perhaps a bit for handling. I frequently do myself, but am in between SCOBYs bring properly formed just now having sent two out in the past week and a half.... Gayle On Feb 6, 2009, at 11:12 AM, Marie-Ange Bovee wrote: > > Hello out there. > > Several years ago someone gave me a Kombucha which has been living > in a back corner of my fridge in a cup of black tea (no sugar) > covered with saran wrap. > Is it still good? > Can I now actually brew it and drink of it? > Or is it now poisonous and I should get a new growth. > > Enjoy the day, > > Mrngbird. > > > > > > ------------------------------------ > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 6, 2009 Report Share Posted February 6, 2009 Thanks for your reply. Good night, Marie-Ange. > > > > > Hello out there. > > > > Several years ago someone gave me a Kombucha which has > been living > > in a back corner of my fridge in a cup of black tea > (no sugar) > > covered with saran wrap. > > Is it still good? > > Can I now actually brew it and drink of it? > > Or is it now poisonous and I should get a new growth. > > > > Enjoy the day, > > > > Mrngbird. > > > > > > > > > > > > ------------------------------------ > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 10, 2009 Report Share Posted July 10, 2009 My first assumption would be that something happened at camp. Liam may be reacting to some sort of abuse ... either from the staff or another camper. I'd check that out first. granny On Fri, Jul 10, 2009 at 12:29 PM, mom2lfm <Mom2lfm@...> wrote: > > > > Liam's first (and last) day of camp was Monday. He was supposed to go after > school, but got very angry and threw chairs. I'm not 100% sure what > happened. Liam's not very verbal. He's never shown aggressive or violent > behavior before. He had a good day at school beforehand. The folks at school > were stunned because, although very stubborn he has never shown them > behavior like that. I spoke with the school psychologist who agreed to speak > with him, but he was very surprised at the incident. The camp was at the > same place as his weekend rec program that I thought he loved. He's been > going there for the past three years. They have had some staff turnover > recently, but nothing else has changed. His babysitters and I have never > seen this kind of behavior before either. When I told him that he can't go > there anymore, he said, " Good. " > > Luckily his regular after school babysitter is available and will take care > of him instead. She's very strict with him so he won't be getting an easier > time. I'd like to get him seen by a psychologist or psychiatrist to try and > figure out what caused this change and try and make sure it never happens > again. I called the developmental pediatrician's office, but unless it's ADD > she isn't seeing new patients. He's 'new' because she hasn't seem him in > quite a while. They referred me to the Child Psychiatry department. They > can't see him until mid September so they referred me to another place. They > don't feel they can help since he's not very verbal. Does anyone else have a > child who isn't very verbal and needs help? If so how do they manage? > > I need to know if something's bothering him (about the camp?) or anything > else. I really don't think it was physical abuse - not a scratch on him, but > maybe someone hurt his feelings. If this keeps up medication will be in his > future, because Liam has Bam-bam strength. At 11 he's already stronger than > I am. Good thing he doesn't know it. > > Any advice? > > Kathy, Liam's mom (11,DS,Diabetes, asthma) > > > -- Not for ourselves but for the whole world we were born Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 10, 2009 Report Share Posted July 10, 2009 I would worry about some kind of bullying or other abuse. Although I would not wait for the psychologists appointments to check it out. Can you check with your Ds clinic for the social worker or case worker to give you some recommendations of a specialist he could speak with? Maybe the DCS can help. That may be a good route because if something is suspected they can investigate the camp/school. I am not sure I would trust the school to be entirely truthful if it happened on their watch. Nolan-6 Phoebe Ds & Cf-4 Lipstick _____ From: [mailto: ] On Behalf Of mom2lfm Sent: Friday, July 10, 2009 12:29 PM Subject: Help! Liam's first (and last) day of camp was Monday. He was supposed to go after school, but got very angry and threw chairs. I'm not 100% sure what happened. Liam's not very verbal. He's never shown aggressive or violent behavior before. He had a good day at school beforehand. The folks at school were stunned because, although very stubborn he has never shown them behavior like that. I spoke with the school psychologist who agreed to speak with him, but he was very surprised at the incident. The camp was at the same place as his weekend rec program that I thought he loved. He's been going there for the past three years. They have had some staff turnover recently, but nothing else has changed. His babysitters and I have never seen this kind of behavior before either. When I told him that he can't go there anymore, he said, " Good. " Luckily his regular after school babysitter is available and will take care of him instead. She's very strict with him so he won't be getting an easier time. I'd like to get him seen by a psychologist or psychiatrist to try and figure out what caused this change and try and make sure it never happens again. I called the developmental pediatrician's office, but unless it's ADD she isn't seeing new patients. He's 'new' because she hasn't seem him in quite a while. They referred me to the Child Psychiatry department. They can't see him until mid September so they referred me to another place. They don't feel they can help since he's not very verbal. Does anyone else have a child who isn't very verbal and needs help? If so how do they manage? I need to know if something's bothering him (about the camp?) or anything else. I really don't think it was physical abuse - not a scratch on him, but maybe someone hurt his feelings. If this keeps up medication will be in his future, because Liam has Bam-bam strength. At 11 he's already stronger than I am. Good thing he doesn't know it. Any advice? Kathy, Liam's mom (11,DS,Diabetes, asthma) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 10, 2009 Report Share Posted July 10, 2009 If you feel that he needs to be seen very soon (sooner than mid-september) get ahold of a social worker and they will be able to get you in sooner. Back last November I had some serious mental health issues and my regular doctor said it was too much for him to handle so he referred me to a psychiatrist and when I initially called to set up an appointment they told me that I couldn't get in for 3 1/2 months. I called back my regular doctor they got me in touch with a social worker and she got me in within a week. They just have some special magic or something but I got in and got the proper medications to help me out!! With we are able to see his developmental specialist she specializes in kids with special needs and mental health!! Lucky us!! Good Luck! Help! Liam's first (and last) day of camp was Monday. He was supposed to go after school, but got very angry and threw chairs. I'm not 100% sure what happened. Liam's not very verbal. He's never shown aggressive or violent behavior before. He had a good day at school beforehand. The folks at school were stunned because, although very stubborn he has never shown them behavior like that. I spoke with the school psychologist who agreed to speak with him, but he was very surprised at the incident. The camp was at the same place as his weekend rec program that I thought he loved. He's been going there for the past three years. They have had some staff turnover recently, but nothing else has changed. His babysitters and I have never seen this kind of behavior before either. When I told him that he can't go there anymore, he said, " Good. " Luckily his regular after school babysitter is available and will take care of him instead. She's very strict with him so he won't be getting an easier time. I'd like to get him seen by a psychologist or psychiatrist to try and figure out what caused this change and try and make sure it never happens again. I called the developmental pediatrician's office, but unless it's ADD she isn't seeing new patients. He's 'new' because she hasn't seem him in quite a while. They referred me to the Child Psychiatry department. They can't see him until mid September so they referred me to another place. They don't feel they can help since he's not very verbal. Does anyone else have a child who isn't very verbal and needs help? If so how do they manage? I need to know if something's bothering him (about the camp?) or anything else. I really don't think it was physical abuse - not a scratch on him, but maybe someone hurt his feelings. If this keeps up medication will be in his future, because Liam has Bam-bam strength. At 11 he's already stronger than I am. Good thing he doesn't know it. Any advice? Kathy, Liam's mom (11,DS,Diabetes, asthma) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 11, 2009 Report Share Posted July 11, 2009 Thanks / I live in NYC. We have no DS clinic here.   Hard to believe, but true. I'd need to take a road trip and take him to Philadelphia or Baltimore for actual DS expertise. The local children's hospital hasn't been much help, either. Help!  Liam's first (and last) day of camp was Monday. He was supposed to go after school, but got very angry and threw chairs. I'm not 100% sure what happened. Liam's not very verba l. He's never shown aggressive or violent behavior before. He had a good day at school beforehand. The folks at school were stunned because, although very stubborn he has never shown them behavior like that. I spoke with the school psychologist who agreed to speak with him, but he was very surprised at the incident. The camp was at the same place as his weekend rec program that I thought he loved. He's been going there for the past three years. They have had some staff turnover recently, but nothing else has changed. His babysitters and I have never seen this kind of behavior before either. When I told him that he can't go there anymore, he said, " Good. " Luckily his regular after school babysitter is available and will take care of him instead. She's very strict with him so he won't be getting an easier time. I'd like to get him seen by a psychologist or psychiatrist to try and figure out what caused this change and try and make sure it never happens again. I called the developmental pediatrician's office, but unless it's ADD she isn't seeing new patients. He's 'new' because she hasn't seem him in quite a while. They referred me to the Child Psychiatry department. They can't see him until mid September so they referred me to another place. They don't feel they can help since he's not very verbal. Does anyone else have a child who isn't very verbal and needs help? If so how do they manage? I need to know if something's bothering him (about the camp?) or anything else. I really don't think it was physical abuse - not a scratch on him, but maybe someone hurt his feelings. If this keeps up medication will be in his future, because Liam has Bam-bam strength. At 11 he's already stronger than I am. Good thing he doesn't know it. Any advice? Kathy, Liam's mom (11,DS,Diabetes, asthma) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 11, 2009 Report Share Posted July 11, 2009 Thanks Granny.? That's was my first thouht.? I think it's really me who needs counseling.? How can I give him the support to handle it?? Although I realize that violence is not the answer, there's a part of me that's happy that he wouldn't passively except treatment he felt he didn't deserve.? Then there's the issue that I don't want to fight to get him back in, since I wouldn't trust them again with my treasure. Kathy, Liam's mom Re: Help! My first assumption would be that something happened at camp. Liam may be reacting to some sort of abuse ... either from the staff or another camper. I'd check that out first. granny On Fri, Jul 10, 2009 at 12:29 PM, mom2lfm <Mom2lfm@...> wrote: > > > > Liam's first (and last) day of camp was Monday. He was supposed to go after > school, but got very angry and threw chairs. I'm not 100% sure what > happened. Liam's not very verbal. He's never shown aggressive or violent > behavior before. He had a good day at school beforehand. The folks at school > were stunned because, although very stubborn he has never shown them > behavior like that. I spoke with the school psychologist who agreed to speak > with him, but he was very surprised at the incident. The camp was at the > same place as his weekend rec program that I thought he loved. He's been > going there for the past three years. They have had some staff turnover > recently, but nothing else has changed. His babysitters and I have never > seen this kind of behavior before either. When I told him that he can't go > there anymore, he said, " Good. " > > Luckily his regular after school babysitter is available and will take care > of him instead. She's very strict with him so he won't be getting an easier > time. I'd like to get him seen by a psychologist or psychiatrist to try and > figure out what caused this change and try and make sure it never happens > again. I called the developmental pediatrician's office, but unless it's ADD > she isn't seeing new patients. He's 'new' because she hasn't seem him in > quite a while. They referred me to the Child Psychiatry department. They > can't see him until mid September so they referred me to another place. They > don't feel they can help since he's not very verbal. Does anyone else have a > child who isn't very verbal and needs help? If so how do they manage? > > I need to know if something's bothering him (about the camp?) or anything > else. I really don't think it was physical abuse - not a scratch on him, but > maybe someone hurt his feelings. If this keeps up medication will be in his > future, because Liam has Bam-bam strength. At 11 he's already stronger than > I am. Good thing he doesn't know it. > > Any advice? > > Kathy, Liam's mom (11,DS,Diabetes, asthma) > > > -- Not for ourselves but for the whole world we were born Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 11, 2009 Report Share Posted July 11, 2009 These are ones all in the NE area. HTH: Connecticut: Down Syndrome Program Division of Human Genetics CT Children's Medical Center <http://www.ccmckids.org> 65 Kane Street West Hartford, CT Phone: 860-523-6464 Director: M. Greenstein, MD Delaware: Down Syndrome Clinic Nemours/Alfred duPont <http://www.nemours.org/hospital/de/aidhc.html> Hospital for Children Genetic Dept. 1600 Rockland Road Wilmington, DE Phone: 302-651-5916 land: Down Syndrome Clinic The Kennedy <http://www.kennedykrieger.org/kki_cp.jsp?pid=1399> Krieger Institute 707 North Broadway Baltimore, MD Phone: 410-502-8839 Massachusetts: Down Syndrome Program Children's Hospital <http://www.childrenshospital.org> 300 Longwood Avenue Boston, MA Phone: 617-355-2209 Down Syndrome Clinics for Adults and Adolescents Mass. General Hospital Yawkey Center for Outpatient Care, Suite 6C Boston, MA Phone: 617-726-1561 New Hampshire: Child Development Program Children's <http://www.dhmc.org/webpage.cfm?site_id=2 & org_id=517 & gsec_id=0 & sec_id=0 & ite m_id=26036> Hospital at Dartmouth One Medical Center Drive Lebanon, NH Phone: 603-650-7884 Crotched Mountain Developmental Pediatrics Clinic Crotched Mountain Outpatient <http://www.crotchedmountain.org> Services One Verney Drive Greenfield, NH Phone: 603-547-3311, ext. 360 New Jersey: Developmental Disabilities Clinic town <http://www.morristownmemorialhospital.org/en/goryeb/> Memorial Hospital 100 Madison Avenue town, NJ Phone: 201-971-4095 The Judy Center for Down Syndrome Hackensack University Medical Center 30 Prospect Ave Hackensack, NJ Phone: 201-996-JUDY Child Development K. <http://www.khovnanianchildrenshospital.com/index.cfm/Services/Pediatric/chi lddev.cfm> Hovnanian Children's Hospital 1944 Rte. 33 Suite 101-A Neptune, NJ Phone: 732-776-4178 Developmental Disabilities <http://www.ddha.com> Health Alliance 1285 Broad Street Bloomfield, NJ Phone: 973-338-4200 New York: Warner, M.D. Center for Children with Special Needs Women <http://www.wchob.org/services/services_display.asp?SID=258 & CID=9> & Children's Hospital of Buffalo 219 Street Buffalo, NY Phone: 716-878-1260 Rhode Island: Children's <http://www.lifespan.org/hch/services/neuro_cntr/> Neurodevelopment Center Hasbro Children's Hospital 593 Eddy Street Providence, RI Phone: 401-444-4000 Pennsylvania: Down Syndrome Center <http://www.chp.edu/CHP/downsyndrome> Children's Hospital of Pittsburgh Children's Hospital Drive 45th St. & Penn Ave. Pittsburgh, PA Phone: 412-692-7963 Trisomy <http://www.chop.edu/consumer/jsp/division/service.jsp?id=76670> 21 Program Children's Hospital of Philadelphia 34th Street and Civic Center Boulevard Philadelphia, PA Phone: 267-426-5283 Eastern Penn. Down Syndrome <http://www.epdsc.org> Center PO Box 60 6900 Hamilton Blvd. Trexlertown, PA Phone: 610-402-0184 Dr. Gertrude A. <http://www.drbarbercenter.org> Barber Center 136 East Avenue Erie, PA Phone: 814-453-7661 Vermont: Adult Down Syndrome Center University of Vermont College of Medicine <http://www.med.uvm.edu/> Fletcher Health Care Burlington, VT Phone: 802-656-3655 Director: E. Hopkins, <mailto:william.hopkins@...> MD Nolan-6 Phoebe Ds & Cf-4 Lipstick _____ From: Dinkins-Borkowski [mailto:julie@...] Sent: Saturday, July 11, 2009 12:09 PM 'Mom2lfm@...' Subject: RE: Help! I found these, (NY is under the NJ ones): Child Development Center town Memorial Hospital 100 Madison Avenue town , NJ 07960 973-971-5227 The Judy Center For Down Syndrome Hackensack University Medical Center 30 Prospect Ave. Hackensack , NJ 07601 201-996-5839 Schneider Children's Hospital Developmental & Behavioral Pediatrics 1983 Marcus Avenue, Suite 130 Lake Success , NY 11042 516-802-6100 Down Syndrome Program Warner Rehabilitation Center Women & Children's Hospital of Buffalo 219 Street Buffalo , NY 14222 716-888-1300 Nolan-6 Phoebe Ds & Cf-4 Lipstick _____ From: [mailto: ] On Behalf Of Mom2lfm@... Sent: Saturday, July 11, 2009 6:15 AM julie@...; Subject: Re: Help! Thanks / I live in NYC. We have no DS clinic here. Hard to believe, but true. I'd need to take a road trip and take him to Philadelphia or Baltimore for actual DS expertise. The local children's hospital hasn't been much help, either. Help! Liam's first (and last) day of camp was Monday. He was supposed to go after school, but got very angry and threw chairs. I'm not 100% sure what happened. Liam's not very verba l. He's never shown aggressive or violent behavior before. He had a good day at school beforehand. The folks at school were stunned because, although very stubborn he has never shown them behavior like that. I spoke with the school psychologist who agreed to speak with him, but he was very surprised at the incident. The camp was at the same place as his weekend rec program that I thought he loved. He's been going there for the past three years. They have had some staff turnover recently, but nothing else has changed. His babysitters and I have never seen this kind of behavior before either. When I told him that he can't go there anymore, he said, " Good. " Luckily his regular after school babysitter is available and will take care of him instead. She's very strict with him so he won't be getting an easier time. I'd like to get him seen by a psychologist or psychiatrist to try and figure out what caused this change and try and make sure it never happens again. I called the developmental pediatrician's office, but unless it's ADD she isn't seeing new patients. He's 'new' because she hasn't seem him in quite a while. They referred me to the Child Psychiatry department. They can't see him until mid September so they referred me to another place. They don't feel they can help since he's not very verbal. Does anyone else have a child who isn't very verbal and needs help? If so how do they manage? I need to know if something's bothering him (about the camp?) or anything else. I really don't think it was physical abuse - not a scratch on him, but maybe someone hurt his feelings. If this keeps up medication will be in his future, because Liam has Bam-bam strength. At 11 he's already stronger than I am. Good thing he doesn't know it. Any advice? Kathy, Liam's mom (11,DS,Diabetes, asthma) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 12, 2009 Report Share Posted July 12, 2009 Thanks . Sneider's was the one that couldn't/wouldn't see us (and it's certainly not a DS clinic -- many of the professionals have told me that I know more about DS than they do.) and Buffalo is 8+ hours away. I don't know if the New Jersey centers are ok, but I'm pretty sure we wouldn't have insurance coverage for them anyway. Help!  Liam's first (and last) day of camp was Monday. He was supposed to go after school, but got very angry and threw chairs. I'm not 100% sure what happened. Liam's not very verba l. He's never shown aggressive or violent behavior before. He had a good day at school beforehand. The folks at school were stunned because, although very stubborn he has never shown them behavior like that. I spoke with the school psychologist who agreed to speak with him, but he was very surprised at the incident. The camp was at the same place as his weekend rec program that I thought he loved. He's been going there for the past three years. They have had some staff turnover recently, but nothing else has changed. His babysitters and I have never seen this kind of behavior before either. When I told him that he can't go there anymore, he said, " Good. " Luckily his regular after school babysitter is available and will take care of him instead. She's very strict with him so he won't be getting an easier time. I'd like to get him seen by a psychologist or psychiatrist to try and figure out what caused this change and try and make sure it never happens again. I called the developmental pediatrician's office, but unless it's ADD she isn't seeing new patients. He's 'new' because she hasn't seem him in quite a while. They referred me to the Child Psychiatry department. They can't see him until mid September so they referred me to another place. They don't feel they can help since he's not very verbal. Does anyone else have a child who isn't very verbal and needs help? If so how do they manage? I need to know if something's bothering him (about the camp?) or anything else. I really don't think it was physical abuse - not a scratch on him, but maybe someone hurt his feelings. If this keeps up medication will be in his future, because Liam has Bam-bam strength. At 11 he's already stronger than I am. Good thing he doesn't know it. Any advice? Kathy, Liam's mom (11,DS,Diabetes, asthma) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 12, 2009 Report Share Posted July 12, 2009 I don't know if this would help at all but you might look at some Colleges or a University.  I know that when I was new at this and Alden was young, I did some checking around and spoke via email to someone at Loyola College in land.  It had to do with speech/path. but I received a very nice LONG letter of recommendations, help, guidance just by asking. It was invaluble information and it didn't cost me a dime. Sometimes you may find a sympathetic and highly trained person at the Graduate level or above that is able to guide you to a solution.  I wouldn't rule it out. Kiersten From: Mom2lfm@... <Mom2lfm@...> Subject: Re: Help! julie@..., Date: Sunday, July 12, 2009, 6:25 AM Thanks . Sneider's was the one that couldn't/wouldn' t see us (and it's certainly not a DS clinic -- many of the professionals have told me that I know more about DS than they do.) and Buffalo is 8+ hours away. I don't know if the New Jersey centers are ok, but I'm pretty sure we wouldn't have insurance coverage for them anyway. Help!  Liam's first (and last) day of camp was Monday. He was supposed to go after school, but got very angry and threw chairs. I'm not 100% sure what happened. Liam's not very verba l. He's never shown aggressive or violent behavior before. He had a good day at school beforehand. The folks at school were stunned because, although very stubborn he has never shown them behavior like that. I spoke with the school psychologist who agreed to speak with him, but he was very surprised at the incident. The camp was at the same place as his weekend rec program that I thought he loved. He's been going there for the past three years. They have had some staff turnover recently, but nothing else has changed. His babysitters and I have never seen this kind of behavior before either. When I told him that he can't go there anymore, he said, " Good. " Luckily his regular after school babysitter is available and will take care of him instead. She's very strict with him so he won't be getting an easier time. I'd like to get him seen by a psychologist or psychiatrist to try and figure out what caused this change and try and make sure it never happens again. I called the developmental pediatrician' s office, but unless it's ADD she isn't seeing new patients. He's 'new' because she hasn't seem him in quite a while. They referred me to the Child Psychiatry department. They can't see him until mid September so they referred me to another place. They don't feel they can help since he's not very verbal. Does anyone else have a child who isn't very verbal and needs help? If so how do they manage? I need to know if something's bothering him (about the camp?) or anything else. I really don't think it was physical abuse - not a scratch on him, but maybe someone hurt his feelings. If this keeps up medication will be in his future, because Liam has Bam-bam strength. At 11 he's already stronger than I am. Good thing he doesn't know it. Any advice? Kathy, Liam's mom (11,DS,Diabetes, asthma) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 12, 2009 Report Share Posted July 12, 2009 I am sorry to hear that. I hope you are able to find help for your son on your own. I pray that it can be resolved and that he is ok. I did want to pass on what another mother mentioned about one clinic in your area that she has used. Please just delete if this is not something that would help your family. I promise this will be the last recommendation. Across the river but worth the trip.......if you go, be specific and ask for Dr. Fred ONLY. The Judy Center for Down Syndrome Hackensack University Medical Center 30 Prospect Ave Hackensack, NJ Phone: 201-996-JUDY Dr. Fred ALison > Dawn > > Mom to , almost 3 Nolan-6 Phoebe Ds & Cf-4 Lipstick _____ From: [mailto: ] On Behalf Of Mom2lfm@... Sent: Sunday, July 12, 2009 7:25 AM julie@...; Subject: Re: Help! Thanks . Sneider's was the one that couldn't/wouldn't see us (and it's certainly not a DS clinic -- many of the professionals have told me that I know more about DS than they do.) and Buffalo is 8+ hours away. I don't know if the New Jersey centers are ok, but I'm pretty sure we wouldn't have insurance coverage for them anyway. Help! Liam's first (and last) day of camp was Monday. He was supposed to go after school, but got very angry and threw chairs. I'm not 100% sure what happened. Liam's not very verba l. He's never shown aggressive or violent behavior before. He had a good day at school beforehand. The folks at school were stunned because, although very stubborn he has never shown them behavior like that. I spoke with the school psychologist who agreed to speak with him, but he was very surprised at the incident. The camp was at the same place as his weekend rec program that I thought he loved. He's been going there for the past three years. They have had some staff turnover recently, but nothing else has changed. His babysitters and I have never seen this kind of behavior before either. When I told him that he can't go there anymore, he said, " Good. " Luckily his regular after school babysitter is available and will take care of him instead. She's very strict with him so he won't be getting an easier time. I'd like to get him seen by a psychologist or psychiatrist to try and figure out what caused this change and try and make sure it never happens again. I called the developmental pediatrician's office, but unless it's ADD she isn't seeing new patients. He's 'new' because she hasn't seem him in quite a while. They referred me to the Child Psychiatry department. They can't see him until mid September so they referred me to another place. They don't feel they can help since he's not very verbal. Does anyone else have a child who isn't very verbal and needs help? If so how do they manage? I need to know if something's bothering him (about the camp?) or anything else. I really don't think it was physical abuse - not a scratch on him, but maybe someone hurt his feelings. If this keeps up medication will be in his future, because Liam has Bam-bam strength. At 11 he's already stronger than I am. Good thing he doesn't know it. Any advice? Kathy, Liam's mom (11,DS,Diabetes, asthma) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 12, 2009 Report Share Posted July 12, 2009 I agree. I've been taking to a university hospital since she was an infant. They are very knowledgable about Down's Syndrome. Our PCP even has an adult son who has Down's. granny On Sun, Jul 12, 2009 at 11:16 AM, Kiersten <kiersten5560@...> wrote: > > > I don't know if this would help at all but you might look at some Colleges > or a University. I know that when I was new at this and Alden was young, I > did some checking around and spoke via email to someone at Loyola College in > land. It had to do with speech/path. but I received a very nice LONG > letter of recommendations, help, guidance just by asking. It was invaluble > information and it didn't cost me a dime. > Sometimes you may find a sympathetic and highly trained person at the > Graduate level or above that is able to guide you to a solution. I wouldn't > rule it out. > Kiersten > > > > From: Mom2lfm@... <Mom2lfm%40aol.com> <Mom2lfm@...<Mom2lfm%40aol.com> > > > Subject: Re: Help! > julie@... <julie%40borkowskifamily.com>, > <%40> > Date: Sunday, July 12, 2009, 6:25 AM > > Thanks . Sneider's was the one that couldn't/wouldn' t see us (and > it's certainly not a DS clinic -- many of the professionals have told me > that I know more about DS than they do.) and Buffalo is 8+ hours away. I > don't know if the New Jersey centers are ok, but I'm pretty sure we wouldn't > have insurance coverage for them anyway. > > Help! > > > > Liam's first (and last) day of camp was Monday. He was supposed to > > go after school, but got very angry and threw chairs. I'm not 100% sure > what happened. Liam's not very verba > > l. He's never shown aggressive or violent behavior before. He had a good > day at school beforehand. The folks at school were stunned because, although > very stubborn he has never shown them behavior like that. I spoke with the > school psychologist who agreed to speak with him, but he was very surprised > at the incident. The camp was at the same place as his weekend rec program > that I thought he loved. He's been going there for the past three years. > They have had some staff turnover recently, but nothing else has changed. > His babysitters and I have never seen this kind of behavior before either. > When I told him that he can't go there anymore, he said, " Good. " > > Luckily his regular after school babysitter is available and will take care > of him instead. She's very strict with him so he won't be getting an easier > time. I'd like to get him seen by a psychologist or psychiatrist to try and > figure out what caused this change and try and make sure it never happens > again. I called the developmental pediatrician' s office, but unless it's > ADD she isn't seeing new patients. He's 'new' because she hasn't seem him in > quite a while. They referred me to the Child Psychiatry department. They > can't see him until mid September so they referred me to another place. They > don't feel they can help since he's not very verbal. Does anyone else have a > child who isn't very verbal and needs help? If so > > how do they manage? > > I need to know if something's bothering him (about the camp?) or anything > else. I really > > don't think it was physical abuse - not a scratch on him, but maybe someone > hurt his feelings. If this keeps up medication will be in his future, > because Liam has Bam-bam strength. At 11 he's already stronger than I am. > Good thing he doesn't know it. > > Any advice? > > Kathy, Liam's mom (11,DS,Diabetes, asthma) > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 17, 2009 Report Share Posted August 17, 2009 Some of the most simple falls could cause a break. You never know. Is there swelling all the way around her foot or is it located to one area? Or, is there still no swelling or bruising of any kind? If she is crying at touch/ and not putting weight on it, she needs to be seen. i cannot imagine that after sleeping all night that she would still be crying about it if it was not hurt in some way. Please let us know how you are doing. I am so very sorry things are that tight. Is there anyone you could call to help you out? Kiersten From: Dinkins-Borkowski <julie@...> Subject: help! Date: Monday, August 17, 2009, 2:58 PM HELP! Last night phoebe slid gently down off the couch and started crying when she stepped on her foot. I could find nothing wrong with it. It was right at bed time so I let her sleep with me to watch her. No problems at night, but when she got up and tried to put weight on it, she screamed again. She is still learning to walk so she just toddles around. I cannot imagine her breaking a bone by just stepping on it. I pressed on the top and sides and she pulls back and cries, but there is no swelling or purpleness or any signs something bit her. I am at a loss! I am putting ice on it, which she hates and I have to sit on the couch with her and cannot do anything else. I gave her some advil, but nothing helps. Right now we are so broke I cannot even put gas in the car until payday Friday. But not to worry I am raiding the coin jars for the gas money to get her to the ER! Whatever works, right? I just wanted to know if anyone else has experience this. I do not know if it has something to do with the Down's syndrome or with her cystic fibrosis. I hope someone can help. Nolan-6 Phoebe Ds & Cf-4 Lipstick Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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