Guest guest Posted April 8, 2000 Report Share Posted April 8, 2000 I feel responsible for the way they are acting for a number of reasons. One is, I am not acknowledging how sick I really am to them in my effort to protect them. Also, I haven't ever told them, until 2 days ago how much they have hurt me, and finally I have pushed away any help offered, saying I can do it myself. Pride... Not good. I am worn out. I pray every night before going to sleep - that God's will be done, but if he didn't mind he could hurry it up. jana At 09:04 PM 4/8/00 -0700, you wrote: Hi Janalise...and why doesn't your family help you more Janalise.....isn't that what family is for..to help when you need them...don't let them lay guilt trips on you...they couldn't even help you with the mail...that's pathetic!!! Sheena DITTO>>> You are not a failure.... going through a really painful horrible time. ... plus you have marital probs...that's all very hard on anyone!!.. that is not SELFISH! Sheena and what hell is stopping them from helping you?I agree!! View Members profiles, locations, hobbies and all that plus find out when their birthday are by visiting /files/ Visit The Members Lounge http://www.elderwyn.com/members Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 8, 2000 Report Share Posted April 8, 2000 Hi Janalise...I'm really sorry to hear how terrible things are for you? Maybe you need to share with them how you do feel...physically...emotionally, etc...pride is a big thing...could your pride be making things worse for you though? When you told them how much they hurt you..what was their response? You sound like you are giving up? Is that the way you feel?My eyes water to think of how bad things must be...you sound like you've given them ..your children, your hubby...your all...and didnt save something for you!! Like you've lost you in the whole process!! have you ever done things in life for you...not for others......Is there any way out of your situation other than what you sound like you think..not .death as an option???: What can you do that would be for you? To make you happy....??? What would bring you sunshine....what would your fantasy life be like? I wish ...I could help....just know that everyone is here for you...whether your thoughts are positive or negative ...lean on your friends ...ok..we're all here for you!!. Sheena Hi Janalise...and why doesn't your family help you more Janalise.....isn't that what family is for..to help when you need them...don't let them lay guilt trips on you...they couldn't even help you with the mail...that's pathetic!!! Sheena DITTO>>> You are not a failure.... going through a really painful horrible time. ... plus you have marital probs...that's all very hard on anyone!!.. that is not SELFISH! Sheena and what hell is stopping them from helping you?I agree!! View Members profiles, locations, hobbies and all that plus find out when their birthday are by visiting /files/ Visit The Members Lounge http://www.elderwyn.com/members Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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