Indian men happy with sex life:

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Indian men happy with sex life:

[india News] New Delhi, Sep 14 : Most Indian men, keeping alive old

stereotypes, have sex only at night in their bedrooms and believe

having sex with their wives is their marital right, a survey has

revealed.

Most importantly, a majority 56 percent of survey respondents said

they are happy with their sex lives.

Around 59 percent of respondents in a survey done by the India Today

magazine, AC Nielsen and ORG-MARG said they prefer having sex after

sundown and in their beds.

An overwhelming majority, 89 percent, said sex was important in their

lives in the survey conducted by talking to men between the ages of 18

and 55 years across 11 cities.

Around 80 percent of the respondents said sex is their matrimonial

right and man on top is the favourite position for 47 percent,

according to the survey.

The survey brings out several contradictions in India, the land of the

Kamasutra but where sex is still not openly discussed.

For instance, only 24 percent said that they feared their partner's

disloyalty in a relationship, but 39 percent said they were

" extremely " or " reasonably " possessive about their partner.

Most men, about 71 percent, said it was unacceptable for their

partners to have fantasies about other men while making love.

Around 37 percent said they have sex more than once a week, while 30

percent have multiple orgasms.

Among the other revelations of the survey are that 40 percent of

Indian men are sometimes bored with sex in their marriage, 45 percent

first had intercourse on their nuptial night, 63 percent had never

paid for sex, 73 percent never had homosexual experience and 67

percent never had extramarital sex.

But if they were to have extramarital sex, 45 percent would prefer

someone younger than them, while 42 percent say that they've had " a

few " sexual partners outside marriage.

In variety of experiences, men from the smaller towns and countryside

scored ahead of their city cousins in the survey.

In Chandigarh, for instance, 80 percent men felt that women confused

sex with commitment, while 67 percent of the men from Jaipur said they

preferred long foreplay.

Ahmedabad scored the highest as India's most sexual city, with 69

percent saying that they are very happy with their sex lives and 59

percent claiming that oral sex was very important for them.

Most men from Ahmedabad, around 88 percent, said they always make sure

that their partner has an orgasm and an equal number agree that both

men and women should have the same amount of pleasure.

Last year, when India Today did a similar survey with women, Ahmedabad

had topped the charts with most respondents giving sex 4 in an

importance scale of five in their lives. The national average was 3.5.

In a sign of changing times, 39 percent of the respondents said they

always have an orgasm and 40 percent said they always make sure that

their partner has one too.

In a country increasingly affected by AIDS, a healthy sign is that 38

percent said that a condom is a must-use.

--Indo-Asian News Service

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