Guest guest Posted September 9, 2000 Report Share Posted September 9, 2000 Oh , I am so sorry to hear this, it is important for you to be able to talk about Matty. I loved the picture that you posted of your children, Matty looked like such a little ray of sunshine, you must miss him dreadfully. Are all your family shutting this out, isn't there anyone you can talk to at all? I guess they are all struggling with this in thier own way, and just don't know what to say to you especially while grieving themselves. I guess people think it is easier not to say anything at all, cause they feel that they are helpless to do anything. Not realising that they don't need to say or do anything, just to listen and show that they care. Of course you need to talk about Matty, as it is so important for you to hold on to all your precious memories of your beautiful boy, to remember all the cute things he did, and to know that everyone is keeping Matty alive in thier hearts. *hug* email me anytime you want to chat , you know I am good at talking! LOL take care, :-) > > > Hello everyone, Just wanted to write a little note because I feel like > > I have nowhere else to turn.I cannot sleep at night because I keep > > having this dream that I hear a baby crying and I am searching and > > searching all the while I am a crying mess. When I do find the baby > > it is dead. I have this dream every time I fall to sleep.I talked to > > Anne until about 5 am this morning ) We would be terrors if we > > lived close together. LOLAnyways I thought I was tired enough to sleep > > but I was only able to get about 2 hours of sleep the whole night. My > > husband works 2 jobs and I only get to see him for about 1/2 hour a > > day. I have noone to physically talk to .Why does everyone treat this > > miscarriage as another ordinary thing that happens? It WAS A BABY. > > Sorry for yelling, but that is what I want to yell at my family.My mom > > is trying but I think she is not bringing it up because she doesn't > > want to cause me any more pain. But I want her to talk about it, but > > I don't know how to tell her that. I have thought about writing her a > > letter but I am not sure what to say. Any ideas?I cannot seem to stop > > crying and I feel so hopeless. My boss gave me an attitude at work > > today because I called off. I told her about the miscarriage and she > > said so you still can't come in. I hung up the phone and just cried > > and cried.I just wish someone could help me because I don't know how > > to deal with this and it keeps getting harder and harder.I am sorry to > > be a bummer. Hope I didn't misspell anything as it is hard to type > > when tears are running down your face ( Love you all, Pennymommy to > > 2 dear little angels PeartHannah Marie Peart > > > > > > The Being Sick Community > > > > Sharing our resources:- > > Add a website URL you think may help another, or even add a link to > > your own webpage. > > > > > > Chat:- > > Scheduled Daily Chats at # on IRC DALnet. > > http://www.elderwyn.com/members/chat.html > > > > Egroups JAVA based chatroom for your use anytime:- > > chat/ > > (Anyone on web-tv will not be able to access java and it is very slow > > compared to IRC.) > > > > Memorial Page:- > > http://www.elderwyn.com/members/inlovingmemory.html > > > > Members Lounge:- > > Medical resources, counselling via email, information on the daily > > chat times, free psychic readings and the cartoon of the day. > > http://www.elderwyn.com/members > > > > Members Profiles, pictures, and birthdays:- > > > > > > Message Archives and Digest Attachment Pictures:- > > messages/ > > > > Promoting This Community:- > > Would you like people to be able to join from your webpage? > > promote/ > > > > Subscription Details:- > > 1) Individual email - means that every email sent to the list you > > receive. > > 2) Daily Digest - sends you 25 messages in one single email for you to > > browse. This is an excellent option if you receive alot of email. > > 3) Web only/No mail - means that you can pop into eGroups at your > > convenience and receive no email. > > > > To modify your subscription settings please visit > > mygroups > > > > To subscribe or unsubscribe > > subscribe/ > > > > ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ > > > > " Hold on to what is good, even if it's a handful of earth. Hold on to > > what you believe, even if it's a tree that stands by itself. Hold on > > to what you must do even, if it's a long way from here. Hold on to > > your life, even if it's easier to let go. " - Pueblo Prayer Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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