Guest guest Posted March 9, 2008 Report Share Posted March 9, 2008 thank you so much lottie talking with you guys is like looking in a mirror and that makes me seem normal when you are dx you feel alone even when sorounded with family. may we all continue to be strong for one another aliza **************It's Tax Time! Get tips, forms, and advice on AOL Money & Finance. (http://money.aol.com/tax?NCID=aolprf00030000000001) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 10, 2008 Report Share Posted March 10, 2008 Dear Aliza, Yes it is strange how you found out you were in MR. That's why we ask for our records and learn what those symbols mean and if we don't know, ask the doctor. Write it down if you have a memory like mine. LOL You have the right mind set, accept the diagnosis. You have cancer, but cancer doesn't have you. I think as long as we have our guard up, we will have the tools to live longer, because we will no longer accept status quo as o.k. by any means. Ask what is new, what is coming and what does the doctor think about where you are in your recovery. This is a journey, albeit a long one, so have everything you need in your backpack to make it to the finish line. I'm called a turtle, but turtles can make it, even if they are last, right? When I was diagnosed one of the doctors I saw for a second second opinion told me I would probably die of an infection, as most people don't die of leukemia. I was incensed when she said that, but maybe she was right, I took it the wrong way as you did, but having more recent information and continuing to increase your knowledge will help you reap the benefits of the latest research technology. The anticipation of knowing there is something better keeps you alert. I'm very sorry about your friend, it's a great loss when you lose someone that has something to similiar to you. You feel hopeless and wonder if that could have been you instead of your friend. Just remember not to compare yourself to anyone else, that's a whole other ball game, because we are all unique. Why do some do better than others is a question that has been lingering for a long time. When you know, be sure to tell us all. LOL My best wishes always, Lottie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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