Debbie, no JBJ for you on other groups!

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Hey Debbie. That's right. I don't know about EVERY group, but some groups are so touchy about sticking to the topic. It's like they think as moderators that they are the police or something. And some groups are so rude. This is a little personal, but I will share. A while ago I was taking the depo provera birth control shot, and shortly after I started noticing I was turning into a lunatic, getting depressed, and then I thought I was having marital problems. So I joined this marriage support group and posted about how awful I had been to my husband because of this shot. This person posted to me that my marriage was doomed, I was pushing my husband into the arms of another woman if I didn't shape up soon, and went on and on and on, and that all of our problems were my fault because of my hormonal problems. And then that person had to add a couple more times before he was through that yet again, I am PUSHING MY HUSBAND INTO THE ARMS OF ANOTHER WOMAN. I love how some people think there is ever an excuse for adultery. Any way, it made sense at the end of the post when I realized a man had written the whole post. The whole time I am thinking, "A woman wrote this crap to me?" And then, "Ah, it was a man, well, of course he would feel that way!" He told me if I spent half the time praying that I do ragging on my husband that my marriage would stand a chance. Ooh, I was mad! I am glad I don't get the same criticism here. In fact, more people I think would agree about our DHs. Anyway, I left that group in a hurry. I am a member of about six other groups, and none of them are hardly even active. This is the only group that I get about 100 posts a day, but I love it! You guys are the best! And I am glad we can talk about things like JBJ, even though I'm not too crazy about him, hehe. I loved him when I was 8 and I used to dance in my best friend's yard to Slippery when Wet. People driving by used to think we were nuts.

Anyway...enough of my rambling.

kellie