Guest guest Posted June 9, 2002 Report Share Posted June 9, 2002 First of all, I want to thank everybody for all their support during this difficult week. That being said, I'm afraid that I miscarried early this morning in CA and I had to have a D & C because my cervix STILL wasn't open and an ultrasound showed that the baby died sometime between yesterday AM and last night (as of yesterday AM, it had a heartbeat but I still felt funny). DH and I have decided to wait until he is accepted for firefighter training next year before we try again. Oddly enough, I'm relieved it's over. Being told conflicting things and having three ultrasounds and God knows how many pelvic exams has been very stressful. Yesterday was my first " official " OB visit for this pregnancy and I have all that mommy-to-be free stuff at home. I am staying out here for the week, and DH is going to put it all away for me because I don't think I could handle it. Anyway, thank you again for all your prayers and I may see you at chat this week...I won't be at school so I might be able to wrest computer time from my SIL. Hugs to all, Jill Ramos, Las Vegas, NV Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 9, 2002 Report Share Posted June 9, 2002 Jill, I am so sorry. My heart is breaking for you. I can't even begin to imagine how you feel. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you. > First of all, I want to thank everybody for all their support during > this difficult week. > That being said, I'm afraid that I miscarried early this morning in > CA and I had to have a D & C because my cervix STILL wasn't open and > an ultrasound showed that the baby died sometime between yesterday > AM and last night (as of yesterday AM, it had a heartbeat but I > still felt funny). > DH and I have decided to wait until he is accepted for firefighter > training next year before we try again. > Oddly enough, I'm relieved it's over. Being told conflicting things > and having three ultrasounds and God knows how many pelvic exams has > been very stressful. > Yesterday was my first " official " OB visit for this pregnancy and I > have all that mommy-to-be free stuff at home. I am staying out here > for the week, and DH is going to put it all away for me because I > don't think I could handle it. > Anyway, thank you again for all your prayers and I may see you at > chat this week...I won't be at school so I might be able to wrest > computer time from my SIL. > Hugs to all, > Jill Ramos, Las Vegas, NV Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 9, 2002 Report Share Posted June 9, 2002 Jill, I don't know what to say except I am so sorry for your loss. I will keep you and your angel baby in my prayers. I am so sorry....please be well. Kellie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 9, 2002 Report Share Posted June 9, 2002 Jill, I am so sorry for your loss. Try and take it easy. Are you out in CA on vacation? Is your husband not with you? I hope you are with some family and taking it easy. Unfortunately, I have experienced miscarriage, D & C's, etc. It is really hard on you emotionally and physically. It's probably even harder when you already have a child, because you have more of a concept of your loss. ((((((((((BIG HUGS))))))))))))))). For me, a very difficult element of miscarriage has been the way some people, with good intentions, unknowingly invalidate the loss. You have EVERY RIGHT to grieve, take all the time you need, cry, whatever you need to do. Don't take it to heart when you hear things like 'It's for the best', 'It wasn't meant to be', 'At least you weren't very far along',etc., etc. I was stunned at the way some of my family and friends responded. Of course, their intentions were good...but..well, you know. I wish I could come to CA and give you a GIANT hug. I will be praying for you. I hope I haven't upset you more with anything I've said, but for me, it hurt me worse when people didn't validate the loss and my grief and wanted me just to pick up and go like nothing happened. You WILL heal, but it's okay to cry, too. Please lean on us. , Mom to Grant (born 9/26/01) > First of all, I want to thank everybody for all their support during > this difficult week. > That being said, I'm afraid that I miscarried early this morning in > CA and I had to have a D & C because my cervix STILL wasn't open and > an ultrasound showed that the baby died sometime between yesterday > AM and last night (as of yesterday AM, it had a heartbeat but I > still felt funny). > DH and I have decided to wait until he is accepted for firefighter > training next year before we try again. > Oddly enough, I'm relieved it's over. Being told conflicting things > and having three ultrasounds and God knows how many pelvic exams has > been very stressful. > Yesterday was my first " official " OB visit for this pregnancy and I > have all that mommy-to-be free stuff at home. I am staying out here > for the week, and DH is going to put it all away for me because I > don't think I could handle it. > Anyway, thank you again for all your prayers and I may see you at > chat this week...I won't be at school so I might be able to wrest > computer time from my SIL. > Hugs to all, > Jill Ramos, Las Vegas, NV Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 9, 2002 Report Share Posted June 9, 2002 Jill - So sorry to hear about your loss. Please take time to grieve and heal physically and emotionally. > First of all, I want to thank everybody for all their support during > this difficult week. > That being said, I'm afraid that I miscarried early this morning in > CA and I had to have a D & C because my cervix STILL wasn't open and > an ultrasound showed that the baby died sometime between yesterday > AM and last night (as of yesterday AM, it had a heartbeat but I > still felt funny). > DH and I have decided to wait until he is accepted for firefighter > training next year before we try again. > Oddly enough, I'm relieved it's over. Being told conflicting things > and having three ultrasounds and God knows how many pelvic exams has > been very stressful. > Yesterday was my first " official " OB visit for this pregnancy and I > have all that mommy-to-be free stuff at home. I am staying out here > for the week, and DH is going to put it all away for me because I > don't think I could handle it. > Anyway, thank you again for all your prayers and I may see you at > chat this week...I won't be at school so I might be able to wrest > computer time from my SIL. > Hugs to all, > Jill Ramos, Las Vegas, NV Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 9, 2002 Report Share Posted June 9, 2002 Jill, I am so sorry for your loss I just dont know what to say....I am praying for you and your family...I once again am very sorry..Trisha For more plagio info Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 9, 2002 Report Share Posted June 9, 2002 Jill, I'm so, so sorry to hear the news. Prayers for you. Marci Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 9, 2002 Report Share Posted June 9, 2002 Jill: So sorry to read your sad news . Hugs to you & your family. Debbie Abby's mom > First of all, I want to thank everybody for all their support during > this difficult week. > That being said, I'm afraid that I miscarried early this morning in > CA and I had to have a D & C because my cervix STILL wasn't open and > an ultrasound showed that the baby died sometime between yesterday > AM and last night (as of yesterday AM, it had a heartbeat but I > still felt funny). > DH and I have decided to wait until he is accepted for firefighter > training next year before we try again. > Oddly enough, I'm relieved it's over. Being told conflicting things > and having three ultrasounds and God knows how many pelvic exams has > been very stressful. > Yesterday was my first " official " OB visit for this pregnancy and I > have all that mommy-to-be free stuff at home. I am staying out here > for the week, and DH is going to put it all away for me because I > don't think I could handle it. > Anyway, thank you again for all your prayers and I may see you at > chat this week...I won't be at school so I might be able to wrest > computer time from my SIL. > Hugs to all, > Jill Ramos, Las Vegas, NV Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 10, 2002 Report Share Posted June 10, 2002 Jill, I am so sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you. Try to get some rest, many prayers are being sent your way. Niki > First of all, I want to thank everybody for all their support during > this difficult week. > That being said, I'm afraid that I miscarried early this morning in > CA and I had to have a D & C because my cervix STILL wasn't open and > an ultrasound showed that the baby died sometime between yesterday > AM and last night (as of yesterday AM, it had a heartbeat but I > still felt funny). > DH and I have decided to wait until he is accepted for firefighter > training next year before we try again. > Oddly enough, I'm relieved it's over. Being told conflicting things > and having three ultrasounds and God knows how many pelvic exams has > been very stressful. > Yesterday was my first " official " OB visit for this pregnancy and I > have all that mommy-to-be free stuff at home. I am staying out here > for the week, and DH is going to put it all away for me because I > don't think I could handle it. > Anyway, thank you again for all your prayers and I may see you at > chat this week...I won't be at school so I might be able to wrest > computer time from my SIL. > Hugs to all, > Jill Ramos, Las Vegas, NV Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 10, 2002 Report Share Posted June 10, 2002 Jill So sorry to hear your news. Hugs to you and your family. Kerry Calgary,AB >From: " ahappycamp4 " <ahappycamp4@...> >Reply-Plagiocephaly >Plagiocephaly >Subject: Sad news again (non-plagio) >Date: Sun, 09 Jun 2002 05:29:21 -0000 > >First of all, I want to thank everybody for all their support during >this difficult week. >That being said, I'm afraid that I miscarried early this morning in >CA and I had to have a D & C because my cervix STILL wasn't open and >an ultrasound showed that the baby died sometime between yesterday >AM and last night (as of yesterday AM, it had a heartbeat but I >still felt funny). >DH and I have decided to wait until he is accepted for firefighter >training next year before we try again. >Oddly enough, I'm relieved it's over. Being told conflicting things >and having three ultrasounds and God knows how many pelvic exams has >been very stressful. >Yesterday was my first " official " OB visit for this pregnancy and I >have all that mommy-to-be free stuff at home. I am staying out here >for the week, and DH is going to put it all away for me because I >don't think I could handle it. >Anyway, thank you again for all your prayers and I may see you at >chat this week...I won't be at school so I might be able to wrest >computer time from my SIL. >Hugs to all, >Jill Ramos, Las Vegas, NV > _________________________________________________________________ Join the world’s largest e-mail service with MSN Hotmail. http://www.hotmail.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 10, 2002 Report Share Posted June 10, 2002 Jill, So sorry to hear of your loss. Thinking of you and your family at this time. ' Mom Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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