Jade and Lynda

[Guest guest]

Why would you think that you are not liked. Just because we disagree

on somethings. BIG DEAL. Lynda you and I very much disagree on

politic's but I bet if we sat down together we would get along just

fine. I like your spirit. There is absolutely nothing wrong with a

good debate. Sometimes we just can't take life so seriously.

And of course there are members that have been here along time. And

they have become close friends. But that does not mean that new

members are excluded. I myself have been a member for a short time,

but have felt included and validated.

Sometimes the written word just doen't come out the way the spoken

word does and there are many misunderstandings. What we all have

gone through is very emotional and a lot of us are very angry. Not

at each other but at what has happened to us. We need to give each

other a little slack here. We should be able to vent And feel we

have a safe place to do that. I will try to be better at not letting

things get to me when someone is venting. Maybe before we post

something that may be misunderstood we should say I AM VENTING.

Everyone here is a valued member of the group. We have bigger

dragons to slay they each other.

Love Cricket