Sex and cancer

June 1, 2008

Dear Jackie,

While no one has discussed their sex life with me, I can offer no personal

advice. There are several articles and I am quoting from some of them here:

" These kinds of thoughts and misconceptions can make a relationship come to a

standstill. It's vital for couples in this situation to talk to each other - and

to a doctor - to dispel any fears or uncertainties. "

Medical News Today also has an interesting article on the same subject:

How Living With Cancer Affects A Woman's Sex Life: " The study found,

predictably, that sexuality becomes less of a priority after recurrence, but as

time goes by, that changes. In older women, sexuality rebounds somewhat. But in

younger women, it often doesn't. Doctors aren't sure why, but the fact that

they're even looking into it means a lot to patients. "

Cancer treatment for women: Possible sexual side effects: " You might be

embarrassed to talk about the sexual side effects you're experiencing, but don't

be. Though talking about sex can be awkward, you'll never find a solution if you

don't let someone know what you're experiencing. Write down your questions if it

makes you feel more comfortable. In addition, your doctor may be embarrassed or

hesitant to talk about sex. If this is the case, ask to be referred to a

specialist or seek support from other members of your health care team, such as

nurses and counselors. "

In addition, your doctor may be embarrassed or hesitant to talk about sex. If

this is the case, ask to be referred to a specialist or seek support from other

members of your health care team, such as nurses and counselors. Sexual problems

frequently arise not so much from changes imposed by medical conditions or their

treatment per se, but from how we feel about and deal with those changes.

I hope this helps you understand that you are not alone in this, Jackie,

Lottie

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