Guest guest Posted October 26, 2008 Report Share Posted October 26, 2008 I would say to Lusty to try to help her friend who lost her husband when he walked out on her because she had cancer. I suspect the marriage was already in trouble. She will need a good lawyer to clean his clock and some good organizations that will help with her financial needs. What real man would walk out on a woman because she was ill with cancer or any other serious illness? Try to get her to join a support group for whatever cancer she has. Rally her real friends around her. Not everyone who sends a card is a " real " friend. Once you become ill, they don't want to come near you, they may be asked to do something. There are people who will come to her rescue in a support group, probably moreso than her family. American Cancer Society would be the first people I would contact. And to answer your question as to what to say to her, there isn't much you can say to her, but you can be there for her, this is something she will have to work out with the help of family and friends standing by. My best wishes to her and to you for being a real friend. I am happy that she is doing well with her cancer treatment and hopefully this will not set her back. Good luck to both of you and to everyone who has " been there " . Blessings and here's to friendship, Lottie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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