Guest guest Posted March 5, 2000 Report Share Posted March 5, 2000 Hi Beth, I read your post about your move. Sounds like an exciting time. We are going through something similar. We have a trip planned for spring break. The tickets are bought and the accommodations are made. J. says " I am not going! " ....let me tell you this produces anxiety for ME! My neck starts tensing up and I can feel my body reacting. So I keep telling myself breathe,(to the count of 4,slowly one breath in and one breath out, 4 times) not to argue the fact, BUT to bring up the trip, talk about all the fun things we will be doing and talk about it like IT IS HAPPENING (because it is) I don't argue...I just need to get through this uncomfortable time of his rebelling. BTW, my husband is leaving next sat. 11th and we will come to where he is on the 31st. My son has issues even being around his Dad,but it has gotten better from 3 years ago.(like your granddaughter feels about clothes, my son feels about his Dad.)So here we are going on this trip! What a big exposure huh? We will have fun, we will have fun! In the meantime I am exercising, and taking care of me! So I CAN COPE with this big trip! Good luck in your move. We can do this! Vivian in wa.st. __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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