Guest guest Posted May 15, 2002 Report Share Posted May 15, 2002 In a message dated 5/15/02 10:10:52 AM Pacific Daylight Time, writes: > She died > 11 years ago this month. I don't want this or anything like it for my boys > or anyone elses child. > > > OMG, , I didn't know this! God bless the little angel! I have to keep thinking along health lines and not so much as if it doesn't improve behaviors, we won't stick to it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 2, 2005 Report Share Posted June 2, 2005 Kim, I can't offer you any advice, but please know that I am thinking of you and your family in this difficult time. P. & Kim Cotter <Cotter@...> wrote: I need to share what's going on here, and maybe some of you would keep us in your thoughts for the next few days. Tonight my son and his two younger sisters will find out that their dad is moving out. He has been unfaithful to me again. The last time, almost 2 years ago, had a sudden onset of OCD in the aftermath. After counseling I gave my husband another chance, with the understanding that it would not happen again or I would seek a divorce. I am afraid of the effect this will have on . It took him about 16 months to forgive his dad, and to start froming a new relationship with him. And now this. My husband will be telling them when he gets off work at about 10:30 tonight. Thanks for listening. Kim in IA ( 15 OCD) Our list archives, bookmarks, files, and chat feature may be accessed at: / . Our list advisors are Gail B. , Ed.D., Tamar Chansky, Ph.D.( http://www.worrywisekids.org ), Dan Geller, M.D.,Aureen Pinto Wagner, Ph.D., ( http://www.lighthouse-press.com ). Our list moderators are Birkhan, Castle, Fowler, Kathy Hammes, Joye, Kathy Mac, Gail Pesses, and Kathy . Subscription issues or suggestions may be addressed to Louis Harkins, list owner, at louisharkins@... , louisharkins@... , louisharkins@... . --------------------------------- Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 2, 2005 Report Share Posted June 2, 2005 , Was his onset of OCD bad and how has it been since? STAY STRONG and maybe Will too. You are in my prayers! changes I need to share what's going on here, and maybe some of you would keep us in your thoughts for the next few days. Tonight my son and his two younger sisters will find out that their dad is moving out. He has been unfaithful to me again. The last time, almost 2 years ago, had a sudden onset of OCD in the aftermath. After counseling I gave my husband another chance, with the understanding that it would not happen again or I would seek a divorce. I am afraid of the effect this will have on . It took him about 16 months to forgive his dad, and to start froming a new relationship with him. And now this. My husband will be telling them when he gets off work at about 10:30 tonight. Thanks for listening. Kim in IA ( 15 OCD) Our list archives, bookmarks, files, and chat feature may be accessed at: / . Our list advisors are Gail B. , Ed.D., Tamar Chansky, Ph.D.( http://www.worrywisekids.org ), Dan Geller, M.D.,Aureen Pinto Wagner, Ph.D., ( http://www.lighthouse-press.com ). Our list moderators are Birkhan, Castle, Fowler, Kathy Hammes, Joye, Kathy Mac, Gail Pesses, and Kathy . Subscription issues or suggestions may be addressed to Louis Harkins, list owner, at louisharkins@... , louisharkins@... , louisharkins@... . ------------------------------------------------------------------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 2, 2005 Report Share Posted June 2, 2005 Good luck to you! It sounds like its going to be a tough road for you guys. Especially since his father already disappointed him once and it took your son awhile to get over it. You guys will be my thoughts. My ex left the home almost 3 years ago. My son was almost 6, about a month later his OCD came out full force. It was a long road for us so I know what you're going through. Good luck and take care. Deana > >I need to share what's going on here, and maybe some of you would keep >us in your thoughts for the next few days. Tonight my son and his > _________________________________________________________________ Is your PC infected? Get a FREE online computer virus scan from McAfee® Security. http://clinic.mcafee.com/clinic/ibuy/campaign.asp?cid=3963 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 2, 2005 Report Share Posted June 2, 2005 Hi Kim, (((hugs))) I am so very sorry this is happening, and I will certainly be thinking of you and the kids. Kathy R. in Indiana ----- Original Message ----- From: " & Kim Cotter " <Cotter@...> >I need to share what's going on here, and maybe some of you would keep > us in your thoughts for the next few days. Tonight my son and his > two younger sisters will find out that their dad is moving out. He has > been unfaithful to me again. The last time, almost 2 years ago, > had a sudden onset of OCD in the aftermath. After counseling I gave my > husband another chance, with the understanding that it would not happen > again or I would seek a divorce. I am afraid of the effect this will > have on . It took him about 16 months to forgive his dad, and to > start froming a new relationship with him. And now this. My husband > will be telling them when he gets off work at about 10:30 tonight. > Thanks for listening. > Kim in IA ( 15 OCD) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 2, 2005 Report Share Posted June 2, 2005 I'm so sorry you are going through this, (((hugs))) and will certainly keep you all in my thoughts! I'm sure will also feel some anger and loss over this after working on the relationship between them. I'm guessing those feelings will probably come more into play than his OCD for now. Oh, I feel for you, (((hugs))) as you have it ALL to deal with in the aftermath, your own and the kids feelings! Will definitely be thinking of you, stay strong! > I need to share what's going on here, and maybe some of you would keep > us in your thoughts for the next few days. Tonight my son and his > two younger sisters will find out that their dad is moving out. He has > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 2, 2005 Report Share Posted June 2, 2005 Kim, I feel for you and the pain you are going through. Do you have a good support network to fall back on for and you? I will keep you all in my prayers and hope you have people you can talk to, to help you deal with the change. Keep strong for and remember we are here to listen anytime you need to vent! Hugs!! Sandy -- In , & Kim Cotter <Cotter@w...> wrote: > I need to share what's going on here, and maybe some of you would keep > us in your thoughts for the next few days. Tonight my son and his > two younger sisters will find out that their dad is moving out. He has > been unfaithful to me again. The last time, almost 2 years ago, > had a sudden onset of OCD in the aftermath. After counseling I gave my > husband another chance, with the understanding that it would not happen > again or I would seek a divorce. I am afraid of the effect this will > have on . It took him about 16 months to forgive his dad, and to > start froming a new relationship with him. And now this. My husband > will be telling them when he gets off work at about 10:30 tonight. > Thanks for listening. > Kim in IA ( 15 OCD) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 3, 2005 Report Share Posted June 3, 2005 > Hi Kim, (((hugs))) I am so very sorry this is happening, and I will > certainly be thinking of you and the kids. > > Kathy R. in Indiana > > ----- Original Message ----- > From: " & Kim Cotter " <Cotter@w...> > > >I need to share what's going on here, and maybe some of you would keep > > us in your thoughts for the next few days. Tonight my son and his > > two younger sisters will find out that their dad is moving out. He has > > been unfaithful to me again. The last time, almost 2 years ago, > > had a sudden onset of OCD in the aftermath. After counseling I gave my > > husband another chance, with the understanding that it would not happen > > again or I would seek a divorce. I am afraid of the effect this will > > have on . It took him about 16 months to forgive his dad, and to > > start froming a new relationship with him. And now this. My husband > > will be telling them when he gets off work at about 10:30 tonight. > > Thanks for listening. > > Kim in IA ( 15 OCD) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 3, 2005 Report Share Posted June 3, 2005 Kim, I will keep you in my prayers. Stay strong. Ramona Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 3, 2005 Report Share Posted June 3, 2005 Kim, I will keep you in my prayers. Stay strong. Ramona Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 3, 2005 Report Share Posted June 3, 2005 Kim, I will keep you in my prayers. Stay strong. Ramona Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 29, 2008 Report Share Posted November 29, 2008 I just want everyone to know that on Monday I am going to change the name of the month to December. Please mark your calendars. TNX, ew Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 29, 2008 Report Share Posted November 29, 2008 That is good because Monday is the first of December at least on my calander Changes I just want everyone to know that on Monday I am going to change the name of the month to December. Please mark your calendars. TNX, ew ------------------------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 1, 2009 Report Share Posted July 1, 2009 Good for you guys! I am also finding my cravings for junk food disappearing. For example, we have some candy in the house right now. In the past, I would have a hard time not eating several pieces or even the whole container, then beating myself up afterward. I realized today that we've had the containers for well over a week or two and I've only had a piece here and there! I'm not thinking about them all day. I'm not trying to resist. I'm just having a piece when I feel like it and feeling satisfied w/ that! I like having a little junk food now and then but I especially like being able to CHOOSE when and how much! Feels so good! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 1, 2009 Report Share Posted July 1, 2009 Good for you guys! I am also finding my cravings for junk food disappearing. For example, we have some candy in the house right now. In the past, I would have a hard time not eating several pieces or even the whole container, then beating myself up afterward. I realized today that we've had the containers for well over a week or two and I've only had a piece here and there! I'm not thinking about them all day. I'm not trying to resist. I'm just having a piece when I feel like it and feeling satisfied w/ that! I like having a little junk food now and then but I especially like being able to CHOOSE when and how much! Feels so good! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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