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.. Jake wants a Barney tape, he

> is able to say " Nanny " , but he won't. We have been sitting here for 1/2

hour

> trying to get him to say it. (We have beeb throwing in motor imitation

during

> this time too) We are saying " What do you want...Barney? " and all he does

is

> try to climb up to get the Barney tape. We have also tried just saying

" Barney "

> He is silent, not uttering any sound. Are we doing this right?

It sounds to me that your child does not know what is required of him to get

the reinforcer. Your current " de-mand " on him seems to be too high. In an

30 minute peroid, he needs lots and lots of practice.... not waiting time.

I understand how that can be very frustraiting to him... and to you.

Thus... it is not going to be a very reinforcing session.

You need to prompt him with the answer first. Does he have a lot of

language or have you only occasionally heard him talk? If so, you need to

consider whether you need to be teaching the sign for Barney along with

saying it vocally. (you can make up a sign if you do not know the sign for

dinosaur....just something that will help you get over the thresh hold).

You may want to consider doing easier tasks for the video, so he learns " I

do, I get. I do, I get. " Then move to the harder aspect of trying to get

him to talk.

Basically, start with things he knows how to do. Does he come here when

asked. Can he put a block in a bucket. Will he imitate an action. If not,

physically prompt him to do so then reinforce it with a quick blurp from the

video. As he learns what is expected of him .... then move to vocalization.

When we are

> doing the motor imitation during this time we are either doing hand over

hand or

> making a huge deal if he does it on his own. Is that right?

yes this is correct. Try using the video for the reinforcement with these

motor imitations before you require a much harder task from him ... like

speaking.

I know it is very hard to start this type of teaching without a consultant.

BUT please everyone remember.... A LEARNING SESSION SHOULD BE FUN FOR YOUR

CHILD. Especially in the beginning.

So if you are just starting out. Use things that are reinforcing. MANDING

should be the very first thing you work on.

Good luck. Rhonda

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I agree with Rhonda that manding should be the starting point . . .

however, you may find that if you are just starting and your child is not

used to being " asked " to do anything . . . you may need to earn his trust.

S/P speak of " pairing " yourself (and all therapists) with reinforcers

initially. So once you establish some reinforcers than the first thing you

do is get them under control (child has no access to them on his own) and

you deliver these with very little contingecy. In the case of reinforcers

that go away on their own (food, drink,) then you just deliver if he looks

at you, or makes a sound. Be sure to praise verbally whatever he does to

get the reinforcer ( " great looking Jake " , " I love the way you talk to me " ).

You may establish a particular type of response for a reinforcing activity

(my daughter would have to look at me to get more bubbles) or you may expect

a number of responses (looking, vocalizing, pointing), etc. Be sure to be

very reinforcing - keep the " session " very reinforcing - if you find that

Jake begins to lose interest, then move onto something else or give him

" down time " . IF the reinforcers do not go away on their own (a book) then

you need to teach him to give them up intially. For us, it was those

" wind-up TVs " . She would hold on to them with dear life - so at first I

would wind it, and then ask for it " Give mommy " , and try to remove. She

would push back and after a split second I would say " great job " , and would

wind again, within a couple of trials she would not push back, but still

wouldn't let go. Again, I would praise and give immediately. In no time

she was letting go - big time wind-up. Eventually, I would hold onto it for

a longer period of time and began making it disappear. It wasn't until she

would give me, watch it disappear and wait for it that I began to introduce

a different trial (NVI) and soon taught her to mand for it using sign

language. How long pairing takes depends on how he responds.

The whole idea of pairing is that you want to gain your child's trust,

and you have to develop a history of " good things " happening when he comes

to you, and does as you ask.

Dr. Partington and Siri Ming (BA, Inc. trainor) stress that especially

at this point success is measured by how often your child comes to you and

is willing to " comply " - (they don't use that word).

So at this point, I would keep the sessions short if needed and the

demands to a minimum and the reinforcers to a maximum. Slowly you will turn

that around. Right now Jake needs to come to you and the whole process

should be highly rewarding to the both of you. This is where you begin to

take cues from him as to how well things are going.

Vary your reinforcers, slowly place demands on him and show him that

this is gonna be worth his while! This is almost a discovery period for the

two of you . . . think of it that way.

Also, just because Jake can say something doesn't mean he can repeat it.

Echoics may be something that you also have to shape. " Nanny " may be a

difficult one to begin to imitate upon hearing the Sd., try monosyllabic

sounds " ma " " ba " " pa " and again, as you begin slowly, heavily reinforce his

willingness to work with you.

I agree with Rhonda that at this point you may want to begin with motor

imitation that he is able to do. Do NVI with objects - ring a bell, tap on

a drum, (if you need a list let me know). These are easy to prompt and Jake

can see that getting the Barney video is not that hard. Remember to remove

your prompt as fast as you can - but keep him successful.

I also agree with the idea of using signs to teach him to mand.

Especially since his echoics don't seem to be " strong " . Once the echoics

get strong, then you can make the transfer. Be sure to pair the word

everytime as you teach him the mand and when he signs to you. The two

should go hand-in-hand until he begins to use the words on his own.

Does it make sense? Amy, call me if you need to . . .

All the best!

Isabel

ipawling@...

Re: [ ] Am I doing this right?

> From: " Rhonda Miga " <bbird098@...>

>

> . Jake wants a Barney tape, he

> > is able to say " Nanny " , but he won't. We have been sitting here for 1/2

> hour

> > trying to get him to say it. (We have beeb throwing in motor imitation

> during

> > this time too) We are saying " What do you want...Barney? " and all he

does

> is

> > try to climb up to get the Barney tape. We have also tried just saying

> " Barney "

> > He is silent, not uttering any sound. Are we doing this right?

>

> It sounds to me that your child does not know what is required of him to

get

> the reinforcer. Your current " de-mand " on him seems to be too high. In

an

> 30 minute peroid, he needs lots and lots of practice.... not waiting time.

> I understand how that can be very frustraiting to him... and to you.

> Thus... it is not going to be a very reinforcing session.

>

> You need to prompt him with the answer first. Does he have a lot of

> language or have you only occasionally heard him talk? If so, you need to

> consider whether you need to be teaching the sign for Barney along with

> saying it vocally. (you can make up a sign if you do not know the sign

for

> dinosaur....just something that will help you get over the thresh hold).

>

> You may want to consider doing easier tasks for the video, so he learns " I

> do, I get. I do, I get. " Then move to the harder aspect of trying to get

> him to talk.

>

> Basically, start with things he knows how to do. Does he come here when

> asked. Can he put a block in a bucket. Will he imitate an action. If

not,

> physically prompt him to do so then reinforce it with a quick blurp from

the

> video. As he learns what is expected of him .... then move to

vocalization.

>

> When we are

> > doing the motor imitation during this time we are either doing hand over

> hand or

> > making a huge deal if he does it on his own. Is that right?

> yes this is correct. Try using the video for the reinforcement with these

> motor imitations before you require a much harder task from him ... like

> speaking.

>

>

> I know it is very hard to start this type of teaching without a

consultant.

> BUT please everyone remember.... A LEARNING SESSION SHOULD BE FUN FOR YOUR

> CHILD. Especially in the beginning.

>

> So if you are just starting out. Use things that are reinforcing.

MANDING

> should be the very first thing you work on.

>

> Good luck. Rhonda

>

>

> ---------------------------

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[ ] Am I doing this right?

> From: wlmsfour@...

>

> I have a very, very strong reinforcer right now. Jake wants a Barney

tape, he

> is able to say " Nanny " , but he won't. We have been sitting here for 1/2

hour

> trying to get him to say it. (We have beeb throwing in motor imitation

during

> this time too) We are saying " What do you want...Barney? " and all he does

is

> try to climb up to get the Barney tape. We have also tried just saying

" Barney "

> He is silent, not uttering any sound. Are we doing this right? When we

are

> doing the motor imitation during this time we are either doing hand over

hand or

> making a huge deal if he does it on his own. Is that right? Open to any

ideas

> or just want to know if we are doing this right. By the way, thanks to

> everyone for all the help so far. We are getting the books that have been

> suggested.

> Amy

>

> ---------------------------

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Oh, another thing you can do in teaching a child to give up a reinforcer

is to initially have the child trade one reinforcer for another. In that

case you are just rewarding the giving of one with another.

When you realize something is reinforcing you need to make sure your

child is willing to give it up - if not then it's important to teach him to

do that. You also want to begin teaching him to mand for it . . . The

giving up of reinforcers gets easier as the child understands that, as

Rhonda pointed out " I do, I get " . Now when I identify a reinforcer, I

rarely have to work on her giving it up . . . she knows how it goes :o).

All the best!

Isabel

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In a message dated 09/29/01 1:23:49 PM Central Daylight Time,

angelodd13@... writes:

> I think that's it. I'm more concerned about the food. Am I getting

> enough? I don't want to get sick because I'm not eating enough. Any

> recommendations?

>

>

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In a message dated 09/29/01 1:23:49 PM Central Daylight Time,

angelodd13@... writes:

> I think that's it. I'm more concerned about the food. Am I getting

> enough? I don't want to get sick because I'm not eating enough. Any

> recommendations?

>

>

Remember that food is your BEST medicine and supplements are just that:

supplements. They are meant to add to, or supplement, your food. I find

when my diet is TOO restrictive that I tend to want to cheat. When I say

restrictive I don't mean candida no-no's but rather a limited selection of

permittable foods. Here is a link that really helped me in the beginning of

my diet. <A

HREF= " http://www.candidapage.com/candiet.txt " >http://www.candidapage.com/candiet\

..txt</A> (To make sense of it, I

had to print it out as it is a 3 stage diet and I had to use the stage for

severe candida). I have since read lots of books, many of which can be found

at, or ordered from, your local library. These books have given me even more

ideas of what I can eat, as well as some great recipes that help keep the

diet from getting too boring.

As far as your supplements go, I would encourage you to add a probiotic

(preferably one that is refrigerated and that contains a variety of strains

of good bacteria) and to add digestive enzymes as its important for you to

move the food through your system in order for you to better assimilate the

nutrients in your food and so that you can limit its time in your gut, the

place where undigested food rots and feeds the yeast. Also, when you are

done with the capryllic acid, or when you no longer experience die-off or

feel that you are making progress, then try switching to a different

antifungal as its a good thing to rotate these. I have been on capryllic

acid, black walnut, pumpkin seed, and pau d'arco for several months now and

recently had muscle testing that indicated I was no longer needing those. I

had a feeling it was time to change as I wasn't experiencing die off.

However, I tested strongly for colostrum and a homeopathic candida remedy.

And while I had mild die-off with these two antifungals, I have noticed a

difference in how I feel and my bowel movements.

Hope this helps,

Annette

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you can add Turkey, Lettuce's, Radishes, Cucumbers, Green Beans, I had some

brown rice now and than. Make soup using tomatoe's with no citric acid or

sugar added, add cabbage & onions. Mog

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You are doing it right.

Since it only happens at night, I would think he either is sleeping

on it funny or his body temp isn't adjusted yet, so he sweats when

he is in the band longer than 3-4hours. This combined with the way

he is sleeping is probably rubbing him and creating a red spot.

I would suggest calling CT and getting it checked today.

Do his eyes/forehead look puffy in the band or when it comes off?

Dane's would sometimes look puffy in the band because it would push

the skin down depending on how he was holding his head.

Dane's mom DOC Grad

>

> Grant got his DOCband late friday afternoon (about 4:30 pm). I

had him wear it for 3 hours, checked his head...pink spots faded in

about 15 minutes, but since he was going to bed for the first night,

I didn't make him wear it, gave him a bath and put him to bed.

Yesterday, Grant wore it from 6 am to 9, I checked it then had it

back on in about 20 minutes....then he wore it for 4 hours...then

again checked...then back on for another 3 hours or so...a bath and

then back on for bed. He wore the band from about 8 pm bedtime to

about 2 am...at which time he woke up crying like crazy and when I

took it off to check, there was kind of a dark red spot on the back

of his head. It did fade in a bit over a half hour, but I was

reluctant to put it back on (trying to ease him into this). So, it

went back on at 6 am after he woke and then we proceeded to follow

the schedule of checking it every 3 or 4 hours (like we were told to

do the first 2 full days)...so this one in the back doesn't show up

badly in the day and fades much faster, but he went to bed early

tonight (7:00pm ish) and then woke crying just now at 9pm. I took

the band off to check that one spot (sorry, nervous mommy here) and

it was DARK red. It made me real nervous. I watched it for about

20 minutes and it was still darkish pink by then. Meanwhile he's

exhausted and ready to go back down. I put a dab of lipstick on his

head where the spot is in case it is hard to locate/remember in the

morning and I plan to call his orthotist ASAP in the morning. I

just was too nervous to put it back on.

>

> Am I being paranoid?

>

> Also, sometimes it seems like his eyes/forehead looks puffy...it

comes and goes...is this normal?

>

>

>

> , Mom to Grant (born 9/26/01)

>

>

> ---------------------------------

>

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Thanks, ! YES!!! That's exactly what the puffiness is...when it grabs his forehead and pushes the skin down a little. It seems to happen most in the morning and also sometimes if it was just put back on. Is that okay?

rmanias <rmanias@...> wrote: -You are doing it right. Since it only happens at night, I would think he either is sleeping on it funny or his body temp isn't adjusted yet, so he sweats when he is in the band longer than 3-4hours. This combined with the way he is sleeping is probably rubbing him and creating a red spot. I would suggest calling CT and getting it checked today. Do his eyes/forehead look puffy in the band or when it comes off? Dane's would sometimes look puffy in the band because it would push the skin down depending on how he was holding his head. Dane's mom DOC Grad> > Grant got his DOCband late friday afternoon (about 4:30 pm). I had him wear it for 3 hours, checked his head...pink spots faded in about 15 minutes, but since he was going to bed for the first night, I didn't make him wear it, gave him a bath and put him to bed. Yesterday, Grant wore it from 6 am to 9, I checked it then had it back on in about 20 minutes....then he wore it for 4 hours...then again checked...then back on for another 3 hours or so...a bath and then back on for bed. He wore the band from about 8 pm bedtime to about 2 am...at which time he woke up crying like crazy and when I took it off to check, there was kind of a dark red spot on the back of his head. It did fade in a bit over a half hour, but I was reluctant to put it back on (trying to ease him into this). So, it went back on at 6 am after he woke and then we proceeded to follow the schedule of checking it every 3 or 4 hours (like we were told to do the first 2 full days)...so this one in the back doesn't show up badly in the day and fades much faster, but he went to bed early tonight (7:00pm ish) and then woke crying just now at 9pm. I took the band off to check that one spot (sorry, nervous mommy here) and it was DARK red. It made me real nervous. I watched it for about 20 minutes and it was still darkish pink by then. Meanwhile he's exhausted and ready to go back down. I put a dab of lipstick on his head where the spot is in case it is hard to locate/remember in the morning and I plan to call his orthotist ASAP in the morning. I just was too nervous to put it back on.> > Am I being paranoid?> > Also, sometimes it seems like his eyes/forehead looks puffy...it comes and goes...is this normal? > > > > , Mom to Grant (born 9/26/01)> > > --------------------------------->

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