Guest guest Posted July 9, 2002 Report Share Posted July 9, 2002 , I am so sorry to read your post ..... my thoughts and prayers are w/you and your family.... I am at a loss for words...sending you my cyber hugs....and please know you did nothing wrong....Trisha> Message: 20> Date: Mon, 8 Jul 2002 21:44:54 -0500> From: "brendaty" <ruby1@...>> Subject: Re: OT>> well i'm sorry to say but i do have some bad news..after having a horrible experience with the ultrasound tech today..have not to nice words about her....the dr called me back today at about 530 pm to tell me that there is a sac that measures to about 6 weeks and there is a yolk but no fetus..she was mortified as is me and ty...now we go back next week to see if my body is gonna get rid of it or not cause me hormone levels are still going up..if not, then either i can wait to see what happens or get a d & c..i willl prolly do the d & c as then i don't have to worry when it will happen..as i said, we are in shock and so is our family as everyone knew...i can't believe this is happening and i can't help but feel 2 things..its my fault and god is punishing me for what i did to tucker (noggin) i know neither are true but as i said, i'm in shock..also, anyone who has had d*c can you please, if you don't mind, tell me a little about this..where is it done..how long does it take, does it hurt, how long are you out..etc..thanks again..>> brenda> mom of tucker For more plagio info Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 9, 2002 Report Share Posted July 9, 2002 Yep...i am real close to Paramus. I used to live in Clifton when i was little...many years ago...but only for a few years....but we still go back to Clifton to eat at this yummy pizza place..lol. In a message dated 7/9/2002 8:33:20 PM Eastern Standard Time, smilemtb@... writes: , I was wondering where you were from. I remember you saying that you live 15 min away from CT in Paramus. Being from Clifton, I know Bergen Cty well. I miss that neck of the woods. I now live in the country, but I sure do miss the city. ann/ NJ > Message: 13 > Date: Tue, 9 Jul Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 12, 2002 Report Share Posted July 12, 2002 Hi . When you say " worked " , what exactly does that mean? That is so good that her tort is fully resolved. My PT said that it may never go away. I'm not sure I like this PT. I saw your name on the CT list yesterday! Too bad our appts weren't closer together. I'm sorry to hear of your problems with them and with Wanda. I've noticed that there are days when Wanda is more cordial than others. Maybe she is a moody person. ann/ NJ DOCband 2 weeks 2 days Hope now you are onto better rounding! ann/ NJ DOCband 2 weeks > Message: 8 > Date: Wed, 10 Jul 2002 22:55:00 -0000 > From: " stripes6060 " <taime@...> > Subject: Re: Physical Therapy > > ann, > When was in PT.. my PT did both. She was hands on with > ,but she also showed me how to do everything she was doing. She > definitely worked !! My poor baby would leave there exhausted! > But it worked. Her tort is fully resolved. YEA!! > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 12, 2002 Report Share Posted July 12, 2002 ann, When I say worked I mean she did neck streches with her and did things with while was on her tummy and she also had her on this really BIG ball. She worked her physically. If your PT is telling you that 's tort may never go away, then maybe you need to find another PT. When was dx with tort I researched like crazy, I don't remember reading any articel stating that tort isn't correctable. Is your PT familiar with tort? Is your PT used to working with babies? The place I went to had 2 PTs, just for kids. They only worked with kids. Thanks, I know what you mean about Wanda. I think she needs to be cordial to EVERYONE all the time. CT is a place of business and I think Wanda's attitude sometimes makes for bad business! I've treated/treat her with nothing but respect, that's all I want in return! > Hi . When you say " worked " , what exactly does that mean? > That is so good that her tort is fully resolved. My PT said that it may > never go away. I'm not sure I like this PT. > > I saw your name on the CT list yesterday! Too bad our appts weren't > closer together. I'm sorry to hear of your problems with them and > with Wanda. I've noticed that there are days when Wanda is more > cordial than others. Maybe she is a moody person. > > ann/ > NJ > DOCband 2 weeks 2 days > > Hope now you are onto better rounding! > > ann/ > NJ > DOCband 2 weeks > > > > Message: 8 > > Date: Wed, 10 Jul 2002 22:55:00 -0000 > > From: " stripes6060 " <taime@o...> > > Subject: Re: Physical Therapy > > > > ann, > > When was in PT.. my PT did both. She was hands on with > > ,but she also showed me how to do everything she was doing. She > > definitely worked !! My poor baby would leave there exhausted! > > But it worked. Her tort is fully resolved. YEA!! > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 12, 2002 Report Share Posted July 12, 2002 In a message dated 7/12/2002 8:04:30 AM Eastern Daylight Time, smilemtb@... writes: My PT said that it may never go away. I'm not sure I like this PT. ann, That's not a very positive outlook!!!! Even my pt, who saw at 2 months old, and was very severe, didn't confess her concerns to me about how bad he was until down the road- while progress was being made! There are some children that do not respond to pt, and require surgery, but that determination is really not made until approx. 2 years of age, when pt has been tried and unsuccessful. How long has even been in pt? Tell him to get a better outlook, or switch if you don't feel comfortable with him in the first place- you really do need to feel the pt has a good repore with you and your son! ' Mom Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 23, 2002 Report Share Posted July 23, 2002 thank you so much for your imput..i greatly appreciate it.. brenda mom of tucker Quoting ann Breslow <smilemtb@...>: > > > > > I am so sorry to hear this. I know how you are feeling. I've had 2 m/c > before > > and am very lucky to have (looooooong story....). I had 2 d & c's. > Other than > > the emotional upset of losing a baby, the d & c is not bad at all. You would > be > > under general anesthesia so you'll feel nothing. I woke up with slight > cramping > > but recovered quickly. It was a same day surgery in the hospital and I was > home > > in the late afternoon. I think the whole procedure took about 20 minutes. > > I was glad I had the d & c's - it was better for me emotionally. My dr > > wanted me to have them. Some dr's prefer you wait it out and pass > > it naturally since there is some chance of scaring with d & c. > > > > You did NOT do anything wrong and God is NOT punishing you. Unfortunately, > > bad things happen to good people - there is no explanation other than it is, > > what it is (my husband's words that helped me through). There is a whole > > grieving process you will go through - crying, anger...this is all normal. > > > > If you'd like to talk to me privately, feel free to e-mail me at > smilemtb@.... > > > > My thought and prayers are with you. > > > > ann/ > > NJ > > > > > > > Message: 20 > > > Date: Mon, 8 Jul 2002 21:44:54 -0500 > > > From: " brendaty " <ruby1@...> > > > Subject: Re: OT > > > > > > well i'm sorry to say but i do have some bad news..after having a horrible > experience with the ultrasound tech today..have not to nice words about > her....the dr called me back today at about 530 pm to tell me that there is a > sac that measures to about 6 weeks and there is a yolk but no fetus..she was > mortified as is me and ty...now we go back next week to see if my body is > gonna get rid of it or not cause me hormone levels are still going up..if > not, then either i can wait to see what happens or get a d & c..i willl > prolly do the d & c as then i don't have to worry when it will happen..as i > said, we are in shock and so is our family as everyone knew...i can't believe > this is happening and i can't help but feel 2 things..its my fault and god is > punishing me for what i did to tucker (noggin) i know neither are true but as > i said, i'm in shock..also, anyone who has had d*c can you please, if you > don't mind, tell me a little about this..where is it done..how long does it > take, does it hurt, how long are you out..etc..thanks again.. > > > > > > brenda > > > mom of tucker > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 24, 2002 Report Share Posted July 24, 2002 thank you soo much..its great to know i have so many buds.. brenda mom of tucker Re: OT>> well i'm sorry to say but i do have some bad news..after having a horrible experience with the ultrasound tech today..have not to nice words about her....the dr called me back today at about 530 pm to tell me that there is a sac that measures to about 6 weeks and there is a yolk but no fetus..she was mortified as is me and ty...now we go back next week to see if my body is gonna get rid of it or not cause me hormone levels are still going up..if not, then either i can wait to see what happens or get a d & c..i willl prolly do the d & c as then i don't have to worry when it will happen..as i said, we are in shock and so is our family as everyone knew...i can't believe this is happening and i can't help but feel 2 things..its my fault and god is punishing me for what i did to tucker (noggin) i know neither are true but as i said, i'm in shock..also, anyone who has had d*c can you please, if you don't mind, tell me a little about this..where is it done..how long does it take, does it hurt, how long are you out..etc..thanks again..>> brenda> mom of tucker For more plagio info Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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