Re: Re: is this normal I made a mistake

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I wasn't offended. You're way too nice to offend me!

Hugs,

LMnaturalbeauty38 <naturalbeauty38@...> wrote:

I was wrong to say if it was not for men we would not care about our boobs, I meant to say the size of our boobs. I think we all care about the shape and the firmness and that but size wise i think we would all be way less obsessed with large breasts if it was not for men and media. I know for a fact that back before implants women had curvier heavy bodies and had more fat therefore more breast tissue. that was the look then. Now it is this impossible image of breasts that are huge on these tiny stick thin women, impossible to be that thin without having an eating disorder for MOST of us. There are some that are blessed with a high metabolism but for most of we have to work for.Anyhow I did not want to offend anyone with that statement about us not careing about our breasts, I really did only mean to say size, not quality of

themhugsIn , "naturalbeauty38" wrote:> OF COURSE IT IS TOTALLY NORMAL IT TAKES TIME.Go out and get some of > those little chicken cutlet thingers like Patty and I and some others > wear. You can get them on line. They are so awesome. Go by a really > good bra, actually get a few. I have several that make me a nice full > B cup and that is all I really need on my small frame. You need to > stop focusing on the implants and focus on healing and being natural > and you can help yourself with wearing enhancers so that you can > focus on more important things than plastic bags sewn in your chest. > Of course most of us, esp those of us now with little body fat and > smaller boobs, we really had those feelings, I had such boob envy for > the first 2 years and it still creeps in everyonce in

awhile. On our > river raft trip last week for example, there was a little 21 year old > girl, the wife of my hubby's boss's son, who was tiny as can be, > totally darling, and boom nice boobies. At first I thought they had > to be fake, but she is so young and a mormon and just did not seem > the type to get implants, after looking at her with jealousy for a > day or two I finally just decided they were probably real and since > she was so young and no children etc time and age and kids had not > yet sucked away her perky boobs. I never had that big of boobs at > that age, but they were sure perky and cute. I wish I could go back > to how I used to be mentally, I never ever looked or cared or noticed > boobs until this whole implant thing, now I am this boob freak. I > always notice boobs. My husband told me even men don't look or think > about boobs as much as I do and I

think he is right. he did not even > notice this girls breasts like i did and told me that I was obsessing > on it and that I need to just realize that i am beautiful, have a > nice buff fit body and that I should just be thankful to look as good > as i do. No big fat jiggles on my arms or thighs etc. I mean yes I > have stretch marks and small boobs, but I am 40 years old next month > and look damn good for 40. I am happy most of the time but the old > boob envy comes out now and then and I totally hate it.> Anyhow I just use the enhancers in a pocket bra most of the time and > it works really well. s secret is the only place that makes A > cups that fit me right, so when I want to look more natural and > forego the enhancers I have a cute little twist bra that you twist > the center till it makes cleavage. It is awesome. I also have a > strapless bra ( all the

Sun Valley girls thought it was way cool) and > it works great on me it is really stiff so even though I don't > completely fill it out it works great on my body. I can wear > strapless tops and spaghetti straps etc and they look awesome. One > day in Sun Valley I even wore a strapless hot pink top with no bra > and went natural and ya know what, it looked good. I posted the pic > of me in it in the photo section, I look allot better in that top > than I ever would have imagined. It looks cute. My boobs look like > they match my body type and frame. I think that you need to just > focus on your health and be beautiful from the inside and it will > show through. Forget about implants, they are not worth what they do > to you in the long run.> I think your lucky and smart that you had them out so fast. If you > want to change your looks the best way I can honestly think of is to

> work out. It can change so many things and make you look so good > without surgery and it is a healthy thing. Try lifting weights or > getting some resistance bands for stregnth training. This will > improve your bod more than implants. > Really what do we need to have huge boobs for? Ourselves? Do we > really care that much or is it for men? Is it to feel accepted and > adored and wanted by men? In reality that is the reason women want > implants. In fact if we are honest with ourselves we will see that if > it was up to us, if there were no men to impress, we would all just > have our old saggy boobs and be healthy and not give a hoot. It is > all the media and the other women with implants that are stick thin > that give us this major insecurity.> it is so not worth it to do that to ourselves.> I know that if you give yourself time you will come to appreciate > your

natural breasts. If your the same one I am thinking of and are > still unhappy with your breasts due to sagginess there are options. > Wait and give yourself some time and if that is what you want, see > about a nice lift, to perk things up.> please try to realize your a beauitful person and you do not need > plastic bags of toxins to be a real woman.> hugs> > > > > > > > > > In , "ness19712001" > wrote:> > i miss the way i looked with my implants and feel self consious > > without them.anyone have these feeolings

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It's so true. It can be difficult communicating on line as opposed to the phone or in person. I know you and know your heart is in the right place so I understand your communications.

hugs

LMnaturalbeauty38 <naturalbeauty38@...> wrote:

Thanks LM:I am trying to be on my toes lately about what I say and how I say it since I have had so many genuinely nice things, come off as being offensive. I am taking the really conservative approach these days. I really think that sometimes it is hard to get feelings across on the internet without them being misinterpreted, esp when your talking about things that your passionate about.hugsCIn , Jane Doe wrote:> Hi !> I wasn't offended. You're way too nice to offend me!> Hugs,> LM> > naturalbeauty38 wrote:> I was wrong to say if it was not for men we would not care about our > boobs, I meant to say the size of our boobs. I think we all care > about the shape and the

firmness and that but size wise i think we > would all be way less obsessed with large breasts if it was not for > men and media. I know for a fact that back before implants women had > curvier heavy bodies and had more fat therefore more breast tissue. > that was the look then. Now it is this impossible image of breasts > that are huge on these tiny stick thin women, impossible to be that > thin without having an eating disorder for MOST of us. There are some > that are blessed with a high metabolism but for most of we have to > work for.> Anyhow I did not want to offend anyone with that statement about us > not careing about our breasts, I really did only mean to say size, > not quality of them> hugs> > > > > > > > > In , "naturalbeauty38" > wrote:> > OF COURSE IT IS TOTALLY

NORMAL IT TAKES TIME.Go out and get some of > > those little chicken cutlet thingers like Patty and I and some > others > > wear. You can get them on line. They are so awesome. Go by a really > > good bra, actually get a few. I have several that make me a nice > full > > B cup and that is all I really need on my small frame. You need to > > stop focusing on the implants and focus on healing and being > natural > > and you can help yourself with wearing enhancers so that you can > > focus on more important things than plastic bags sewn in your > chest. > > Of course most of us, esp those of us now with little body fat and > > smaller boobs, we really had those feelings, I had such boob envy > for > > the first 2 years and it still creeps in everyonce in awhile. On > our > > river raft trip last week for example, there

was a little 21 year > old > > girl, the wife of my hubby's boss's son, who was tiny as can be, > > totally darling, and boom nice boobies. At first I thought they had > > to be fake, but she is so young and a mormon and just did not seem > > the type to get implants, after looking at her with jealousy for a > > day or two I finally just decided they were probably real and since > > she was so young and no children etc time and age and kids had not > > yet sucked away her perky boobs. I never had that big of boobs at > > that age, but they were sure perky and cute. I wish I could go back > > to how I used to be mentally, I never ever looked or cared or > noticed > > boobs until this whole implant thing, now I am this boob freak. I > > always notice boobs. My husband told me even men don't look or > think > > about boobs

as much as I do and I think he is right. he did not > even > > notice this girls breasts like i did and told me that I was > obsessing > > on it and that I need to just realize that i am beautiful, have a > > nice buff fit body and that I should just be thankful to look as > good > > as i do. No big fat jiggles on my arms or thighs etc. I mean yes I > > have stretch marks and small boobs, but I am 40 years old next > month > > and look damn good for 40. I am happy most of the time but the old > > boob envy comes out now and then and I totally hate it.> > Anyhow I just use the enhancers in a pocket bra most of the time > and > > it works really well. s secret is the only place that makes > A > > cups that fit me right, so when I want to look more natural and > > forego the enhancers I have a cute little twist bra

that you twist > > the center till it makes cleavage. It is awesome. I also have a > > strapless bra ( all the Sun Valley girls thought it was way cool) > and > > it works great on me it is really stiff so even though I don't > > completely fill it out it works great on my body. I can wear > > strapless tops and spaghetti straps etc and they look awesome. One > > day in Sun Valley I even wore a strapless hot pink top with no bra > > and went natural and ya know what, it looked good. I posted the pic > > of me in it in the photo section, I look allot better in that top > > than I ever would have imagined. It looks cute. My boobs look like > > they match my body type and frame. I think that you need to just > > focus on your health and be beautiful from the inside and it will > > show through. Forget about implants, they are not worth what

they > do > > to you in the long run.> > I think your lucky and smart that you had them out so fast. If you > > want to change your looks the best way I can honestly think of is > to > > work out. It can change so many things and make you look so good > > without surgery and it is a healthy thing. Try lifting weights or > > getting some resistance bands for stregnth training. This will > > improve your bod more than implants. > > Really what do we need to have huge boobs for? Ourselves? Do we > > really care that much or is it for men? Is it to feel accepted and > > adored and wanted by men? In reality that is the reason women want > > implants. In fact if we are honest with ourselves we will see that > if > > it was up to us, if there were no men to impress, we would all just > > have our old saggy boobs and be

healthy and not give a hoot. It is > > all the media and the other women with implants that are stick thin > > that give us this major insecurity.> > it is so not worth it to do that to ourselves.> > I know that if you give yourself time you will come to appreciate > > your natural breasts. If your the same one I am thinking of and are > > still unhappy with your breasts due to sagginess there are options. > > Wait and give yourself some time and if that is what you want, see > > about a nice lift, to perk things up.> > please try to realize your a beauitful person and you do not need > > plastic bags of toxins to be a real woman.> > hugs> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > In , "ness19712001" > >

wrote:> > > i miss the way i looked with my implants and feel self consious > > > without them.anyone have these feeolings> > > > >