Re: is this normal/Patty

[Guest guest]

Well after saying it I started thinking I might offend someone by

that statement and i do not want to do that. So i changed it to say

that I think that we do care just that we don't care so much about

them being these huge grapefruits! I mean really our breasts were

made for nursing a baby and yes, they are a sexual thing and I think

most of us enjoy that, but we don't have to have the biggest roundest

fakest boobs to enjoy them for sex. That is all a media falacy. I

think that men run most of the media and so that is what is stuffed

down our throats this super unrealistic image of women. I fear the

next generation will just grow up thinking women really look like

that.

My husband told me until I came along he realy though most women with

big boobs were just that way naturally, he had no clue about them

all being fake. He says most of the men he knows are clueless too. In

fact he has told them before when they comment on some chicks boobs

that they are fake and they all look at him like he is a freak, and

say " how do you know " ? most men are very naive about boobs period.

other than ogling them hee hee

In , Trish Trish <harvest2harvest@y...>

wrote:

> So true , so true! If it was up to me, and there were no men

to impress, I wouldn't give a crap what anyone else thought, I would

never have had implants and I would have just lived with my saggy

old, after breastfeeding boobs and been happy with my health! It was

totally a social and cultural focus on nice breasts that made me want

to have boobs.

>

> I had to get over that. It's been hard, but truly, boobs are not

worth all the fuss.

> Patty

>

> naturalbeauty38 <naturalbeauty38@y...> wrote:

> OF COURSE IT IS TOTALLY NORMAL IT TAKES TIME.Go out and get some of

> those little chicken cutlet thingers like Patty and I and some

others

> wear. You can get them on line. They are so awesome. Go by a really

> good bra, actually get a few. I have several that make me a nice

full

> B cup and that is all I really need on my small frame. You need to

> stop focusing on the implants and focus on healing and being

natural

> and you can help yourself with wearing enhancers so that you can

> focus on more important things than plastic bags sewn in your

chest.

> Of course most of us, esp those of us now with little body fat and

> smaller boobs, we really had those feelings, I had such boob envy

for

> the first 2 years and it still creeps in everyonce in awhile. On

our

> river raft trip last week for example, there was a little 21 year

old

> girl, the wife of my hubby's boss's son, who was tiny as can be,

> totally darling, and boom nice boobies. At first I thought they had

> to be fake, but she is so young and a mormon and just did not seem

> the type to get implants, after looking at her with jealousy for a

> day or two I finally just decided they were probably real and since

> she was so young and no children etc time and age and kids had not

> yet sucked away her perky boobs. I never had that big of boobs at

> that age, but they were sure perky and cute. I wish I could go back

> to how I used to be mentally, I never ever looked or cared or

noticed

> boobs until this whole implant thing, now I am this boob freak. I

> always notice boobs. My husband told me even men don't look or

think

> about boobs as much as I do and I think he is right. he did not

even

> notice this girls breasts like i did and told me that I was

obsessing

> on it and that I need to just realize that i am beautiful, have a

> nice buff fit body and that I should just be thankful to look as

good

> as i do. No big fat jiggles on my arms or thighs etc. I mean yes I

> have stretch marks and small boobs, but I am 40 years old next

month

> and look damn good for 40. I am happy most of the time but the old

> boob envy comes out now and then and I totally hate it.

> Anyhow I just use the enhancers in a pocket bra most of the time

and

> it works really well. s secret is the only place that makes

A

> cups that fit me right, so when I want to look more natural and

> forego the enhancers I have a cute little twist bra that you twist

> the center till it makes cleavage. It is awesome. I also have a

> strapless bra ( all the Sun Valley girls thought it was way cool)

and

> it works great on me it is really stiff so even though I don't

> completely fill it out it works great on my body. I can wear

> strapless tops and spaghetti straps etc and they look awesome. One

> day in Sun Valley I even wore a strapless hot pink top with no bra

> and went natural and ya know what, it looked good. I posted the pic

> of me in it in the photo section, I look allot better in that top

> than I ever would have imagined. It looks cute. My boobs look like

> they match my body type and frame. I think that you need to just

> focus on your health and be beautiful from the inside and it will

> show through. Forget about implants, they are not worth what they

do

> to you in the long run.

> I think your lucky and smart that you had them out so fast. If you

> want to change your looks the best way I can honestly think of is

to

> work out. It can change so many things and make you look so good

> without surgery and it is a healthy thing. Try lifting weights or

> getting some resistance bands for stregnth training. This will

> improve your bod more than implants.

> Really what do we need to have huge boobs for? Ourselves? Do we

> really care that much or is it for men? Is it to feel accepted and

> adored and wanted by men? In reality that is the reason women want

> implants. In fact if we are honest with ourselves we will see that

if

> it was up to us, if there were no men to impress, we would all just

> have our old saggy boobs and be healthy and not give a hoot. It is

> all the media and the other women with implants that are stick thin

> that give us this major insecurity.

> it is so not worth it to do that to ourselves.

> I know that if you give yourself time you will come to appreciate

> your natural breasts. If your the same one I am thinking of and are

> still unhappy with your breasts due to sagginess there are options.

> Wait and give yourself some time and if that is what you want, see

> about a nice lift, to perk things up.

> please try to realize your a beauitful person and you do not need

> plastic bags of toxins to be a real woman.

> hugs

>

>

>

>

>

>

>

>

>

> In , " ness19712001 " <yagoob94@a...>

> wrote:

> > i miss the way i looked with my implants and feel self consious

> > without them.anyone have these feeolings

>

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

I think men like breasts in general and , if they are attached to the

woman they love, it does not matter what they really look like, big

or small or saggy or whatever. On a more personal preference I agree

that I do not like saggy stretched out boobies or big nipples either,

I tend to like nice perky boobs, small or medium not huge, but if

they are natural and big, then that is always good. Just feel like

lifts are awesome to keep things looking perky.

I would like bigger boobs but not at the sacrifice of being fake or

saggy, just my two cents.

hugs

wrote:

> Hi. Most men I know don't like breast implants. Yes, many like big

boobs, but natural ones. I know many men who like small ones too. I

think sagginess is the big turn off and huge aeroloas--just my two

cents.

> LM

>

> naturalbeauty38 <naturalbeauty38@y...> wrote:

> Well after saying it I started thinking I might offend someone by

> that statement and i do not want to do that. So i changed it to say

> that I think that we do care just that we don't care so much about

> them being these huge grapefruits! I mean really our breasts were

> made for nursing a baby and yes, they are a sexual thing and I

think

> most of us enjoy that, but we don't have to have the biggest

roundest

> fakest boobs to enjoy them for sex. That is all a media falacy. I

> think that men run most of the media and so that is what is stuffed

> down our throats this super unrealistic image of women. I fear the

> next generation will just grow up thinking women really look like

> that.

> My husband told me until I came along he realy though most women

with

> big boobs were just that way naturally, he had no clue about them

> all being fake. He says most of the men he knows are clueless too.

In

> fact he has told them before when they comment on some chicks boobs

> that they are fake and they all look at him like he is a freak, and

> say " how do you know " ? most men are very naive about boobs period.

>

> other than ogling them hee hee

>

>

>

>

>

> In , Trish Trish

> wrote:

> > So true , so true! If it was up to me, and there were no

men

> to impress, I wouldn't give a crap what anyone else thought, I

would

> never have had implants and I would have just lived with my saggy

> old, after breastfeeding boobs and been happy with my health! It

was

> totally a social and cultural focus on nice breasts that made me

want

> to have boobs.

> >

> > I had to get over that. It's been hard, but truly, boobs are not

> worth all the fuss.

> > Patty

> >

> > naturalbeauty38 wrote:

> > OF COURSE IT IS TOTALLY NORMAL IT TAKES TIME.Go out and get some

of

> > those little chicken cutlet thingers like Patty and I and some

> others

> > wear. You can get them on line. They are so awesome. Go by a

really

> > good bra, actually get a few. I have several that make me a nice

> full

> > B cup and that is all I really need on my small frame. You need

to

> > stop focusing on the implants and focus on healing and being

> natural

> > and you can help yourself with wearing enhancers so that you can

> > focus on more important things than plastic bags sewn in your

> chest.

> > Of course most of us, esp those of us now with little body fat

and

> > smaller boobs, we really had those feelings, I had such boob envy

> for

> > the first 2 years and it still creeps in everyonce in awhile. On

> our

> > river raft trip last week for example, there was a little 21 year

> old

> > girl, the wife of my hubby's boss's son, who was tiny as can be,

> > totally darling, and boom nice boobies. At first I thought they

had

> > to be fake, but she is so young and a mormon and just did not

seem

> > the type to get implants, after looking at her with jealousy for

a

> > day or two I finally just decided they were probably real and

since

> > she was so young and no children etc time and age and kids had

not

> > yet sucked away her perky boobs. I never had that big of boobs at

> > that age, but they were sure perky and cute. I wish I could go

back

> > to how I used to be mentally, I never ever looked or cared or

> noticed

> > boobs until this whole implant thing, now I am this boob freak. I

> > always notice boobs. My husband told me even men don't look or

> think

> > about boobs as much as I do and I think he is right. he did not

> even

> > notice this girls breasts like i did and told me that I was

> obsessing

> > on it and that I need to just realize that i am beautiful, have a

> > nice buff fit body and that I should just be thankful to look as

> good

> > as i do. No big fat jiggles on my arms or thighs etc. I mean yes

I

> > have stretch marks and small boobs, but I am 40 years old next

> month

> > and look damn good for 40. I am happy most of the time but the

old

> > boob envy comes out now and then and I totally hate it.

> > Anyhow I just use the enhancers in a pocket bra most of the time

> and

> > it works really well. s secret is the only place that

makes

> A

> > cups that fit me right, so when I want to look more natural and

> > forego the enhancers I have a cute little twist bra that you

twist

> > the center till it makes cleavage. It is awesome. I also have a

> > strapless bra ( all the Sun Valley girls thought it was way cool)

> and

> > it works great on me it is really stiff so even though I don't

> > completely fill it out it works great on my body. I can wear

> > strapless tops and spaghetti straps etc and they look awesome.

One

> > day in Sun Valley I even wore a strapless hot pink top with no

bra

> > and went natural and ya know what, it looked good. I posted the

pic

> > of me in it in the photo section, I look allot better in that top

> > than I ever would have imagined. It looks cute. My boobs look

like

> > they match my body type and frame. I think that you need to just

> > focus on your health and be beautiful from the inside and it will

> > show through. Forget about implants, they are not worth what they

> do

> > to you in the long run.

> > I think your lucky and smart that you had them out so fast. If

you

> > want to change your looks the best way I can honestly think of is

> to

> > work out. It can change so many things and make you look so good

> > without surgery and it is a healthy thing. Try lifting weights or

> > getting some resistance bands for stregnth training. This will

> > improve your bod more than implants.

> > Really what do we need to have huge boobs for? Ourselves? Do we

> > really care that much or is it for men? Is it to feel accepted

and

> > adored and wanted by men? In reality that is the reason women

want

> > implants. In fact if we are honest with ourselves we will see

that

> if

> > it was up to us, if there were no men to impress, we would all

just

> > have our old saggy boobs and be healthy and not give a hoot. It

is

> > all the media and the other women with implants that are stick

thin

> > that give us this major insecurity.

> > it is so not worth it to do that to ourselves.

> > I know that if you give yourself time you will come to appreciate

> > your natural breasts. If your the same one I am thinking of and

are

> > still unhappy with your breasts due to sagginess there are

options.

> > Wait and give yourself some time and if that is what you want,

see

> > about a nice lift, to perk things up.

> > please try to realize your a beauitful person and you do not need

> > plastic bags of toxins to be a real woman.

> > hugs

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> > In , " ness19712001 "

> > wrote:

> > > i miss the way i looked with my implants and feel self consious

> > > without them.anyone have these feeolings

> >

> >

> >

> >