RE: Re: Paracites/

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, my little sis was into that whole gothic thing, and was for a while. That was around the age of 13-15, and it was bad. Now, she is traveling around the world to spread Gods gospel. Who would have thought? Want to hear something funny? We were so sick of our little blond, and I mean BLond hair, fair Larena, wearing black lipstick, (it glowed on her! )so one day, when she was out with her friends at this ice cream place, me, my mom and step dad all put black lipstick on, and walked in, smiling! We looked like idiots, people could not stop staring-but we were desperate! It made her crazy we were copying her,and the very thing he did to stand out and be differnt from us,we were doing, so it was no longer the same. She never wore it again. But she did get into all this weird music,and even cutting her skin. It was scary. We used to pray over her, when she was sleeping.

I think now, looking back, Larena is very unique and needed someplace to fit in, all her crazy notions, and thoughts, artisitc ways, and all. And to this type of group, she could, it just leered her the wrong way. Its just a place, they feel like they can fit in, and realy want you to understand , to prove, to scream -they are differnt. She is so normal now! I hope and pray your daughter will also change and be protected under God's watchful eye,while going through this. And that people will understand her, and be patient around her. Im sorry you are going through this. Hang in there , you cant blame yourself. Does she want to be with you? Is that what is troubling her? It must be so hard for her too. That is scary about boyfriends though! ulie>From: "naturalbeauty38" <naturalbeauty38@...> >Reply- > >Subject: Re: Paracites/ >Date: Thu, 08 Jul 2004 18:48:17 -0000 > >I am stressed about seeing her, as it has been a year since I have >seen her, I am scared of how much weight she has gained( my parents >say she is the same but they see her all the time) and then the fact >that she has several boyfriends (she is 12) and is wearing makeup, >and is into this gothic thing, where they all wear black and stuff, >and it is kind of creepy. She hangs out on vampire.com whatever that >is, and listens to music that is beyond wacky and I like most all >music today, but that slipknot band is too much. >I am freaking on it pretty dam bad. >I love her and feel total guilt, again, I blame implants and my >illness, if only i had been able to be there for her instead of her >living at her dads while I was on my death bed for 3 years. >it sucks >thanks for caring though, I appreciate it, if everyone can add a >prayer in there for me and her and our relationship that would be >nice. >I am worried about being a grandma at 40 years old, more worried for >her than for me if you get what I mean. >shoot it sucks >hugs > > > > > > > ><juliejp61@m...> wrote: > > > > > >

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Yes, my granddaughter was too, and white witchcraft, and she is now 15 and

out of it. It is a phase.

Lynda

At 01:06 PM 7/8/2004, you wrote:

>, my little sis was into that whole gothic thing, and was for a

>while. That was around the age of 13-15, and it was bad. Now, she is

>traveling around the world to spread Gods gospel. Who would have thought?

>Want to hear something funny? We were so sick of our little blond, and I

>mean BLond hair, fair Larena, wearing black lipstick, (it glowed on her!

>)so one day, when she was out with her friends at this ice cream place,

>me, my mom and step dad all put black lipstick on, and walked in, smiling!

>We looked like idiots, people could not stop staring-but we were

>desperate! It made her crazy we were copying her,and the very thing he

>did to stand out and be differnt from us,we were doing, so it was no

>longer the same. She never wore it again. But she did get into all this

>weird music,and even cutting her skin. It was scary. We used to pray over

>her, when she was sleeping.

>

>I think now, looking back, Larena is very unique and needed someplace to

>fit in, all her crazy notions, and thoughts, artisitc ways, and all. And

>to this type of group, she could, it just leered her the wrong way. Its

>just a place, they feel like they can fit in, and realy want you to

>understand , to prove, to scream -they are differnt. She is so normal now!

>I hope and pray your daughter will also change and be protected under

>God's watchful eye,while going through this. And that people will

>understand her, and be patient around her. Im sorry you are going through

>this. Hang in there , you cant blame yourself. Does she want to be

>with you? Is that what is troubling her? It must be so hard for her too.

>That is scary about boyfriends though! ulie

> >From: " naturalbeauty38 " <naturalbeauty38@...> >Reply-Saline

> Support > >Subject:

> Re: Paracites/ >Date: Thu, 08 Jul 2004 18:48:17

> -0000 > >I am stressed about seeing her, as it has been a year since I

> have >seen her, I am scared of how much weight she has gained( my

> parents >say she is the same but they see her all the time) and then the

> fact >that she has several boyfriends (she is 12) and is wearing

> makeup, >and is into this gothic thing, where they all wear black and

> stuff, >and it is kind of creepy. She hangs out on vampire.com whatever

> that >is, and listens to music that is beyond wacky and I like most

> all >music today, but that slipknot band is too much. >I am freaking on

> it pretty dam bad. >I love her and feel total guilt, again, I blame

> implants and my >illness, if only i had been able to be there for her

> instead of her >living at her dads while I was on my death bed for 3

> years. >it sucks >thanks for cari ng though, I appreciate it, if everyone

> can add a >prayer in there for me and her and our relationship that would

> be >nice. >I am worried about being a grandma at 40 years old, more

> worried for >her than for me if you get what I mean. >shoot it

> sucks >hugs > > > > > > > ><juliejp61@m...>

> wrote: > > > > > >