Re:To Anita-Candida Killer?? Vickie and Daryl

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Vickie,

I am sorry to say it but I agree with you 110% and told Daryl as much

in Sun Valley, we went shopping but Daryl just has all these food

issues she needs to get down and deal with. She is very picky and

that is a big time issue for her. Daryl I am sorry honey I do not

want to make you feel picked on, but your issues over hating veggies

and fruit are going to be the end of your chances to heal. You need

to get over that and get off all the junk you eat. If getting better

is worth it to you, then just start dealing with eating better. It is

not that hard, you told me you hate veggies you hate fruit, etc etc.

Well I don't know anyone that can stay or get healthy without eating

that kind of stuff. I never did an anti candida diet for long and

personally don't think that it was an issue for me, but for you, you

need to just do it, there is NO MAGIC PILL OR BUTTON, so either you

deal with the way it is or stay the way you are. Crying about it

won't solve it and neither will any supps or things you take until

you change your diet.

Anyone can change, you expect your husband to change and rightfully

so, isn't it about time to expect that much of yourself as well. you

want him to be faitful and not be this sex addict but then you

yourself are a bad example of not being able to control something

very much like his addiction, your sugar addiction. It seems to me

that one works with the other. Look at it that way and then take

action.

I also know that another big part of healing is being tough and

strong, and dealing with life, not hiding out from it, so go out

there girl, fight to get well, try to work out,push yourself, you

even said it yourself that you felt better when you got up and

moving, so do it and do it as often as you can. I mean if your

already in pain what difference will it make anyhow, that is how I

felt and it worked for me.

I feel bad for you Daryl but there are times when we have to just

deal with life on lifes terms, things will not change unless you step

up.

hugs

In , Vickie <gracie17db@y...>

wrote:

> Daryl: I hate to sound harsh as I know what you are going

through. But you're gonna have to stop feeling sorry for yourself

and take control of YOUR life. Give up sugar, bread, pasta...its

only food. find something to take it's place. Drink a lot of water

each sugar free mints or life savers, cucumber sticks, carrot sticks,

whatever fresh veggies you like. If you dont like any, learn to. If

you want to get well....DO SOMETHING. There is no magic pill. I

wish there were. We've all been there and have had to do this. Stop

putting it off and do it. You'll feel better for having done it or

you can stay miserable.

> Vickie

> Daryl <daryljean@c...> wrote:

> The more I read about Candida, the angrier I am at my body. Why

do I have to have something that is so hard to get rid of??? And

something that most Dr.s don't even believe in.......and it won't go

away until I stop eating all the things that I crave day and night..I

thought that be so ill for 4 yrs. and then paying thousands of $$$$

for my explant might be the end of it-----Why won''t this junk just

DIE???

>

> I would love to hear about anything you have found out!! I got a

part-time job at Gymboree teaching babies and toddlers after my husb.

left me, because I needed something to focus on-it's just so hard to

make it to work. Thank goodness that it's an active job where I get

to move around,so my pain is better-it's just getting off the couch

to get there is the problem! No one there knows my " secret "

> is back but there is still so much hurt on my end.

>

> Please send me whatever you have or call me at #702-361-6442-Bless

you, I know that I've been whining about the same stuff for years-

Love, Daryl

> Everyone!

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> > Please take the time to go to the database and add your therapies

> > used,and how they worked for you etc. I think this will be very

> > helpfull for everyone.

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> > Love ya all

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