Clarifying Why Upset-Cross posted

[Guest guest]

Thank you for the email of support but I thought I should clarify

what actually happened; the post was taken from the SBIPrayer Forum

Support Group;

I received an email from TD yesterday,(at my personal email) asking

me if I was the author of this, see post, #17741 (SBIPrayer Forum )

TD was refered to me by ilena. When I investigated and started

clicking through links, I found that it had been copied and pasted

from here to what I now know is ilena's news group site. Hard to tell

who copied it there, but, there's nasty comments about the thank you,

and someone accused ilena of getting a cut for the referal. It was

horrible to see my post being targeted! I saw a lot of unkind stuff

going on there, but I couldn't help wondering if there was any truth

to it? After all, we have been lied to forever, was this another

scam on me?

Could I have been dupped? Kathy (TD) and I spent the afternoon

emailing each other. We were mistified how my post got there? They

instilled doubt into my mind. Was this their intention, was any of

this true? Why didn't I hear about this war, I've been posting for

over a year. It's very stressful to cast doubt into someone's mind.

I knew nothing about the nasty war going on and this was how I found

out. :-( My attorney is refered to me by TD, so, of coarse I would

be upset, and fearful.

I would be grateful for your help through this,

in Ca

Cross-Posted

> Hello,

> I just posted this on the SBI Prayer Forum Site and this is a copy

to

> you. It didn't happen from this site but I want you to read what

my

> day was and how upset I am!!

> Here goes:

>

> Last month I wrote a post here thanking certain named women for the

> help and encouragment I have received on this site, and posted that

I

> was refered to a certain non profit group and they were going to be

> my advocates. I am upset to learn that this post was put up on

> another site without my permission!

> That site is is:

> alt.support.breast-implant.moderated

>

> Who is this group and why would they take my post out of context

from

> here and post it somewhere else on that site? I am very upset

about

> this and I no longer feel safe to " tell my story " at all!!

>

> Are we being " watched " , are there lukers here taking our posts,

> private info and using them??? Using our disease to their profit

and

> gain?? I followed a link today and spent most of the day horrifed

> about what negativity I found on this other site!!!

>

> I don't feel safe here at all!! The anger on that other site is

> unimagionable!! It disgusts me that I saw what they were saying to

> oneanother!

> I am also very concerned about the organization I was refered to.

I

> feel so deceived!! I may just have to shut down all my support

> groups and how sad that is!!

> There also may be women here that this has happened to as well??

So,

> now what??

>

> in Ca

> I am cross-posting this to the Saline Support Site

[Guest guest]

,

I just don't care personally if anyone wants to try to mess with me

they will have a big load of trouble on there little hands so they

better come at me with a big fight ready hee hee. I am little but

tough and don't take any crap. I have been one of those ladies who

has feely posted my phone number that you mentioned and I will do it

again to help anyone who needs it. No one really scares me, so let em

try! I don't care, they can take my post and shove it wear the sun

don't shine cause they will not intimidate me, if I want to help I

will be here and they will have a hard time to get to me anyhow. I

mean computer wise I have all the virus updates etc, blockers on my

home email and use my for this site. That is always a good

idea, to have a different email to use for the site than your ISP

email. Take those precautions and then don't worry too much about it.

Def don't leave the support groups cause of a few kooks with nothing

better to do. I won't give them the satisfaction. If I leave or take

a break that is my own choice but I won't be chased away.

Sometimes I think my toughness is a big part of why I healed so fast,

when you have been to hell and back several times in your life, it

just gets hard to keep ya down.

hang in there girl we are your friends and I personally will help you

any way I can

you stay tough girlie!

hugs

In , " lindabones9 " <lindabones9@y...>

wrote:

> Thank you for the email of support but I thought I should clarify

> what actually happened; the post was taken from the SBIPrayer Forum

> Support Group;

>

> I received an email from TD yesterday,(at my personal email) asking

> me if I was the author of this, see post, #17741 (SBIPrayer Forum )

> TD was refered to me by ilena. When I investigated and started

> clicking through links, I found that it had been copied and pasted

> from here to what I now know is ilena's news group site. Hard to

tell

> who copied it there, but, there's nasty comments about the thank

you,

> and someone accused ilena of getting a cut for the referal. It was

> horrible to see my post being targeted! I saw a lot of unkind

stuff

> going on there, but I couldn't help wondering if there was any

truth

> to it? After all, we have been lied to forever, was this another

> scam on me?

> Could I have been dupped? Kathy (TD) and I spent the afternoon

> emailing each other. We were mistified how my post got there? They

> instilled doubt into my mind. Was this their intention, was any of

> this true? Why didn't I hear about this war, I've been posting for

> over a year. It's very stressful to cast doubt into someone's mind.

> I knew nothing about the nasty war going on and this was how I

found

> out. :-( My attorney is refered to me by TD, so, of coarse I

would

> be upset, and fearful.

>

> I would be grateful for your help through this,

> in Ca

> Cross-Posted

>

>

>

>

>

>

>

>

>

>

> > Hello,

> > I just posted this on the SBI Prayer Forum Site and this is a

copy

> to

> > you. It didn't happen from this site but I want you to read what

> my

> > day was and how upset I am!!

> > Here goes:

> >

> > Last month I wrote a post here thanking certain named women for

the

> > help and encouragment I have received on this site, and posted

that

> I

> > was refered to a certain non profit group and they were going to

be

> > my advocates. I am upset to learn that this post was put up on

> > another site without my permission!

> > That site is is:

> > alt.support.breast-implant.moderated

> >

> > Who is this group and why would they take my post out of context

> from

> > here and post it somewhere else on that site? I am very upset

> about

> > this and I no longer feel safe to " tell my story " at all!!

> >

> > Are we being " watched " , are there lukers here taking our posts,

> > private info and using them??? Using our disease to their profit

> and

> > gain?? I followed a link today and spent most of the day horrifed

> > about what negativity I found on this other site!!!

> >

> > I don't feel safe here at all!! The anger on that other site is

> > unimagionable!! It disgusts me that I saw what they were saying

to

> > oneanother!

> > I am also very concerned about the organization I was refered

to.

> I

> > feel so deceived!! I may just have to shut down all my support

> > groups and how sad that is!!

> > There also may be women here that this has happened to as well??

> So,

> > now what??

> >

> > in Ca

> > I am cross-posting this to the Saline Support Site