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Heidi, hello,

Just dropped in to check messages and found the news about Seth. I am

so sorry this has happened, and I admire you so much for taking

the " peacekeeping " road.

I grew up in an era much like yours, I think, Tom. I was muscular,

but walked with a slight limp (this was in the days before orthotics

could help). 2 guys followed me home from school everyday for the

first few weeks of 10th grade, shouting things like " peg leg we will

crush you " etc.

I was 15, and male, wanted to take them both on, but I was raised not

to provoke fights, but to stand my ground.

One day at lunch, I left my table full of friends (guys and girls)

and went to talk to these 2 guys. I sat right down at their table.

Looked them both right in the eye and simply said " do no harm " . I

left them at their table looking sort of stunned.

They stopped following me home.

Years later at a class reunion, there was a man in a wheelchair

(amputee) He knew me by name, but I did not recognize him. It was one

of the guys who used to follow me home. He was in Viet Nam and

stepped on a land mine. At the reunion he asked how I was, then

apologized for the taunts he and his buddy haunted me with in 10th

grade. We talked a long time and a real reconcilation took place. His

buddy never made it home from Viet Nam.

Heidi and Seth, take care of yourselves, and that was a good letter

Heidi! Go get 'em! The way to peace is to work for justice.

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Hello ,

I thank you kindly for your letter so much. It means a lot from the CMT people

telling their side of the story. We all have the stories that have hurt us and

it is important to be listened to and understood. I feel bad for that man, yet

some times our lessons in life are very hard. I believe this man had to go down

the hard road to learn. It can make us stop and think before reacting or being

impulsive to situations. If only people could stop being so judgmental we all

have the right to live life to the fullest and others should

appreciate our differences.

Thank you,

Heidi

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