Guest guest Posted September 3, 2006 Report Share Posted September 3, 2006 In a message dated 9/2/2006 7:35:03 P.M. US Eastern Standard Time, ldy_solana@... writes: oh anyway men can't live with them, but its wrong to tie them up in the backyard(sorry paul LOL) too funny! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 3, 2006 Report Share Posted September 3, 2006 My bf is on PMS too so maybe it is a male thing. He started in about how I am a SAHM so he doesn’t have to do paperwork from now on. Hello? Like I have 30 hours everyday to keep the house clean, take care of the kids, drop them off and pick them up take them to the different activities. Make sure they are healthy and happy, do all the errands and now somehow I am supposed to take care of bills with no direction from him and I’ve never done our bills before. I don’t even know what comes out automatically and what bills have to be paid. And his desk is piled with paperwork. And most of it he has never bothered to explain to me. I’m not stupid but things are done differently in Europe and all the paperwork is in Dutch which is not my 1st language so it takes me a while to get through a single page. And he saves stuff I would throw away (like receipts for stuff he bought online that doesn’t have warranties – like books or pillows). So I just said I thought it was better if he did the paperwork and he gives me the oh I am so put upon speech and everyone hates me and walks all over me. And when later in the day I mentioned needed a new iron, he said is ironing really a priority, its not as if you keep the house clean as it is. He is driving me bananas. If I have to hear how everyone is out to get him or doesn’t take him seriously again I will scream! And then he tells me he scheduled a business trip on the day he is supposed to go to school to listen to the introduction on norms and values for the school (this is a part of the school education and it is important that we as parents know what the school will be doing, from what I understand they teach the kids to resolve problems in a healthy way) Of course he has known about the school event for 3 months and as of yet I don’t have a babysitter. He says work is more important and who cares about the kids schooling (um me isn’t that why we switched schools? And not a good impression to miss important school meetings) I’m trying to ignore his attitude though and hope it will go away. -- No virus found in this incoming message. Checked by AVG Free Edition. Version: 7.1.405 / Virus Database: 268.11.7/436 - Release Date: 9/1/2006 -- No virus found in this outgoing message. Checked by AVG Free Edition. Version: 7.1.405 / Virus Database: 268.11.7/436 - Release Date: 9/1/2006 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 3, 2006 Report Share Posted September 3, 2006 WOW wendy, the things i would be saying to him wouldn't be allowed here or in a school values meeting kassia Get your own web address for just $1.99/1st yr. We'll help. Small Business. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 3, 2006 Report Share Posted September 3, 2006 LOL. Thanks for the laugh. I can use that todayJ A good laugh makes it all easier. I try to be understanding, but I’m losing it. I am almost ready for the kids to go to school. I have to solve the case of the missing underwear. Then I need to search for the hidden backpack. And then all I need to do is clean the kitchen (swab the deck?), fold the laundry, cook muffins for a snack for tomorrow, prep the soup for lunch tomorrow, cook tonight’s dinner and get the kids off to bed on time. Being a mom is so easy right? Though I know I love most of it (well skip the cleaning and laundry and the rest I love) From: [mailto: ] On Behalf Of Kassia Sent: Sunday, September 03, 2006 4:27 PM Subject: RE: OT husbands WOW wendy, the things i would be saying to him wouldn't be allowed here or in a school values meeting kassia -- No virus found in this incoming message. Checked by AVG Free Edition. Version: 7.1.405 / Virus Database: 268.11.7/436 - Release Date: 9/1/2006 -- No virus found in this outgoing message. Checked by AVG Free Edition. Version: 7.1.405 / Virus Database: 268.11.7/436 - Release Date: 9/1/2006 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 3, 2006 Report Share Posted September 3, 2006 Kassia, Sounds like you have a full plate and a lot of stressors going on from all angles. Try to make your DH understand that you can't do it all, and it would be much easier on you if he helped out. Oh, it's wrong to tie them up in the back yard? I'd better bring my DH back in before someone sees. LOL! Seriously I have a very good DH. Kerry it seems to be all of our DH's have PMS this week LOL. mine has been up my tail about this stupid apartment. they are raising the rent next month and things are still not fixed but i can't be the only one making phone calls, considering i have to available for the school and the doctors and my dad (who is flying to tennesee on monday for the first half of his stem cell transfusion), but he sounds like i am telling him to save the world by calling the lawyers and the office for me to get these repairs done or we will not pay the rent increase. oh anyway men can't live with them, but its wrong to tie them up in the backyard(sorry paul LOL) kassia Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 3, 2006 Report Share Posted September 3, 2006 I have a wonderful hubby, too. He does all the cooking and washes the dishes. I do the cleaning and laundry but he can do laundry, too, and does it during the winter when work's slow for him. His doing the cooking is part of why I can find time to exercise in the evening. He fixes supper while I exercise and times it so supper's ready about the same time I finish. Re: OT husbands Kassia, Sounds like you have a full plate and a lot of stressors going on from all angles. Try to make your DH understand that you can't do it all, and it would be much easier on you if he helped out. Oh, it's wrong to tie them up in the back yard? I'd better bring my DH back in before someone sees. LOL! Seriously I have a very good DH. Kerry it seems to be all of our DH's have PMS this week LOL. mine has been up my tail about this stupid apartment. they are raising the rent next month and things are still not fixed but i can't be the only one making phone calls, considering i have to available for the school and the doctors and my dad (who is flying to tennesee on monday for the first half of his stem cell transfusion), but he sounds like i am telling him to save the world by calling the lawyers and the office for me to get these repairs done or we will not pay the rent increase. oh anyway men can't live with them, but its wrong to tie them up in the backyard(sorry paul LOL) kassia Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 4, 2006 Report Share Posted September 4, 2006 That's wonderful , he sounds like a keeper! Kerry I have a wonderful hubby, too. He does all the cooking and washes the dishes. I do the cleaning and laundry but he can do laundry, too, and does it during the winter when work's slow for him. His doing the cooking is part of why I can find time to exercise in the evening. He fixes supper while I exercise and times it so supper's ready about the same time I finish. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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