Guest guest Posted February 21, 2002 Report Share Posted February 21, 2002 of coarse you can stay here. it takes a long time to diagnose. my ra test was negative too. i was having alot of the same symptoms. at times i could not even butter a piece of bread. you need to be persistant. if this dr does not keep trying, find one who will. i hope you have help with both you and your son sick. i know that one too!! i will keep you in my thoughts. kathy in il Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 21, 2002 Report Share Posted February 21, 2002 Thank you Kathy...I appreciate your thoughtfulness. Hugs, Mindy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 21, 2002 Report Share Posted February 21, 2002 Susie, Thank you for the information...I am going to do that right away. I hope you are feeling better, I am very so you have been so sick. Hugs, Mindy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 21, 2002 Report Share Posted February 21, 2002 thanks for those links, i'll have to check them out. i called my rheumi again today and they will put me on the cancellation list. i called in for water therapy too. i am too dizzy to try and drive. kathy in il Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 21, 2002 Report Share Posted February 21, 2002 Thanks , No, my Dr. told the nurse I didn't need to make another appointment. Guess what,I did anyhow, and if I am dismissed tomorrow I will tell her to either find someone who can help me or I will. I refuse to live like this...I can't.and not knowing as you already know is maddening. I just want to cry but that would ruin the makeup I put on...and God knows I don't want to have to reapply it. I don't know...I just don't know. Hugs, Mindy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 21, 2002 Report Share Posted February 21, 2002 Kathy, Why are you dizzy? Is that part of RA? I was just wondering...since I don't know very much about this. I sure hope you feel better and I am sorry you had to miss your appointments. Hugs, Mindy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 21, 2002 Report Share Posted February 21, 2002 mindy you need to find a dr that will help you. it can be very discouraging. but you know it is not in your head. sometimes my rheumi has to tell me that. it took a long time. just tell them all. sometimes it helps to write down the symptoms, what you ate etc. that will help them rule out somethings. good luck, kathy in il Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 21, 2002 Report Share Posted February 21, 2002 Mindy I have been real sick since Christmas, so have only been scanning the posts. I haven't kept up much. But yours caught my eye today. If you are having Arthritis Symptoms, and are RA Neg. Then go to a SEARCH pattern and type in " seronegative spondyloarthropathies " ... you will get a world of info. Susie mindy77_2000 wrote: > Hi everyone, > My test results were negative for RA and a thyroid disorder. > This is good, but the problems are getting worse. The tips of my > fingers are increasing in being very cold...the muscles of my arms > and legs, especially my arms feel like they are on fire. I feel > numbness and tingleing in my arms and hands...alotI still have the > joint pain...I went to the store 2 days ago and the side of my foot > up to my big toe was excruitiating...that night I found a lump...very > painful with red streak on it...no bruising...the red is gone but it > is still tender to touch my legs and arms just feel very weak. I > don't know were to go from here. I keep telling myself it is all in > my head..but then my fingers start swelling and are stiff and painful > and my toes hurt..etc...and I know it isn't.I have a lump I am > swollen on my wrist bone... > The worst still is my son has pnuemonia.: ( He is pretty sick...it is > in his left lung but since he has a breathing machine at home they > didn't put him in the hospital...his temps have been 103 steady since > Monday.Poor guy. > I feel dicouraged and I have no clue what is wrong with me...I guess > I will just keep saying it is all in my head and get on with it. > What does it mean if when I take a hot shower my arms and legs feel > even worse...weak...like I can't even wash my hair? > I hope everyone is having the best day they can.. : ) > Hugs, Mindy > P.S...Can I stay here even though I am Ra negative? I would miss all > of you and the eternal optimism you all have...: ( > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 21, 2002 Report Share Posted February 21, 2002 Mindy, Of course you can stay! We don't care what your test results are. How you are feeling is what matters. And please don't believe that your problem is in your head just because you don't have lab values to explain what is going on with your body. Second-guessing yourself or wondering if you could be imagining things is a natural reaction, but it would be a big mistake to let those feelings linger since laboratory validation is not always possible, especially in the beginning stages of many illnesses, especially rheumatic diseases. Trust your instincts. You know your body. If you believe something is wrong, there most likely is. If your doctor dismisses your symptoms as being " all in your head, " leave that doctor and find another who is more compassionate, more curious, and has better problem-solving skills. I know that when labs come back without yielding clues, it's extremely frustrating. That's one reason why I was trying to caution you before your appointment. The diagnostic tests that are currently available for rheumatic diseases, including RA, are LAME. Doctors know this, and many are frustrated by the lack of good diagnostic tools, too - it makes their job very difficult sometimes. Most rheumatic disease diagnoses are arrived at chiefly through careful clinical observation and interpretation of the patient's history, not lab test results. Blood tests and x-rays and other tests can provide important hints or solidify a diagnosis, but they rarely make the diagnosis. The estimates are that, in the case of rheumatoid arthritis, between 25 - 30% of patients don't ever test positive for rheumatoid factor (RF). There is no one test or combination of tests that can either rule in or rule out RA. Frustrating, but true. Remember, too, that lab values can change over time. You are still in the early stages of your problem, whatever it is. It might be a good idea to go see a rheumatologist and, possibly, a neurologist for another opinion. I've found it helpful to keep a diary of symptoms and developments. There is no need to write every day or even every month. But when something new happens, make a note of it. This may help you or your physician spot an important trend or association. Most importantly, don't lose hope. You're in good company here. We do understand. Not feeling good and not having a diagnosis to explain it is a maddening situation to find yourself in. Hang in there, and, with any luck, you'll get a diagnosis sooner rather than later. In the meanwhile, did your physician have any ideas about how to treat your symptoms and help make you comfortable? Sorry also to hear about your son's pneumonia. Hope he can recover very soon. [ ] Test results back > Hi everyone, > My test results were negative for RA and a thyroid disorder. > This is good, but the problems are getting worse. The tips of my > fingers are increasing in being very cold...the muscles of my arms > and legs, especially my arms feel like they are on fire. I feel > numbness and tingleing in my arms and hands...alotI still have the > joint pain...I went to the store 2 days ago and the side of my foot > up to my big toe was excruitiating...that night I found a lump...very > painful with red streak on it...no bruising...the red is gone but it > is still tender to touch my legs and arms just feel very weak. I > don't know were to go from here. I keep telling myself it is all in > my head..but then my fingers start swelling and are stiff and painful > and my toes hurt..etc...and I know it isn't.I have a lump I am > swollen on my wrist bone... > The worst still is my son has pnuemonia.: ( He is pretty sick...it is > in his left lung but since he has a breathing machine at home they > didn't put him in the hospital...his temps have been 103 steady since > Monday.Poor guy. > I feel dicouraged and I have no clue what is wrong with me...I guess > I will just keep saying it is all in my head and get on with it. > What does it mean if when I take a hot shower my arms and legs feel > even worse...weak...like I can't even wash my hair? > I hope everyone is having the best day they can.. : ) > Hugs, Mindy > P.S...Can I stay here even though I am Ra negative? I would miss all > of you and the eternal optimism you all have...: ( Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 22, 2002 Report Share Posted February 22, 2002 Suzanne, I don't have a lot of faith in Dr's anyhow...I think they tell you what they think...not what is seen in reports or labs or x-rays sometimes...meaning if they think you are fine then to hell with the report. My son was a very sick kid...I had been to every Dr. imaginable fighting for him until one sinus Dr. said it sounds like an immune problem...he was 7 or 6 I think at the time so we went to an immunologist at the childrens hospital, whom thought my child looked great...yea..I pushed the vitimins...hovered...prayed...cried and was at the Dr's 1 or 2 times a week for the previous 4 years...not kidding...to try to get him help...any how he decided to go ahead and run the test to check his immune system...He called me up and told me everything was fine....ok...good...so on to the next Dr....an allergist...another one since he had seen several...all Dr;s seem to stop taking our insurance it is HMO and any ways...(remember how I can drag out a story...lol) this was about 6 months later the allergist ran all the test....he has very sensitive skin...there is a technical name for it but he said " writing on the skin " like one touch he turns red...you could write out a message on him...he couldn't tell since his skin was so sensitive. He thought he had an immune problem...I said NO he already was tested for it...that DR said I want those test in my hands..now...YOU know what...that special Dr. from the childrens hospital flat out lied....flat out...that (excuse me) basterd! The allergist retested to make sure they were right...they were, no we had to find out if it was a " cell " memory problem, which could be fixed by vaccines or if he was going to be basically the boy in the bubble...thank God it was a cell memory problem. I went back to the chilrdrens hospital, with my son, I went hunting that Dr. down...found him in some office(mind you with out an appt.) and ask him why he lied to me. He said I thought the test were wrong...your son looks to healthy and if the test were right he is a very sick little boy...DUH...that is what I had been trying to say. I told him they had been run again and they were right...he just stood there staring at my son...I didn't take any steps to get that DR. in trouble but I sure hope he listens and pays attention to the next person he thinks that way about. That hospital also lied to me when my son was 3 and he had ITP..bleeding..everywhere. He had a brain hemmorage in his brain stem and they told me he didn't...how did I find out...when he was admitted the next year, they said it says here he had a brain stem hemmorage...my husband and I just looked at each other....MY point is I do not trust them. When it comes to my son, I ask to see the results now...I only wish I could do it for myself. Sorry it was so long but that ticks me off to this day and my son is almost 12. Thanks for listening to that story...I think there is a moral in there some where...lol Hugs, Mindy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 22, 2002 Report Share Posted February 22, 2002 Hi Mindy, Remember me, newly diagnosed with RA (since Jan)? All my initial test results were negative. Negative for RF, hand x-rays interpreted as normal even though there was obvious swelling. I suffered a lot of pain NEEDLESSLY for a year and a half because I wasn't more insistent! I too thought it must be in my head (how stupid, in retrospect), that I must be exaggerating without realizing it; it is very hard for me to assess my pain, either on a level of 0-10, or against someone else's pain. I can tell you I was in alot of pain, and somehow managed. The whole experience was stupid and needless. Ask for a referral from you doctor to a rheumatologist. If she won't make one, do it on your own. Try to find out who the good ones are in your area. Rheumatologists look at things very differently from gps and internists. They are specialists! All the advice of writing down how you feel, what bothers you, what your symptoms are, is great advice. If you are like me, I'm struck dumb the minute I walk into a doctor's office. A good rheumatologist will manipulate every joint in your body during an initial exam. My internist never did this the first time. They have different training. What makes no sense to an internist often makes perfect sense to a specialist. Don't give up!! Something is wrong, you need to find out what it is. Interpretation of xrays and bone scans are also very subjective. A good physician will ask to see the original films and make his/her own decisions based on what they see. My first set of w-rays were so poor, you could not see any definition of the bones where they meet at the joints. This lousy x-ray was interepreted as " normal " . My internist read the report and passed along that there was nothing wrong with my hand. HELLO! According to the report of my bone scan, I had some inflammation in my hands and feet. When the rheumatologist and I looked at the scan, there was also inflammation in my knees, ankles, wrists and shoulders! Did they just not notice, get distracted and forget to mention it, or did they decide it just wasn't important? Gotta run, Keep looking for answers Mindy! Suzanne [ ] Test results back > Hi everyone, > My test results were negative for RA and a thyroid disorder. > This is good, but the problems are getting worse. The tips of my > fingers are increasing in being very cold...the muscles of my arms > and legs, especially my arms feel like they are on fire. I feel > numbness and tingleing in my arms and hands...alotI still have the > joint pain...I went to the store 2 days ago and the side of my foot > up to my big toe was excruitiating...that night I found a lump...very > painful with red streak on it...no bruising...the red is gone but it > is still tender to touch my legs and arms just feel very weak. I > don't know were to go from here. I keep telling myself it is all in > my head..but then my fingers start swelling and are stiff and painful > and my toes hurt..etc...and I know it isn't.I have a lump I am > swollen on my wrist bone... > The worst still is my son has pnuemonia.: ( He is pretty sick...it is > in his left lung but since he has a breathing machine at home they > didn't put him in the hospital...his temps have been 103 steady since > Monday.Poor guy. > I feel dicouraged and I have no clue what is wrong with me...I guess > I will just keep saying it is all in my head and get on with it. > What does it mean if when I take a hot shower my arms and legs feel > even worse...weak...like I can't even wash my hair? > I hope everyone is having the best day they can.. : ) > Hugs, Mindy > P.S...Can I stay here even though I am Ra negative? I would miss all > of you and the eternal optimism you all have...: ( > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 23, 2002 Report Share Posted February 23, 2002 i am feeling a little better, i cleaned today. so now i will probably be sore for the rest of the day. tomorrow i will put this all together in my head before my appt monday morning. thanks for asking!!! kathy in il Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 23, 2002 Report Share Posted February 23, 2002 Kathy, Glad to hear you are a little better. You know my son has had pneumonia, he finally got out of bed and I cleaned his entire room this morning..while, get this...singing and dancing..!!!! Hugs, Mindy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 23, 2002 Report Share Posted February 23, 2002 i'm glad you feel better today mindy, but don't overdo it like i did!!! kathy in il Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 23, 2002 Report Share Posted February 23, 2002 Kathy, I am checking in on you and want to know how you are? I hope things are at least a little better.. Let me know, please Hugs, Mindy > of coarse you can stay here. it takes a long time to diagnose. my ra test was > negative too. i was having alot of the same symptoms. at times i could not > even butter a piece of bread. you need to be persistant. if this dr does not > keep trying, find one who will. i hope you have help with both you and your > son sick. i know that one too!! i will keep you in my thoughts. kathy in il Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 23, 2002 Report Share Posted February 23, 2002 Kathy, I see what your saying....I just finished soaking in a bubble bath..my legs are screaming!!!!! I guess I need to pay attention to what " those that have gone before me " are saying, LOL Are you feeling ok...you still sound or seem down..: ( Hugs, Mindy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 23, 2002 Report Share Posted February 23, 2002 i guess i am just tired of doing it all alone. my son is gone about 13 hours a day. kathy in il Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 23, 2002 Report Share Posted February 23, 2002 Kathy, I assume you aren't married? How old is your son? I wish there were something I could say or do..How long have you had this? You know, I don't know what you think of anti-depressants but if I were you..and if I have to deal with this for any amount of time...I will definatley seek them if I can't make it. I was telling my husband that I hope and pray this is a virus, but having had what is probably a small taste in comparison of what may be to come and what people are suffering now it just seems to be an unimaginable frustrating disease, and to think you have to do this for the rest of your life...who wouldn't be down, right...right. It seems that perhaps you have been dealt more than a single blow in your life and this is just the icing on the cake...am I wrong? Here I am sounding like Miss Cleo..lol.... really if you need or want to talk you can e-mail me at BYORKFAMILY @aol.com. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 23, 2002 Report Share Posted February 23, 2002 hey mindy, i am a widow. my son is 18. we have been alone 9 years now. i have been sick about 5 years now. i'm sure my illness was brought on by stress, plus my grandpa was crippled. i am on buspar, prednisone, nexium, tylenol 3's when needed. they just gave me xanaflex but haven't tried it. kathy in il Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 29, 2002 Report Share Posted March 29, 2002 > Hi, my childrens dr. called today and told my husband that their > mercury test came back normal...said " there was an undectable amount " . > So this means to me that they were not affected by mercury, am i > right? any comments? I'm not sure how long after exposure it would > show up in hair. Thanks in advance! > > Dear , THANK YOU FOR ASKING, and NO IT DOES NOT MEAN THAT YOUR KIDS ARE NOT AFFECTED BY MERCURY POISONING. It means we don't know yet one way or the other. Please read the " introduction " section here: /files/Counting%2BRules If that seems unclear, then you can also read here: /files/ANDY_INDEX Look for the section called (something like) " determining mercury toxicity-- hair tests " . Please post again with any questions about this. best wishes, Moria Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 29, 2002 Report Share Posted March 29, 2002 Thanks Moria, still a little confused as all of this is new to me. I read all of the links and am i right in understanding maybe try chelation then repeat testing? I will have to find a dr. in my area that has knowledge of this, mine doesn't know didly. Thanks for your help! --- moriamerri <moriam@...> wrote: > > > Hi, my childrens dr. called today and told my > husband that their > > mercury test came back normal...said " there was an > undectable amount " . > > So this means to me that they were not affected by > mercury, am i > > right? any comments? I'm not sure how long after > exposure it would > > show up in hair. Thanks in advance! > > > > > > Dear , > > THANK YOU FOR ASKING, and NO IT DOES NOT MEAN THAT > YOUR KIDS > ARE NOT AFFECTED BY MERCURY POISONING. It means we > don't know > yet one way or the other. > > Please read the " introduction " section here: > /files/Counting%2BRules > > If that seems unclear, then you can also read here: > /files/ANDY_INDEX > > Look for the section called (something like) > " determining mercury > toxicity-- hair tests " . > > Please post again with any questions about this. > > best wishes, > Moria > > > > __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 31, 2002 Report Share Posted March 31, 2002 >Thanks Moria, still a little confused as all of this >is new to me. I read all of the links and am i right >in understanding maybe try chelation then repeat >testing? I will have to find a dr. in my area that has >knowledge of this, mine doesn't know didly. Thanks for >your help! > > Hi , Well, I know it is VERY confusing for a while--- but hang in with this--- after about 100 repetitions it gets to seem pretty boring Actually if you are only A LITTLE confused that is pretty good. I do not mean to sound " harsh " but I would really suggest that you should expect to be confused and boggled -- and, if possible, decide to be willing to have that happen. The learning curve on mercury/metals can be unpleasant. My main points (gee, do I remember?) were: * low hair mercury level proves nothing * hair levels of elements can be used (counting rules) You might find that reading ANDY_INDEX would help a lot. You can just go in there and " wander around " and read the topics that are interesting to you on a particular day. /files/ANDY_INDEX Since you posted about mercury level in a hair test, I would suggest that you start by reading some of the matrerial in ANDY_INDEX that is in the sections on " determining mercury toxicity " . I believe most doctors " know didly " on this subject. Some also know just enough to be dangerous. Some know enough to be helpful. Keep reading and keep posting questions. Both. best wishes, Moria Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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