Good luck tomorrow, Me Mom !

[Guest guest]

Lynn,

I'll have my candle lit and will be praying very hard that all goes well

tomorrow. I hope that after the hearing you will feel reassured that

things will eventually be decided in your favor.

Good luck!

Love,

[Guest guest]

Lynn, I know that you are in a lot of pain daily and that you are very

worried about further surgery. I'm so sorry about that. Tell to

about your pain in detail. He should know about the impact on your life

the pain has made. Tell him about the worry - the psychological side of

all of this is not insignificant. Tell him, too, that you had to drop

out of school. As him to imagine not being able to eat.

If there is to be more surgery, ask him what you can do before then to

stop the pain.

I hope he's got some good ideas. I'll be thinking of you, especially

tomorrow.

PS. Don't worry about and me. I bid her farewell on Sunday, and

we are both OK. Thanks so much for your thoughts on children leaving the

nest. I know you know all about that. It's probably hardest on me at the

moment, but I know you're right and that it's a necessary and good

change for both of us. Small potatoes compared to what you are dealing

with, but thank you!

Re: [ ] Good luck tomorrow, Me Mom !

> ,

> You are the kindest person I know. I spoke with my primary last

night.

> He says either it is scar tissue or the bowels have twisted. His gut

feeling

> is it is scar tissue. I ask about cancer or tumors. He told me there

are no

> tumors or mass and this is not cancer. But something has to be done.

He

> told me, he is just sorry it has to be another big surgery. I ask him

how

> much can a body take, he was telling me about a child that had 29

surgeries.

> I know he was trying to make me feel better but it didn't. I hope the

pain

> just stops, it is all the time now.

> How are you since your daughter leaving for college. I know it is

a sad

> time for you. But when you see her maturing and growing you will know

it is

> a good experience for both of you. Now you will look forward to her

coming

> home for the holidays. Just expect a little different person coming

home.

> They change a little, they grow.

> Thank you, you always make me feel better. Plus your advise is

always

> the best. I will let you know how it goes.

> Lynn (MeMom)

>

> wrote:

>

> > I hope your meeting with Dr. to is a good one, Lynn. I've been

> > thinking about you and hoping that you and he can figure out how you

can

> > get to feeling better.

> >

> > Please tell all. Describe what your daily life has been like and ask

him

> > for help. Do not minimize anything you've been so bravely putting up

> > with. Remember that he can't read your mind. Don't hold back!

> >

> > Good luck and please let us know how it goes.

> >

> >

> >

> > PS. I'm really sorry about school. I think you didn't have any other

> > choice but to drop out for this semester.

> >

> >

> >

[Guest guest]

Hi Lynn,

I'm so sorry you've had to take the term off school. I'm in college too,

and I took the spring term off when I was first diagnosed. It wasn't hard

to pick up where I left off, and I think under the circumstances you made

the right decision. I hope things go well tomorrow at the Dr.

Love and hugs,

Carol

Re: [ ] Good luck tomorrow, Me Mom !

Lynn, I know that you are in a lot of pain daily and that you are very

worried about further surgery. I'm so sorry about that. Tell to

about your pain in detail. He should know about the impact on your life

the pain has made. Tell him about the worry - the psychological side of

all of this is not insignificant. Tell him, too, that you had to drop

out of school. As him to imagine not being able to eat.

If there is to be more surgery, ask him what you can do before then to

stop the pain.

I hope he's got some good ideas. I'll be thinking of you, especially

tomorrow.

PS. Don't worry about and me. I bid her farewell on Sunday, and

we are both OK. Thanks so much for your thoughts on children leaving the

nest. I know you know all about that. It's probably hardest on me at the

moment, but I know you're right and that it's a necessary and good

change for both of us. Small potatoes compared to what you are dealing

with, but thank you!

Re: [ ] Good luck tomorrow, Me Mom !

> ,

> You are the kindest person I know. I spoke with my primary last

night.

> He says either it is scar tissue or the bowels have twisted. His gut

feeling

> is it is scar tissue. I ask about cancer or tumors. He told me there

are no

> tumors or mass and this is not cancer. But something has to be done.

He

> told me, he is just sorry it has to be another big surgery. I ask him

how

> much can a body take, he was telling me about a child that had 29

surgeries.

> I know he was trying to make me feel better but it didn't. I hope the

pain

> just stops, it is all the time now.

> How are you since your daughter leaving for college. I know it is

a sad

> time for you. But when you see her maturing and growing you will know

it is

> a good experience for both of you. Now you will look forward to her

coming

> home for the holidays. Just expect a little different person coming

home.

> They change a little, they grow.

> Thank you, you always make me feel better. Plus your advise is

always

> the best. I will let you know how it goes.

> Lynn (MeMom)

>

> wrote:

>

> > I hope your meeting with Dr. to is a good one, Lynn. I've been

> > thinking about you and hoping that you and he can figure out how you

can

> > get to feeling better.

> >

> > Please tell all. Describe what your daily life has been like and ask

him

> > for help. Do not minimize anything you've been so bravely putting up

> > with. Remember that he can't read your mind. Don't hold back!

> >

> > Good luck and please let us know how it goes.

> >

> >

> >

> > PS. I'm really sorry about school. I think you didn't have any other

> > choice but to drop out for this semester.

> >

> >

> >

[Guest guest]

Hi ,

Well it is surgery again, I can't believe it. This surgery is called a

Gastro Jejunostomy. It is almost as complicated as the Whipple. I could

learn much about it, so it is the inner net for information. I go into the

hospital on September 26 and surgery is the next day. I am so upset, I don't

know what to do.

Lynn (MeMom)

wrote:

> Lynn, I know that you are in a lot of pain daily and that you are very

> worried about further surgery. I'm so sorry about that. Tell to

> about your pain in detail. He should know about the impact on your life

> the pain has made. Tell him about the worry - the psychological side of

> all of this is not insignificant. Tell him, too, that you had to drop

> out of school. As him to imagine not being able to eat.

>

> If there is to be more surgery, ask him what you can do before then to

> stop the pain.

>

> I hope he's got some good ideas. I'll be thinking of you, especially

> tomorrow.

>

>

>

> PS. Don't worry about and me. I bid her farewell on Sunday, and

> we are both OK. Thanks so much for your thoughts on children leaving the

> nest. I know you know all about that. It's probably hardest on me at the

> moment, but I know you're right and that it's a necessary and good

> change for both of us. Small potatoes compared to what you are dealing

> with, but thank you!

>

> Re: [ ] Good luck tomorrow, Me Mom !

>

> > ,

> > You are the kindest person I know. I spoke with my primary last

> night.

> > He says either it is scar tissue or the bowels have twisted. His gut

> feeling

> > is it is scar tissue. I ask about cancer or tumors. He told me there

> are no

> > tumors or mass and this is not cancer. But something has to be done.

> He

> > told me, he is just sorry it has to be another big surgery. I ask him

> how

> > much can a body take, he was telling me about a child that had 29

> surgeries.

> > I know he was trying to make me feel better but it didn't. I hope the

> pain

> > just stops, it is all the time now.

> > How are you since your daughter leaving for college. I know it is

> a sad

> > time for you. But when you see her maturing and growing you will know

> it is

> > a good experience for both of you. Now you will look forward to her

> coming

> > home for the holidays. Just expect a little different person coming

> home.

> > They change a little, they grow.

> > Thank you, you always make me feel better. Plus your advise is

> always

> > the best. I will let you know how it goes.

> > Lynn (MeMom)

> >

> > wrote:

> >

> > > I hope your meeting with Dr. to is a good one, Lynn. I've been

> > > thinking about you and hoping that you and he can figure out how you

> can

> > > get to feeling better.

> > >

> > > Please tell all. Describe what your daily life has been like and ask

> him

> > > for help. Do not minimize anything you've been so bravely putting up

> > > with. Remember that he can't read your mind. Don't hold back!

> > >

> > > Good luck and please let us know how it goes.

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > > PS. I'm really sorry about school. I think you didn't have any other

> > > choice but to drop out for this semester.

> > >

> > >

> > >

[Guest guest]

Hi Carol,

Thank you for your note. I wish things could have gone better but I will have

to have more surgery. It is frustrating and scary.

Lynn (MeMom)

Carol wrote:

> Hi Lynn,

>

> I'm so sorry you've had to take the term off school. I'm in college too,

> and I took the spring term off when I was first diagnosed. It wasn't hard

> to pick up where I left off, and I think under the circumstances you made

> the right decision. I hope things go well tomorrow at the Dr.

>

> Love and hugs,

> Carol

> Re: [ ] Good luck tomorrow, Me Mom !

>

> Lynn, I know that you are in a lot of pain daily and that you are very

> worried about further surgery. I'm so sorry about that. Tell to

> about your pain in detail. He should know about the impact on your life

> the pain has made. Tell him about the worry - the psychological side of

> all of this is not insignificant. Tell him, too, that you had to drop

> out of school. As him to imagine not being able to eat.

>

> If there is to be more surgery, ask him what you can do before then to

> stop the pain.

>

> I hope he's got some good ideas. I'll be thinking of you, especially

> tomorrow.

>

>

>

> PS. Don't worry about and me. I bid her farewell on Sunday, and

> we are both OK. Thanks so much for your thoughts on children leaving the

> nest. I know you know all about that. It's probably hardest on me at the

> moment, but I know you're right and that it's a necessary and good

> change for both of us. Small potatoes compared to what you are dealing

> with, but thank you!

>

> Re: [ ] Good luck tomorrow, Me Mom !

>

> > ,

> > You are the kindest person I know. I spoke with my primary last

> night.

> > He says either it is scar tissue or the bowels have twisted. His gut

> feeling

> > is it is scar tissue. I ask about cancer or tumors. He told me there

> are no

> > tumors or mass and this is not cancer. But something has to be done.

> He

> > told me, he is just sorry it has to be another big surgery. I ask him

> how

> > much can a body take, he was telling me about a child that had 29

> surgeries.

> > I know he was trying to make me feel better but it didn't. I hope the

> pain

> > just stops, it is all the time now.

> > How are you since your daughter leaving for college. I know it is

> a sad

> > time for you. But when you see her maturing and growing you will know

> it is

> > a good experience for both of you. Now you will look forward to her

> coming

> > home for the holidays. Just expect a little different person coming

> home.

> > They change a little, they grow.

> > Thank you, you always make me feel better. Plus your advise is

> always

> > the best. I will let you know how it goes.

> > Lynn (MeMom)

> >

> > wrote:

> >

> > > I hope your meeting with Dr. to is a good one, Lynn. I've been

> > > thinking about you and hoping that you and he can figure out how you

> can

> > > get to feeling better.

> > >

> > > Please tell all. Describe what your daily life has been like and ask

> him

> > > for help. Do not minimize anything you've been so bravely putting up

> > > with. Remember that he can't read your mind. Don't hold back!

> > >

> > > Good luck and please let us know how it goes.

> > >

> > >

> > >

> > > PS. I'm really sorry about school. I think you didn't have any other

> > > choice but to drop out for this semester.

> > >

> > >

> > >

[Guest guest]

(((((((Lynn)))))...please know you're in my heart & in my prayers.

You've been through so much. I pray this will bring some much needed

relief to you. Hang in there, kiddo. I know it's a lot to take in, and

you're scared. We'll be with you all the way...you can count on it.

All My Love & Prayers.....

Tess