Guest guest Posted November 6, 2001 Report Share Posted November 6, 2001 In a message dated 11/6/2001 9:31:44 PM Central Standard Time, galofgop@... writes: > Not interfering I've been debating it for a while. He says its over now and > > that I should move out ASAP, so I guess I knew it wasn't just me that felt > this way. > a I haven't expressed how sorry I am to hear that you and are going through such a tough time. I know that is putting it mildly. I don't know where all of my time is going but I'm not finding very much to spare lately but I needed to just say that I sincerely wish you the best of luck in pursuing your dreams. Sometimes happiness simply isn't possible if there's always that one thing that's missing. Settling definitely is not a good thing if you are certain that's what you're doing. I will keep you in my thoughts and hope that things work out for the best, no matter what you decide. Hang in there, girl. Jenni Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 7, 2001 Report Share Posted November 7, 2001 In a message dated 11/6/01 10:31:39 PM Eastern Standard Time, galofgop@... writes: > Not interfering I've been debating it for a while. He says its over now and > > that I should move out ASAP, so I guess I knew it wasn't just me that felt > this way. > a Ugh, I am sorry to hear that! I am sure he is just hurt and angry right now. Hopefully he will calm down and you two can work together to find a place for you to live. Let me know if you need anything! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 7, 2001 Report Share Posted November 7, 2001 In a message dated 11/6/01 10:31:39 PM Eastern Standard Time, galofgop@... writes: > Not interfering I've been debating it for a while. He says its over now and > > that I should move out ASAP, so I guess I knew it wasn't just me that felt > this way. > a Ugh, I am sorry to hear that! I am sure he is just hurt and angry right now. Hopefully he will calm down and you two can work together to find a place for you to live. Let me know if you need anything! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 7, 2001 Report Share Posted November 7, 2001 In a message dated 11/6/01 10:31:39 PM Eastern Standard Time, galofgop@... writes: > Not interfering I've been debating it for a while. He says its over now and > > that I should move out ASAP, so I guess I knew it wasn't just me that felt > this way. > a Ugh, I am sorry to hear that! I am sure he is just hurt and angry right now. Hopefully he will calm down and you two can work together to find a place for you to live. Let me know if you need anything! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 7, 2001 Report Share Posted November 7, 2001 ----Original Message----- From: Agaw12577@... Sent: Wednesday, November 07, 2001 11:44 AM To: tae-bo_on Subject: Re: Re: Hello all Ugh, I am sorry to hear that! I am sure he is just hurt and angry right now. Hopefully he will calm down and you two can work together to find a place for you to live. Let me know if you need anything! a, He probably is just hurt and angry right now and acting out. I have letter after letter from my ex begging me stay, offering me a place to live, I could come back whenever, etc. but when he finally realized I was leaving, he got angry, very angry. And usually it gets a little worse before it gets better. My best friend went through the same thing with her husband when she got divorced. In fact she begged me not to tell my ex I was leaving until I had my place, but I thought " honesty is always the best policy " . Well to be honest, I'm not so sure I would do it all the same way if I had it to do over again. But when you get overwhelmed just take a big deep breath and remember why you are doing it and that you are a good person no matter what transpires! Try not to let it get you too down, but it can be very very very stressful. Colleen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 7, 2001 Report Share Posted November 7, 2001 ----Original Message----- From: Agaw12577@... Sent: Wednesday, November 07, 2001 11:44 AM To: tae-bo_on Subject: Re: Re: Hello all Ugh, I am sorry to hear that! I am sure he is just hurt and angry right now. Hopefully he will calm down and you two can work together to find a place for you to live. Let me know if you need anything! a, He probably is just hurt and angry right now and acting out. I have letter after letter from my ex begging me stay, offering me a place to live, I could come back whenever, etc. but when he finally realized I was leaving, he got angry, very angry. And usually it gets a little worse before it gets better. My best friend went through the same thing with her husband when she got divorced. In fact she begged me not to tell my ex I was leaving until I had my place, but I thought " honesty is always the best policy " . Well to be honest, I'm not so sure I would do it all the same way if I had it to do over again. But when you get overwhelmed just take a big deep breath and remember why you are doing it and that you are a good person no matter what transpires! Try not to let it get you too down, but it can be very very very stressful. Colleen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 7, 2001 Report Share Posted November 7, 2001 ----Original Message----- From: Agaw12577@... Sent: Wednesday, November 07, 2001 11:44 AM To: tae-bo_on Subject: Re: Re: Hello all Ugh, I am sorry to hear that! I am sure he is just hurt and angry right now. Hopefully he will calm down and you two can work together to find a place for you to live. Let me know if you need anything! a, He probably is just hurt and angry right now and acting out. I have letter after letter from my ex begging me stay, offering me a place to live, I could come back whenever, etc. but when he finally realized I was leaving, he got angry, very angry. And usually it gets a little worse before it gets better. My best friend went through the same thing with her husband when she got divorced. In fact she begged me not to tell my ex I was leaving until I had my place, but I thought " honesty is always the best policy " . Well to be honest, I'm not so sure I would do it all the same way if I had it to do over again. But when you get overwhelmed just take a big deep breath and remember why you are doing it and that you are a good person no matter what transpires! Try not to let it get you too down, but it can be very very very stressful. Colleen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 30, 2002 Report Share Posted January 30, 2002 HI everyone, It has been a while since I posted an update. Things have been extremely hecitc here and I do not know where to begin. Mark had been terribly ill with constant vomitting and diarrhea for 6 days last week. We took him to the hospital and GI said that he had an injury to the esophagus (which, was already injured from his severe GERD) from all the vomitting. They placed him on steroids, Carafate and G-tube pediatlyte for several days...happy to say, that it did the trick. Mark's weight is really down now and that is NOT a good thing. Over the past month they have been running numerous tests due to his severe FTT. A recent bone age revealed that Mark is 4 years delayed in growth. The GI told us that without G-tube feedings Mark would not grow or gain at all. So, that has continued to be a big part of our life. Mark basically gets feeds anywhere from 12-18 hours a day, and still his weight gain stinks. They have ruled out an endocrine problem and proven that his FTT is from the inflammatory process of the leukocytoclastic vasculitis. On an immunology note, Mark's IgA is very low for the first time since 1995. I spoke with Dr. Rundles over the summer at the conference and she mentioned that this might happen and it has. His IgM has also dropped quite a bit. This is the first time that this has been seen in a Cd5-Cd19 PID patient. Our local immunologist is not suprised at all, he said that he anticipated that it would happen with Mark's particular PID. Fortunately, we can still do the IVIG without a reaction problem as long as we continue to pretreat. On another note, we found out last week that perhaps a reason for 's relentless sinus infections (which are still in full force and not responding to antibiotics and is causing terrible asthma flares) is that there is now proof that people with Alpha 1 antitrypsin deficiency (hereitary emphysema, which myself, Mark and all have) can cause horrible asthma, allergies and constant SINUS infections. This coupled with the Samter, is what is probably making 's sinuses so bad. 's physician is going to contact the medical director of the Alpha 1 foundation, who happens to be from National Jewish and is going to talk about treatment options for . This could also explain why 's lung function is so poor. SO, it has been quite a week to say the least. Then on top of it all, my cousin who has CF, had a life-threatening infection again in her port and almost lost her life. My aunt (her mom) and I are going to a stress reduction group today.....we could sure use it. We will get through this, we always do. BTW, winter has finally arrived in MI, we are supposed to get 4-10 inches of snow with freezing rain and ice...YIPES!!!! Welcome to all the newcomers!!!! Be well everyone, Autumn (Mom to Mark Cd5-Cd19 PID and ) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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