What do you answer, when people tell you: You are loosing weight!

[Guest guest]

Hi,

I find myself trying to rethink how to answer to this question or

comment, many times. I haven't disclose my status to anyone in two

years now and sometimes it hurts because some people don't connect

their brains to their tongue and make comments or ask questions like

this.

I feel very sympathetic about fat people more than ever before. In the

past I've answered Oh... I was getting too fat! and there is a silence,

so maybe they think " well you must be anorexic then " , but socially

that's more accepted than if you say you are HIV+, so that kind of has

work out for me. Does anybody have any suggestions?

Thank You!

Jimmy