Guest guest Posted July 9, 2003 Report Share Posted July 9, 2003 Beej, That's a great attitude to take -- 3AM gym, watch out! You'll get through this. And if you are blaming yourself, start mentally forgiving yourself and you will be on your way to mental health. We're all here for you. -JB > I want to thank everybody for care, concern and advice. I know that > it is still early in all of this and will take time, but I hate the > hurt that I am feeling, feels like it won't ever go away. Just when > I have myself talked into being OK on my own, I talk to Shane and he > gives me the impression that he doesn't want it to be over, but this > lady is still in his life. ARGH!!!!!!!!! I have decided that I am > going to become a " hottie " and make him regret leaving me. Babysteps > are a good starting point, and the constant encouragement from you > ladies will get me back in the swing of things in no time. The > apartment I moved to has a fitness facility that is usable anytime, > maybe I should do a killer work-out at 3 am when I am wide awake > Thanks again for the kind words.......YOU LADIES ROCK!!! > Beej Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 9, 2003 Report Share Posted July 9, 2003 I do blame myself for it.........you know......all the " what if's " and " should have's " , and he keeps telling me not too, because it was him, but I still feel like I may have pushed him to it. That is going to be hard to get over. Beej > > I want to thank everybody for care, concern and advice. I know > that > > it is still early in all of this and will take time, but I hate the > > hurt that I am feeling, feels like it won't ever go away. Just > when > > I have myself talked into being OK on my own, I talk to Shane and > he > > gives me the impression that he doesn't want it to be over, but > this > > lady is still in his life. ARGH!!!!!!!!! I have decided that I am > > going to become a " hottie " and make him regret leaving me. > Babysteps > > are a good starting point, and the constant encouragement from you > > ladies will get me back in the swing of things in no time. The > > apartment I moved to has a fitness facility that is usable anytime, > > maybe I should do a killer work-out at 3 am when I am wide awake > > Thanks again for the kind words.......YOU LADIES ROCK!!! > > Beej Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 10, 2003 Report Share Posted July 10, 2003 Unless you held a gun to his head, you did not push him to it. He is a grown man that makes his own choices (albeit poor choices!) You did not deserve this. You are not to blame. You are a worthy, wonderful person. Take babysteps. Rant. Rave. Do whatever you need to do to get through this. If the structure of BFL helps--do it. Use your anger at the gym. We are all here for you. > > > I want to thank everybody for care, concern and advice. I know > > that > > > it is still early in all of this and will take time, but I hate > the > > > hurt that I am feeling, feels like it won't ever go away. Just > > when > > > I have myself talked into being OK on my own, I talk to Shane and > > he > > > gives me the impression that he doesn't want it to be over, but > > this > > > lady is still in his life. ARGH!!!!!!!!! I have decided that I > am > > > going to become a " hottie " and make him regret leaving me. > > Babysteps > > > are a good starting point, and the constant encouragement from > you > > > ladies will get me back in the swing of things in no time. The > > > apartment I moved to has a fitness facility that is usable > anytime, > > > maybe I should do a killer work-out at 3 am when I am wide > awake > > > Thanks again for the kind words.......YOU LADIES ROCK!!! > > > Beej Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 10, 2003 Report Share Posted July 10, 2003 You are definitely welcome! Happiness awaits you. Bridgette > I want to thank everybody for care, concern and advice. I know that > it is still early in all of this and will take time, but I hate the > hurt that I am feeling, feels like it won't ever go away. Just when > I have myself talked into being OK on my own, I talk to Shane and he > gives me the impression that he doesn't want it to be over, but this > lady is still in his life. ARGH!!!!!!!!! I have decided that I am > going to become a " hottie " and make him regret leaving me. Babysteps > are a good starting point, and the constant encouragement from you > ladies will get me back in the swing of things in no time. The > apartment I moved to has a fitness facility that is usable anytime, > maybe I should do a killer work-out at 3 am when I am wide awake > Thanks again for the kind words.......YOU LADIES ROCK!!! > Beej Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 10, 2003 Report Share Posted July 10, 2003 Beej, we're all so sorry you're going through this. I hope you can take some time and focus on yourself for awhile...keep that healthy anger as a map to show you where you don't want to be...don't let his wishy-washy-ness confuse you, if he ever wants your beauty back in his life he'll have to work damn hard to earn it...you deserve better! Treat yourself as well as you can, and vent here whenever you need to. -- in ID On Wednesday, July 9, 2003, at 06:17 PM, Bridgette wrote: > You are definitely welcome! Happiness awaits you. > Bridgette >> I want to thank everybody for care, concern and advice. I know > that >> it is still early in all of this and will take time, but I hate the >> hurt that I am feeling, feels like it won't ever go away. Just > when >> I have myself talked into being OK on my own, I talk to Shane and > he >> gives me the impression that he doesn't want it to be over, but > this >> lady is still in his life. ARGH!!!!!!!!! I have decided that I am >> going to become a " hottie " and make him regret leaving me. > Babysteps >> are a good starting point, and the constant encouragement from you >> ladies will get me back in the swing of things in no time. The >> apartment I moved to has a fitness facility that is usable anytime, >> maybe I should do a killer work-out at 3 am when I am wide awake >> Thanks again for the kind words.......YOU LADIES ROCK!!! >> Beej > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 10, 2003 Report Share Posted July 10, 2003 for what its worth, i have been trying to push mine to it for years. just doens't work like that. ;-) > > > I want to thank everybody for care, concern and advice. I know > > that > > > it is still early in all of this and will take time, but I hate > the > > > hurt that I am feeling, feels like it won't ever go away. Just > > when > > > I have myself talked into being OK on my own, I talk to Shane and > > he > > > gives me the impression that he doesn't want it to be over, but > > this > > > lady is still in his life. ARGH!!!!!!!!! I have decided that I > am > > > going to become a " hottie " and make him regret leaving me. > > Babysteps > > > are a good starting point, and the constant encouragement from > you > > > ladies will get me back in the swing of things in no time. The > > > apartment I moved to has a fitness facility that is usable > anytime, > > > maybe I should do a killer work-out at 3 am when I am wide > awake > > > Thanks again for the kind words.......YOU LADIES ROCK!!! > > > Beej Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 2, 2009 Report Share Posted September 2, 2009 Hello, I just wanted to thank everyone who responded to my Sprycel weight gain post..I have recieved alot of great advise and words of wisdom.. Thank you all so much for taking the time to share your experiences with me.. SharonS Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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