sad news

[Guest guest]

Every blade in the field, every leaf in the forest, lays down its life

in its season as beautifully as it was taken up. (Thoreau)

> Hello Group,

>

> I regret to inform you that OR eon passed away today,

07/16/2004, at age 66.

>

> I will miss him terribly.

>

> Sincerely,

>

> His B/F

[Guest guest]

I am terribly sorry for your loss and for our loss. He was a kind,

compassionate man who added a great deal to our group. He helped me

out a lot. I will miss him, and I will pray for comfort for you in

your time of grief.

Mark

[Guest guest]

,

Hang in there. What has been happening in your life is unspeakably

terrible to go through, but you can survive it. Do not be afraid to

seek help from a professional if you need to. That is a sign of

strength. In fact, I would encourage you to even if you don't feel

you need it.

And you can always come here for understanding and support.

Mark

> Please keep me in your thoughts and prayers. I am about ready to go

off a

> cliff.

>

> -

>

[Guest guest]

On Sat, 17 Jul 2004 11:40:33 -0400, you wrote:

>Please keep me in your thoughts and prayers.

Done and ill do.

> I am about ready to go off a

>cliff.

You were blessed to know him. Hang in there. DOn't do anything

foolish. (that would annoy him).

- - - -

Just another albino black sheep

[Guest guest]

Dear Retrogrouch,

Thank you.

I won't do anything foolish. A friend reminded me how OReon saved my

life...how I wanted it all to end 30 months ago. Then he gave me his heart

and my heart went right back in return.

I have had so much loss this year, I am having a hard time. I may ask my

doctor to re-evaluate my anti-depressant on Monday; my meds. Aren't quite

cutting it right now.

-

Re: Sad News

On Sat, 17 Jul 2004 11:40:33 -0400, you wrote:

>Please keep me in your thoughts and prayers.

Done and ill do.

> I am about ready to go off a

>cliff.

You were blessed to know him. Hang in there. DOn't do anything

foolish. (that would annoy him).

- - - -

Just another albino black sheep

[Guest guest]

On Sat, 17 Jul 2004 22:48:30 -0400, you wrote:

>

>Thank you.

>

>I won't do anything foolish. A friend reminded me how OReon saved my

>life...how I wanted it all to end 30 months ago. Then he gave me his heart

>and my heart went right back in return.

>

>I have had so much loss this year, I am having a hard time. I may ask my

>doctor to re-evaluate my anti-depressant on Monday; my meds. Aren't quite

>cutting it right now.

I don't think there's enough meds in the world to make this painless.

(Don't try to find out.) But do take the advice someone offered

earlier and find a therapist or support group to help get you through

this.

Concentrate on how much good OReon brought into your life and try to

get through this to do the same for someone else.

Hang in there.

Lots of people are praying for you. There's now over 1000 people in

this group and I think OReon helped almost everyone of them. You were

lucky to know him better than we did.

- - - -

Just another albino black sheep

[Guest guest]

I have had only occasional contact with this group, but when I did

sign in OReon always gave good advice.

> Hello Group,

>

> I regret to inform you that OR eon passed away today, 07/16/2004,

at age 66.

>

> I will miss him terribly.

>

> Sincerely,

>

> His B/F

>

[Guest guest]

Thank you, wheresmylh!

I think OR eon would be gratified to see the words online about him. I wish

this were all a dream and that he were back with me.

I am trying to tidy up his business and shortly I think that his email will

be deactivated. For the time that I have access to his email account, I am

grateful to all of you...especially the candle-burners and the poem writers.

I can't tell you how many candles he burned for many of you. The only time

there were not candles going were when he was/we were out or during the

overnight hours.

If I can ever get with legacy.com to create an online memorial for him, I

will let you know.

Keep me in your prayers, please.

Re: Sad News

I have had only occasional contact with this group, but when I did

sign in OReon always gave good advice.

> Hello Group,

>

> I regret to inform you that OR eon passed away today, 07/16/2004,

at age 66.

>

> I will miss him terribly.

>

> Sincerely,

>

> His B/F

>

[Guest guest]

I second those words. He was incredibly knowledgeable and generous with his

time and input. He most definitely will be missed and also remembered.

snowking

Re: Sad News

You have my sincerest condolences for your loss. OR eon will be sadly

missed.

He provided a great deal of advice and encouragement to newcomers and was

generous with his experiences. Undoubtedly, he has helped many men live

fuller

lives.

In a message dated 7/16/2004 9:57:03 PM Eastern Daylight Time,

oreon@... writes:

Hello Group,

I regret to inform you that OR eon passed away today, 07/16/2004, at age 66.

I will miss him terribly.

Sincerely,

His B/F

[Guest guest]

OR Eon was a great man, very helpful and kind. He will be missed.

Dave K.

> > Hello Group,

> >

> > I regret to inform you that OR eon passed away today,

07/16/2004,

> at age 66.

> >

> > I will miss him terribly.

> >

> > Sincerely,

> >

> > His B/F

> >

>

>

>

>

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

Thank you, Dave K! I agree; he will be missed.

Re: Sad News

OR Eon was a great man, very helpful and kind. He will be missed.

Dave K.

> > Hello Group,

> >

> > I regret to inform you that OR eon passed away today,

07/16/2004,

> at age 66.

> >

> > I will miss him terribly.

> >

> > Sincerely,

> >

> > His B/F

> >

>

>

>

>

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

Thank you, K4. OR eon used to mention you from time to time. I know he

thought a lot of you. I am grateful that, through the online groups he was

involved in, and through the lives he touched, he has gained, in a

sense, " immortality. "

To all who read this, be kind to all those around you, even your pets. Life

is fragile and you never know when the words you speak to someone will be

the last. Love is patient and kind.

-

Re: Sad News

,

Your loss is our loss. The group will sorely miss a member who was so

willing to share his experiences and give advice. I've known Oreon

through the groups for years. He was always active and helpful. Part

of him will always remain with the many of us he helped over the

years. Sad news indeed...

K4

[Guest guest]

,

I'm sorry to hear of his passing. He was the one that got me pointed

to this group about six months ago and it only because of the

information that I have found here that I am doing so much better.

He was a fountain of information, detailed and willing to share that

knowledge, respectful in his opinions and dogged in his efforts to

help others. Hang in there...

Bobby C.

> Hello Group,

>

> I regret to inform you that OR eon passed away today, 07/16/2004,

at age 66.

>

> I will miss him terribly.

>

> Sincerely,

>

> His B/F

[Guest guest]

Thanks, Bobby.

I am trying to organize a proper memorial for him. Because we are not blood

relatives and we have no piece of paper formalizing anything, the pinheads

at city hall won't even let me have his body back yet.

Keep praying...I want him to have a proper service and not be stuck in some

unmarked grave by the mighty state of TX!

Peace,

Re: Sad News

,

I'm sorry to hear of his passing. He was the one that got me pointed

to this group about six months ago and it only because of the

information that I have found here that I am doing so much better.

He was a fountain of information, detailed and willing to share that

knowledge, respectful in his opinions and dogged in his efforts to

help others. Hang in there...

Bobby C.

> Hello Group,

>

> I regret to inform you that OR eon passed away today, 07/16/2004,

at age 66.

>

> I will miss him terribly.

>

> Sincerely,

>

> His B/F

[Guest guest]

I sobbed like a baby at this news. You could tell he was a good sole and

he touched many's lives, even if only virtually.

Or eon was very active in the Usenet group alt.support.impotence. I almost

took the liberty of copying your post to that group, where his absence will

also be greatly felt, but decided it might not be my place to do so...

Re: Re: Testing?

I would not change a thing you are doing. You have a good thing going on in

your treatment.

Phil

ernestnolan <emiles@...> wrote:

Hi,

Always get a test for excess red blood cells Every 4 months.

I get asked about my annual PSA and lipid profile results which get cared

for by other doctors.

Have never had a check for E as far as I know becuase I'm receiving hormone

pellet therapy, he says.

ernestnolan

> Hi all this has been a subject a lot for someone just getting starting

> on TRT. My question is after you have been on TRT for a long time

> like a few years. What kind of tests does your Dr. order when you are

> just maintaining My Dr. has me come in once a month for a blood test

> he has Total and Free T. and now E2 checked. Every

> 6 months he does a big blood checking everything PSA, sugar and so on.

> What does your Dr. do I think it would be a good subject to talk

> about. By the way I am feeling better it is slow but little by little

> I think my E2 is coming back up.

> Phil

[Guest guest]

Thanks Mark!

-

Re: Sad News

I am terribly sorry for your loss and for our loss. He was a kind,

compassionate man who added a great deal to our group. He helped me

out a lot. I will miss him, and I will pray for comfort for you in

your time of grief.

Mark

[Guest guest]

Just to let everyone know the baby we were thinking about adopting or my

sister was born stillborn. The mother went for an ultrasound and they

found no heartbeat and induced her. I am kind of bummed. But we know

that she is in a better place. Just though I would let everyone know.

Cyntha Landon

[Guest guest]

Ohh Cyn, so sorry to hear Hugs hon

> Just to let everyone know the baby we were thinking about adopting or my

> sister was born stillborn. The mother went for an ultrasound and they

> found no heartbeat and induced her. I am kind of bummed. But we know

> that she is in a better place. Just though I would let everyone know.

>

> Cyntha Landon

>

[Guest guest]

Ethel,

It is with great regret to have that news. I pray for and her family in

their hour of need.

jan

Ethel Snooks <emsnooks@...> wrote:

Dear Group,

It is with much sadness that I write to tell you that Adlard's daughter,

Janene, lost her battle with scleroderma. She fought long and courageously.

Janene was the sister of White, owner of this mailing list and financial

backer of the website. Janene also leaves a husband - Darren, and a stepfather

-.

Janene's passing is a great loss to this very closely knit family. It was an

inspiration for me to " watch " from afar the depth of loving support and care

they gave Janene over the years.

For some of you who may not know, it was Adlard who designed the website

back in 1996 that first brought free information on the antibiotic protocol to

the world. She has worked tirelessly all these years not only in maintaining the

site but in answering the unending email and phone inquiries generated by that

site, all while holding a full time job and being there for Janene. She has

consistently made herself available - offering information, support and

encouragement to people world-wide both on and off this list. Just recently, I

had an email from someone in Australia telling me how much help and

encouragement has been to her over the years in her battle with this same

disease.

If you would like to offer your condolences, the email addresses are

- cadlard@...

Steve - spwhite@...

May God bring them comfort and peace in this their time of sorrow.

Ethel

[Guest guest]

Though delayed as I have been away and out of the loop for some time,

my condolences to and all those who mourn Janene are no less

sincere. I extend my heartfelt sympathy to all.

To also go my deepest thanks for the efforts put forth for

the benefit of so many.

Merna

>

> Dear Group,

>

> It is with much sadness that I write to tell you that Chris

Adlard's daughter, Janene, lost her battle with scleroderma. She

fought long and courageously. Janene was the sister of

White, owner of this mailing list and financial backer of the

website. Janene also leaves a husband - Darren, and a stepfather -

.

>

> Janene's passing is a great loss to this very closely knit

family. It was an inspiration for me to " watch " from afar the depth

of loving support and care they gave Janene over the years.

>

> For some of you who may not know, it was Adlard who designed

the website back in 1996 that first brought free information on the

antibiotic protocol to the world. She has worked tirelessly all

these years not only in maintaining the site but in answering the

unending email and phone inquiries generated by that site, all while

holding a full time job and being there for Janene. She has

consistently made herself available - offering information, support

and encouragement to people world-wide both on and off this list.

Just recently, I had an email from someone in Australia telling me

how much help and encouragement has been to her over the years

in her battle with this same disease.

>

> If you would like to offer your condolences, the email addresses

are

>

> - cadlard@...

> Steve - spwhite@...

>

> May God bring them comfort and peace in this their time of sorrow.

>

> Ethel

>

>

[Guest guest]

My deepest sympathy to all of Janene's family. My heart goes out to you all.

Thank you also for all you do here...and please do take the time to

mourn her passing. It is something a person can not put in words but our hearts

and prayers go out to you all at this time.

May God Bless you all

rheumatic Re: Sad news

Though delayed as I have been away and out of the loop for some time,

my condolences to and all those who mourn Janene are no less

sincere. I extend my heartfelt sympathy to all.

To also go my deepest thanks for the efforts put forth for

the benefit of so many.

Merna

>

> Dear Group,

>

> It is with much sadness that I write to tell you that Chris

Adlard's daughter, Janene, lost her battle with scleroderma. She

fought long and courageously. Janene was the sister of

White, owner of this mailing list and financial backer of the

website. Janene also leaves a husband - Darren, and a stepfather -

.

>

> Janene's passing is a great loss to this very closely knit

family. It was an inspiration for me to " watch " from afar the depth

of loving support and care they gave Janene over the years.

>

> For some of you who may not know, it was Adlard who designed

the website back in 1996 that first brought free information on the

antibiotic protocol to the world. She has worked tirelessly all

these years not only in maintaining the site but in answering the

unending email and phone inquiries generated by that site, all while

holding a full time job and being there for Janene. She has

consistently made herself available - offering information, support

and encouragement to people world-wide both on and off this list.

Just recently, I had an email from someone in Australia telling me

how much help and encouragement has been to her over the years

in her battle with this same disease.

>

> If you would like to offer your condolences, the email addresses

are

>

> - cadlard@...

> Steve - spwhite@...

>

> May God bring them comfort and peace in this their time of sorrow.

>

> Ethel

>

>

[Guest guest]

Dear Sally,

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Carol

[Guest guest]

Dear Sally,

I am so sorry to hear your news. Please accept my condolences and

prayers at this difficult time. Yes, I was thinking about you alot and

wondering about your family. I'm happy Gavin is still a shining light,

I know you and Rob will have many great times with him as he grows up.

~ Gretchen

[Guest guest]

Sally, you have my regards. Gretchen said it well when she mentioned having

great times with Gavin. These are difficult times right now and its hard to look

ahead, but time WILL heal the heart. Best of Luck in the future.

Debbie from MO

[Guest guest]

Dear Sally,

I am extremely saddened to hear of your devastating news. I cannot

even begin to imagine the distress you and your family are

experiencing. Although I do not know you personally, I want to extend

my deepest sympathy. Know that my thoughts and prayers are with you

through this time of grief and sorrow. My wish for you is that you

find solace and future joy and peace through friends, family and all

group members. I hope you know that many are here for you in

thought and in spirit. I send you love and compassion and hope the

future brings brighter days.

Sincerely,