Re: To Gail: The first year{S}

[Guest guest]

wrote:

>

> From: " " <lauranra@...>

>

> Hi Gail

> I WISH I could e-mail you without having to send everything to Sue and

> then have her forward it to you. I don't know why everything I send to you

> gets returned, you can send things to me BUT for some reason I can't send

> messages to you. I don't know if you will even get this one.

> I know the feelings that you are speaking of all too well. My husband

> is the same way with , things are a little better now then they use to

> be but (my husband) still has alot of negative feelings towards

> ...almost three years later. I hope what everyone says is

> true...things do get easier....because we are definately past that first

> year and things still seem fairly difficult. Sometimes I really dislike my

> husband for not being able to love the way he is and it makes me able

> to pick up on all the little (unimportant) things that can't do that

> much faster. Every little failure and delay is noticed... and commented on.

>

> I won't say much more then that, feel free to e-mail me privately; we seem

> to have alot in common

> , mom to Nicala & (32 months) and (10 months).

>

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[Guest guest]

Hi Gail;

I didn't really want my husband seeing what I wrote (to the list) but

figured I mise as well tell him because he would probably end up reading it

eventually. He can't really get mad at me, its the truth and he knows it.

>Yea, last night we had a " talk " He doesn't really open up all that much,

tells me everything....sometimes I wish he would just keep it to

himself. has decided that isn't going to be very functional

(he is mad at him because has been biting other kids lately REALLY

HARD) and he has told me (on more then one occation) that he wants to put

up for adoption. Of cource, I don't want to hear that f & %^$ & sh^%!!!

>but we are married 14+ years

We have only been married 6 years.

>How far could northern NJ be from where you are in Canada?????????Couple

>of hours?

I'm not sure; 8 hours?...we are 1 hours from Port Huron, MI and 2 hours

from Detroit.

>I feel like this alot lately, just getting up and leaving

We have plenty of room. You (and your kids) are welcome any time. We

have lots to do here...got a really big trampoline.