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Hi Charlyne,

I hear ya, but you just never know like 's case. Ah, not to

brag about him because I'm the mom. But, many girls love coming up to

him and I thought it was cute that he was always included. Now, that

he is older and girls are still wanting to assist. I catch him

hypnotized staring at their bottoms when they're not looking. I

wonder what goes through his mind? Of course I should be glad that he

is thinking like a boy, as some special need kids enjoy just being

with the same sex, reason behind it, is because that is what they

were exposed to at school, not sexually but accustomed to. At school

many other students who are not aware of this type of behavior might

take it the wrong way. Then the changes occur with hand shakes and

high-fives etc. instead of hugs, of course you know what moms do,

like me : ) just give him lots of hugs and watching out for certain

types of OCD behavior. Well one of my concerns I kind of dread is

when he is at High school next year as it'll be new changes.

is still doing great with his toilet training schedule, but it still

requires some assistance and reminders, you know what that means

someone still having to be with him in the restroom. So I'm

preplanning some tours at the high school and a vocational(workshop)

right after Thanksgiving. Hopefully this will ease my mind some.

had Special Olympics Field and Track & Soccer try outs this

past week. I noticed that as I assisted I still saw some behavior

issues, like the acting out to avoid of doing something, I'm glad I

can observed reasons behind it, now. What a Blessing, of course after

when I realized how he went about it. He did his drop flop and boy is

he heavy and he would not listen to any of the teachers aide as his

teacher had to leave for a last minute meeting. Well, I was not going

to lift him, as you know why of my back, but I was able to ask

him " , restroom? " Will it had worked and he got up and grabbed

my hand to walk across the field to use the restroom. What a stink

pot, once he was done with the restroom he went over to a reserved

spot that his class had picked to place their lunch and things to

rest. Well, he grabbed his backpack and said " mom, home. " He was

ready to leave. Of course I tried " lets go run, then home " . He won,

as I was not going to struggle. So the next following Special

Olympics day with Soccer I decided not to show up or he would

probably want to return home. Sorry this is long, yak yak time.

Take care.

Irma,14,DS/ASD

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Irma

I love reading your stories!!!!

Kathy

Re: Charlyne : )

Hi Charlyne,

I hear ya, but you just never know like 's case. Ah, not to

brag about him because I'm the mom. But, many girls love coming up to

him and I thought it was cute that he was always included. Now, that

he is older and girls are still wanting to assist. I catch him

hypnotized staring at their bottoms when they're not looking. I

wonder what goes through his mind? Of course I should be glad that he

is thinking like a boy, as some special need kids enjoy just being

with the same sex, reason behind it, is because that is what they

were exposed to at school, not sexually but accustomed to. At school

many other students who are not aware of this type of behavior might

take it the wrong way. Then the changes occur with hand shakes and

high-fives etc. instead of hugs, of course you know what moms do,

like me : ) just give him lots of hugs and watching out for certain

types of OCD behavior. Well one of my concerns I kind of dread is

when he is at High school next year as it'll be new changes.

is still doing great with his toilet training schedule, but it still

requires some assistance and reminders, you know what that means

someone still having to be with him in the restroom. So I'm

preplanning some tours at the high school and a vocational(workshop)

right after Thanksgiving. Hopefully this will ease my mind some.

had Special Olympics Field and Track & Soccer try outs this

past week. I noticed that as I assisted I still saw some behavior

issues, like the acting out to avoid of doing something, I'm glad I

can observed reasons behind it, now. What a Blessing, of course after

when I realized how he went about it. He did his drop flop and boy is

he heavy and he would not listen to any of the teachers aide as his

teacher had to leave for a last minute meeting. Well, I was not going

to lift him, as you know why of my back, but I was able to ask

him " , restroom? " Will it had worked and he got up and grabbed

my hand to walk across the field to use the restroom. What a stink

pot, once he was done with the restroom he went over to a reserved

spot that his class had picked to place their lunch and things to

rest. Well, he grabbed his backpack and said " mom, home. " He was

ready to leave. Of course I tried " lets go run, then home " . He won,

as I was not going to struggle. So the next following Special

Olympics day with Soccer I decided not to show up or he would

probably want to return home. Sorry this is long, yak yak time.

Take care.

Irma,14,DS/ASD

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  • 3 weeks later...

Hi Charlyne,

I've reserved a spot, no ands or buts for the conference. The only

thing if it does not happen are due to her, mother nature, etc. so

keeping my fingers crossed that it'll happen, for now I even have

babysitting taken care of, too. Now that I'm involved more than ever

and know some key people where attends school. I'm hoping to

push sensory integration for and for all in need, as the

district never felt there was a need for it. So another battle to

persue, LOVE IT! Because they are listening but its just getting the

key resources needed. I was told when I just requested for a sensory

eval. for . That thanks to the changes and information I've

been giving and now with the added label ASD it has open the doors

for many. Duh! Gee, why does it take a parent to get people to listen

when this has been going on for many years.

Wow! Charlyne, you're doing great with your Christmas chore, my time

is whenever I get off work early, meetings and just had a Tupperware

get-together and my son Roland's 25 th B-day party last weekend. This

coming Friday driving out for a quick weekend to see my mom and 2 of

my sis which is 155 mi. from San to drop off their gifts. I

know I could of mailed them off, but I better visit my mom. Then I

have to return early Sat. night as My 15 y/o is practicing with the

CCD class for the Holidays this coming Sun.

Give Zeb a great big hug on his birthday, may he enjoy his special

day. So, You mean to tell me that Zeb is hitting the two digit

age " 10 " ? Well, Happy Birthday Zeb!

Many hugs & prayers to you and your daughter when the birth of your

grandbaby arrives. Congratulations!

Well, I've sort of put my washer and dryer on hold for now, as I

really would like my Honda mini van. With growing away and the

rocking this I better work on. Ok, may Santa also fulfill your

wishes, even a box of Calgon in your stocking. Take care, I better

finish helping getting dressed for school and then off to

work.

Irma,14,DS/ASD

> Hi Irma,

> You'll have to let us know about Temple Grandin. It's great that

you will

> finally hear her speak. Two weeks left to get all this

> shopping,wrapping,cooking,card addressing,boxes mailed and

inbetween await a

> baby and have Zeb's bd party. Oh Calgon take me away!!! I hope

Santa

> fullfills all your wishes. Have a great holiday.

> Charlyne

> Mom to Zeb 9 DS/OCD ?

>

>

>

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Hi Charlyne,

I'm looking forward hearing more when all this legal issues are done

with. You hang in there and I still have lots of FAITH that there

will be a positive outcome out of all of this.

Oh, Zeb. He is such a character and we love him for being himself.

What a charmer and talker. Waiting is a biggie and what a marvelous

job doing that. Glad you have some educational professionals

supporting you and Zeb and of course your fellow e-buddies are right

along with you spirit & cyber wise.

Hey, you think you could place a cam and have some type of tele-

conference? So that we could ALL be there cyberly in court with you

and......and..... Ok, ok just kidding. Just me thinking away. Lots

of hugs your way.

Hugs!

Irma,14,DS/ASD

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> Hi Irma,

> Yeh, would that be something!

> Charlyne

>

Cool huh? Yes, because its part of our education, our parents

rights, etc. to name a few. LOL

OMG! Is this turning into a movie now in my head? With the wicked

witch that stirred up issues and......Ok, gotta take dh to the

airport.

Take care.

Irma

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> hee,hee

> Charlyne

> Mom t Zeb 10 DS/OCD ?

Ok, on the way to the airport I had to re-program what I had posted

to you and thought its more like a night drama. Something

like " Touch by an Angel " or something with a show with court

issues. : )

Irma

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Charlyne,

My very good friend who told me about the Shafer report just had her IEP

meeting. The school has said they can not meet her son's needs. He is only

eight. He has aspergers/adhd/whatever. She very nicely said that she didn't want

anyone suing her or the school over behavior issues. Anyways, they have offered

her a contract for private schooling. She was thrilled. I just wanted you to

know because I do think that what happened to you is scaring the schools into

compliance.

My husband and I are just shocked that the Judge did not throw this case out by

now. It's crazy. Hang in there.

Diane

>

> From: " mum592001 " <ICANFIELD@...>

> Date: 2003/06/12 Thu PM 03:50:20 EDT

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> Subject: Re: Charlyne : )

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> Charlyne

> another popular item here is deep-fried pickles.

> Served with Ranch dressing. Great appetizer!!

> Hi Irma!!

Hi Kathy,

I had just posted a hello. : )

Deep-fried pickles? This is something different but dipped into

ranch dressing sounds yummy.

Irma

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