Guest guest Posted April 22, 2006 Report Share Posted April 22, 2006 Lida: > There have been several studies about 'falling in love', because scientists think it is a curious kind of thing. > One article I have been reading about it says that falling in love mostly is based on the necessity of a person to obtain something they think they can not provide themselves. For some this could be status, for others apreciation or feeling comfortable with oneself, or whatever. Wow, that is interesting indeed. It confirms the conclusion I've arrived at as well. I think that when one needs to develop one's feminine, intuitive and receptive side one will be attracted to soft, spiritual types. When one needs to develop one's male side and learn more assertiveness and initiative, one will be attracted to more to dominant types. When one has developed both of those sides in harmony, neither type will feel irresistable. > If a person is quite independant and good with oneself, falling in love will not happen very easily. They don't need to be 'temporary insane' to accept someone else and can stay realistic. They love, which is something else than falling in love (and come out of it again). Yes, I'm finding this to be true too. Inger Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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