Khalid's kindergarten year

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Over the years I have had parents ask me how Khalid weathered through

kindergarten. I have always been happy to share Khalid's experience.

I have found for each child, this is a personal decision. I feel parents

should follow your heart and find what best benefits your own child's

certain needs. I found the answers never came easy.

Khalid my oldest apraxic son, now 15.7 years, started his kinder years

close to age 6. I too had my fears, concerns and wanted the best in

meeting Khalid's needs. While searching for his options, which were

few. I had heard through my sister-in-law, about a fabulous teacher in

her district. This teacher's reputation had sold me and had hope that

she would be that special teacher for my son.

After my husband, Khalid and I observed and visited her class (more

than once) the structure and the stimulating environment were more

than any parent could have dreamed. This teacher's focus was on the

positive for her students and her purpose was to bring out each

child's best and individual strengths. My husband and I were

determined that Khalid would be in her class that year. After filling

out paperwork with their district, and an interview with the school

principle, my request was honored. Khalid was set to go and therefore

he would not attend kindergarten within our school district.

At that time my son had a severe speech deficit and had not yet been

diagnosed with apraxia. I assisted him throughout that year, together

he and I attended class daily. I worked closely with Khalid, at

school and home and also helped other children when needed. This would

resolve any frustration or communication problems for all of us. My

presence in turn was most welcomed and appreciated there. Together the

teacher and I became a team that would work in Khalid's best interest.

What's most wonderful about his teacher, she did not just praise

Khalid, she also encouraged him to be a part of the class. She was

careful not to put him in any humiliating situations. She was

creative, to include and modify her curriculum for Khalid. She taught

the children to be careful of their words and to respect him and each

other. She had her students so busy, there was no time for teasing.

I don't recall to many incidents that year if any. My son enjoyed

kindergarten and had a wonderful learning experience. Khalid will

soon finish his ninth grade year and this teacher still remains on

Khalid's list, as one of his most memorable teachers.

After all these years of meeting so many educators, professionals,

coaches, that have come into my son's life. I can honestly say

throughout the years, they have not all been the best of golden

experiences. Yet there are those few amazing people, who truly stand

out, whose influence have made the difference for Khalid. For me

this teacher is one that remains in this mother's heart forever.

Mustafa

Mom to Khalid, Jadd and Danya

Blessed is the influence

of one true, loving

human soul on another.

~ Eliot~

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I love when you share your stories with us. Your are truly a wonderful soul!

God Bless!

Lynaugh