social skills

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Hi,

I am new and reaching out . I have an 18year old daughter who has had ADHD

forever. (must

add she is adopted-never really think about that). She also show traits of

Aspergers as she

has no socialization skills at all. My heart goes out to her because she just

does understand

her surroundings at school. Does not know what is appropriate to say? She just

likes to talk.

She is getting to become very aggressive because she is so tired of all the

negativity around

her when she is anywhere her classmates are at. She has no friends, never

invited out, but

wants to be so popular but cant becuz no one wants her around. And I mean NO

ONE.. She is

immature for her age about 12-14yrs old- and they just hate her but she really

is a great

person. Also has no commen sense about things. Long and Short we enrolled her

in a

support group- loved it- met a similiar boy with Aspergers (Worst than hers) and

became

friends, WE THOUGHT GREAT!!!!!!!! boyfriends for short time, then back

friends-boyfriendish.

She got mad at him last week.-she got aggressive (has no problem solving skills)

boys

parents had her arrested. >>Restraing Order ... Now really has no self-esteem.

She is stupid,

I should be dead, I hate myself, Everyone hates me, I am going to jail for

life,....on an on. I

am living a nightmare. We have consoulers, M.D doctors, and physcitrist that

have seen her

for years. No one can get threw to her about anything. Once she decides

something that is

it. Also very OCD on things. Anyone have any support on how to get threw this

Arrest issue.

it has comsumed her very thought and actually has made her 100X more angry with

everyone. Sorry so long.. Thanks for listening