Guest guest Posted January 8, 2008 Report Share Posted January 8, 2008 Its tough when they don't agree but based on what you say it doesn't sound like she's ready to trial off. If immune function was returning to normal then you would not be seeing so many infections imo. Are you trialing off just because of the drama involved in IVIG needle sticks? Is switching to SCIG an option? We had major drama on IVIG but over the last 7 weeks since starting sub-q things have gotten really easy and she no longer freaks out about the needle (using the minimeds) and were up in running within 5 minutes and that includes her " prep time " where she mentally prepares herself for each stick. I can't believe I didn't insist on SCIG sooner, way less traumatic and I'm told her IgG levels should actually maintain at a higher level now which means less sick time. dueling drs >I feel somewhat caught up between two great drs that I both like and > respect. One, our pulmo, has been with us over five yrs, and as far as > Im concerned, saved my kids on more than one occasion......when local > drs were blowing us off, she took us seriously, found the root of most > of the problems, and set about aggressively " fixing " them to the best > of her ability. This dr I love,trust, and consider part of our family. > So do my kids. > The other, infectious disease, we've had nearly two yrs. He's a great > guy, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 8, 2008 Report Share Posted January 8, 2008 it sounds like you are tired and really want a break from all of this. So why is it you are doing IVIg rather than SCIg. I remember there was a reason something to do with wrong doses etc? My son was 10 when we trial him off after being on since he was 3. It failed in his case but he had been on long enough to be pretty stable. I would be concerned personally for a trial off as your pulmo said for a child who had not been on it continuously for several years. My experience in watching these kids is that it takes several years to get them stable with IVIg and then once they are not having consistent infections then you are considering them stable. My son failed because his titers came back very low and that is really if I am remembering correctly the major reason to take them off and check. Many of the other test can be run with them on IVIg or Sub Q at a trough time. I am wondering if the ID is reallly looking at the kids individually or is he looking at the age 10 where many of the kids are trialed off. Your daughter will get over it but maybe she can go to Subq again and have a successful time this time. Under your circumstances where there are so many kids on therapy I wonder if you could get some extra nursing help from the insurance to take some stress off of you. YOU are the one that will deal with the infections all summer when the kids get sick. I would be interested in knowing how many kids go on to come off of the Ig and how many are put back on I wonder if IDF should track that #. I think it would be interesting . Again I think the important thing is that the kid is stable clinically prior to taking them off. We did not tell our son until the month before just in case. He was on antibiotics the entire time for infections so we really got the taste of what it is like again. But.... I do know that some kids do wean off and do fine so this is just my experience. BARBIE dueling drs I feel somewhat caught up between two great drs that I both like and respect. One, our pulmo, has been with us over five yrs, and as far as Im concerned, saved my kids on more than one occasion.... ..when local drs were blowing us off, she took us seriously, found the root of most of the problems, and set about aggressively " fixing " them to the best of her ability. This dr I love,trust, and consider part of our family. So do my kids. The other, infectious disease, we've had nearly two yrs. He's a great guy, very personable, good with my kids and seems very knowledgable. Pulmo referred us specifically to him to treat the kids CVID and to manage the IVIG. He has done well for us thus far, and I trust him. He (ID) had planned to trial the kids off IVIG last summer, to see how they did and to check their numbers in the fall and see how they held. That did not work out, for several reasons, and we all agreed to keep up one more yr, and then he said, so long as they were stable, medically, we'd give it a go this summer. My ten yr old daughter has been counting down infusions until the break. At last IVIG, he told her, so long as she didnt get a bunch of bacterial infections by April, he would make April her last infusion for the summer. She's been thrilled, and lookiing forward to this. Today we saw our pulmo. (for the boys, the girls go thursday). During the appt, I mentioned this, that we were planning to trial two of the kids off over the summer, and she whipped her head around and very matter of factly disagreed with that plan. Citing repeated abx needed, along with a couple pred bursts, she says she is going to " have a talk " with the ID guy, bc one of the kids is barely where he needs to be, and its just now getting better(he began IVIG last Feb) and she isnt going to screw him up now. And she still has no idea how much problem we've had with Savannah's asthma, due to repeated viruses this winter. Im a little nervous when I take her in on thursday to listen to this tirade again(not that she is mad at ME, she just doesnt agree, and she doesnt agree VERY LOUDLY). Im nearly certain she'll say NO, after Savannah has already been told yes. And that is going to stink. Its hard to decide which side of the fence to impale myself on. Last yr, we were considering a port for Savannah(bc she wanted it, and has some trouble with getting lines in, and has anxiety issues). ID guy wanted to wait, and pulmo pitched a fit(bc she came to infusion a few times and saw Savannah in tears after several failed attempts). And she then tore into him, fighting for the port on my daughters behalf,and eventually, we decided against it--bc ID said, if we could just wait until we knew if she passed/failed the trial off this summer, he would be ok with it. I am beginning to feel like Im in the middle, without intending to do that. And I feel like somehow, I keep ending up looking like Im running behind ID's back to tattle to pulmo,which isnt the case, but I feel it looks that way. And I feel like I need to choose. And thats hard. I can understand both points of view, I understand both the drs and their reasons. 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Guest guest Posted January 8, 2008 Report Share Posted January 8, 2008 As far as our experience with Ig levels on SCIg versus IVIg . Lucas was usually between 8-1100 on IVIg but if he got under 800 he was sick. Now he is around 1100-1300 on SCIg , he is still having some infections but overall I think he is better. BARBIE dueling drs >I feel somewhat caught up between two great drs that I both like and > respect. One, our pulmo, has been with us over five yrs, and as far as > Im concerned, saved my kids on more than one occasion.... ..when local > drs were blowing us off, she took us seriously, found the root of most > of the problems, and set about aggressively " fixing " them to the best > of her ability. This dr I love,trust, and consider part of our family. > So do my kids. > The other, infectious disease, we've had nearly two yrs. He's a great > guy, <!-- #ygrp-mkp{ border:1px solid #d8d8d8;font-family:Arial;margin:14px 0px;padding:0px 14px;} #ygrp-mkp hr{ border:1px solid #d8d8d8;} #ygrp-mkp #hd{ color:#628c2a;font-size:85%;font-weight:bold;line-height:122%;margin:10px 0px;} #ygrp-mkp #ads{ margin-bottom:10px;} #ygrp-mkp .ad{ padding:0 0;} #ygrp-mkp .ad a{ color:#0000ff;text-decoration:none;} --> <!-- #ygrp-sponsor #ygrp-lc{ font-family:Arial;} #ygrp-sponsor #ygrp-lc #hd{ margin:10px 0px;font-weight:bold;font-size:78%;line-height:122%;} #ygrp-sponsor #ygrp-lc .ad{ margin-bottom:10px;padding:0 0;} --> <!-- #ygrp-mlmsg {font-size:13px;font-family:arial, helvetica, clean, sans-serif;} #ygrp-mlmsg table {font-size:inherit;font:100%;} #ygrp-mlmsg select, input, textarea {font:99% arial, helvetica, clean, sans-serif;} #ygrp-mlmsg pre, code {font:115% monospace;} #ygrp-mlmsg * {line-height:1.22em;} #ygrp-text{ font-family:Georgia; } #ygrp-text p{ margin:0 0 1em 0;} #ygrp-tpmsgs{ font-family:Arial; clear:both;} #ygrp-vitnav{ padding-top:10px;font-family:Verdana;font-size:77%;margin:0;} #ygrp-vitnav a{ padding:0 1px;} #ygrp-actbar{ clear:both;margin:25px 0;white-space:nowrap;color:#666;text-align:right;} #ygrp-actbar .left{ float:left;white-space:nowrap;} ..bld{font-weight:bold;} #ygrp-grft{ font-family:Verdana;font-size:77%;padding:15px 0;} #ygrp-ft{ font-family:verdana;font-size:77%;border-top:1px solid #666; padding:5px 0; } #ygrp-mlmsg #logo{ padding-bottom:10px;} #ygrp-vital{ background-color:#e0ecee;margin-bottom:20px;padding:2px 0 8px 8px;} #ygrp-vital #vithd{ font-size:77%;font-family:Verdana;font-weight:bold;color:#333;text-transform:upp\ ercase;} #ygrp-vital ul{ padding:0;margin:2px 0;} #ygrp-vital ul li{ list-style-type:none;clear:both;border:1px solid #e0ecee; } #ygrp-vital ul li .ct{ font-weight:bold;color:#ff7900;float:right;width:2em;text-align:right;padding-ri\ ght:.5em;} #ygrp-vital ul li .cat{ font-weight:bold;} #ygrp-vital a{ text-decoration:none;} #ygrp-vital a:hover{ text-decoration:underline;} #ygrp-sponsor #hd{ color:#999;font-size:77%;} #ygrp-sponsor #ov{ padding:6px 13px;background-color:#e0ecee;margin-bottom:20px;} #ygrp-sponsor #ov ul{ padding:0 0 0 8px;margin:0;} #ygrp-sponsor #ov li{ list-style-type:square;padding:6px 0;font-size:77%;} #ygrp-sponsor #ov li a{ text-decoration:none;font-size:130%;} #ygrp-sponsor #nc{ background-color:#eee;margin-bottom:20px;padding:0 8px;} #ygrp-sponsor .ad{ padding:8px 0;} #ygrp-sponsor .ad #hd1{ font-family:Arial;font-weight:bold;color:#628c2a;font-size:100%;line-height:122%\ ;} #ygrp-sponsor .ad a{ text-decoration:none;} #ygrp-sponsor .ad a:hover{ text-decoration:underline;} #ygrp-sponsor .ad p{ margin:0;} o{font-size:0;} ..MsoNormal{ margin:0 0 0 0;} #ygrp-text tt{ font-size:120%;} blockquote{margin:0 0 0 4px;} ..replbq{margin:4;} --> ________________________________________________________________________________\ ____ Be a better friend, newshound, and know-it-all with Mobile. Try it now. http://mobile./;_ylt=Ahu06i62sR8HDtDypao8Wcj9tAcJ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 8, 2008 Report Share Posted January 8, 2008 Valarie.... This is what happens when you get several Drs/ opinions about the same thing. One speaks more passionatly for their defense as well as looking good to themselves 7patting them selves on the back to sayt, " Yeah, my wa was more convincing & she choose to do what I say " . I have been there & done that with Blake's health care. We have a Pulmo/ Immuno/ Hem/Onc/Endo/psyc and Pediatrician. When Blake is sick he is in really bad shape. He usually winds up in the hospital either here in our hometown or the one 2 hrs. away. With Blake it is not amatter of is it the port/is it sinus/is it stomach/is the pain from his dense bones. Since Blake had a line in him since he was knee high to a grass hopper. It was ALWAYS the port/broviac/PICC line that was looked at first!!! Well, we got wise. We let the Pediatrician be our Quarterback. If Blake has an issue, we take it to her first. If she had no answer right away, she would contact which ever dr. that specalizes in what the problem is. Nine times out of ten, she had her answer before we left her office. This enabled us to treat Blake at home & stay out of the germy environment. The one thing when he had his lines , that was done regardless of what was going on was to get his CBC done & order cultures of his line & blood!!! Right now Blake is line free. he still is unable to take oral antibiotics, so an IV is placed for 3 days of antibiotics & he STILL has blood cultues done when an infection sets in. He does his IgG Therapy SC at home, but because of his infection rate they do blood cultures. What I would do, is gather up all the info from eachg Dr. & go to the Ped. & get their opinion on eah child. THe Ped is the one who knows them best. It may be that they did not snub you, bu that they just did NOT KNOW what to do. It actually took us going to DUKE for our 6th opinion on Blake. That is how we wound up waiting 5 yrs. before Blake was ever treated proberly & his health declined to teh point of almost non-existance except to live in a hospital. Since you do have 3 children on IVIG, I would take the Immuno's opinion, The Pulmo's. get teh pro's and con's of what is each persons thoughts take that to your ped. If the ped won't help I would find one who WILL & let them settle it & keep you out of the middle. Right now, these 2 Dr's. are aware of YOUR delliema, so they are the ones who are " playing " one another & You!!! You are mom, what DO YOU think & WANT to do? Tell each of them then put your foot down & let them duke it out!!!! You hired them, they HAD to show you that the can advocate for YOU & You are the mother!!! You are the only one who can speak on behalf of each of your " blessings " they are looking to you for the answers.!! Remeber, Have the Faith of the tiny Mustard See & You CAN move mountains!!!! JUlie Mom to Blake 16, SCID with Complete T-Cell Dysfunction- SCIG for almost a yr(once a week), Asperger's/ADHD/ODD/OCD Sensory Intergrated Motor Skills Delays, Central Processing Deficiet,Genetic Prothrombin Deffect with G-A mutaiton and MTHRF mutation, Loves to read & is telling us 9th grade English Lit. is TOO easy!!! http://www3.caringbridge.org/sc/blakester The Greatest Adventure of MY Lifetime!!!!!! ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ osdbmom <osdbmom@...> wrote: I feel somewhat caught up between two great drs that I both like and respect. One, our pulmo, has been with us over five yrs, and as far as Im concerned, saved my kids on more than one occasion......when local drs were blowing us off, she took us seriously, found the root of most of the problems, and set about aggressively " fixing " them to the best of her ability. This dr I love,trust, and consider part of our family. So do my kids. The other, infectious disease, we've had nearly two yrs. He's a great guy, very personable, good with my kids and seems very knowledgable. Pulmo referred us specifically to him to treat the kids CVID and to manage the IVIG. He has done well for us thus far, and I trust him. He (ID) had planned to trial the kids off IVIG last summer, to see how they did and to check their numbers in the fall and see how they held. That did not work out, for several reasons, and we all agreed to keep up one more yr, and then he said, so long as they were stable, medically, we'd give it a go this summer. My ten yr old daughter has been counting down infusions until the break. At last IVIG, he told her, so long as she didnt get a bunch of bacterial infections by April, he would make April her last infusion for the summer. She's been thrilled, and lookiing forward to this. Today we saw our pulmo. (for the boys, the girls go thursday). During the appt, I mentioned this, that we were planning to trial two of the kids off over the summer, and she whipped her head around and very matter of factly disagreed with that plan. Citing repeated abx needed, along with a couple pred bursts, she says she is going to " have a talk " with the ID guy, bc one of the kids is barely where he needs to be, and its just now getting better(he began IVIG last Feb) and she isnt going to screw him up now. And she still has no idea how much problem we've had with Savannah's asthma, due to repeated viruses this winter. Im a little nervous when I take her in on thursday to listen to this tirade again(not that she is mad at ME, she just doesnt agree, and she doesnt agree VERY LOUDLY). Im nearly certain she'll say NO, after Savannah has already been told yes. And that is going to stink. Its hard to decide which side of the fence to impale myself on. Last yr, we were considering a port for Savannah(bc she wanted it, and has some trouble with getting lines in, and has anxiety issues). ID guy wanted to wait, and pulmo pitched a fit(bc she came to infusion a few times and saw Savannah in tears after several failed attempts). And she then tore into him, fighting for the port on my daughters behalf,and eventually, we decided against it--bc ID said, if we could just wait until we knew if she passed/failed the trial off this summer, he would be ok with it. I am beginning to feel like Im in the middle, without intending to do that. And I feel like somehow, I keep ending up looking like Im running behind ID's back to tattle to pulmo,which isnt the case, but I feel it looks that way. And I feel like I need to choose. And thats hard. I can understand both points of view, I understand both the drs and their reasons. Im not sure what to do. valarie mom to three with CVID --------------------------------- Looking for last minute shopping deals? 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Guest guest Posted January 8, 2008 Report Share Posted January 8, 2008 --No, he just wanted to trial off, see how they did, run some labs after a few months, and see if they were able to maintain the higher IG levels on their own. He said, if they didnt, then we would likely be looking at this being a lifetime thing, not transient. We would not likely trial off again. We've discussed SCIG at length, and I feel like Savannah is old enough to participate in this decision. She doesnt want weekly reminders of CVID.......she doesnt want anything to do with it in our house......she wants to do it at the hospital and then leave it there and not think about it. She wants home to remain " home " , and not like the hospital/dr office. Once the stick is in, she is fine, she maintains good levels, the problem is that her asthma is severe, her lung function is poor, and every single thing she catches ends up in her lungs. It becomes a difficult cycle once it starts, and this winter has been a doozy(though last winter was GREAT), esp bc she cant have prednisone to help with the breathing. It might only be one infection......but once the asthma gets on a roll, its so hard to stop. I know that many families are happy with SCIG, but for us, IVIG is working well. When she is older, she may change her mind and thats fine, but Im not going to force her. She loves her nurses, and they are very good with her, and she doesnt want me to be like a " nurse " , she wants me to just be mom. She went through a hard yr last yr, beginning with witnessing her little brother split his head open, then her running coach was suddenly killed, I had a seizure in front of her and coded(at a dr appt) that scared the life out of her, and she had a learning problem not properly diagnosed prior to last yr, school suddenly became very difficult for her. Everything together, plus her illnesses and infusions, just all turned into overwhelming anxiety that became very hard to get a handle on. (this is when we were considering the port) We've done a lot of therapy, really worked on that, and she is doing wonderfullly so far this yr, so thats not something we are looking at anymore. We may be one of the last dinosaurs:), but for my three kids on IVIG, we dont mind the hospitals infusion room. We go one day a month for everyone, and usually get lines in quickly, then the boys spend the day playing the game cube and Savannah watches movies on the big screen TV and plays on online with her Webkinz. Half the time, when its time to go, the boys cry they want to stay longer!lol bc they have fun. The nurses spend a lot of time with us, play with the kids, we all eat lunch together, sometimes my kids take special projects, like sewing or crafts to work on. usually five hours tops we are out of there. I admit I agree with my daughter on that.........honestly, Id rather do one day a month than mess with it weekly. I guess what I was thinking of, is how to show respect and attention to two drs who have different approachs, without seeming like Im taking ones side against the other. valarie In , " " <taelon@...> wrote: > > Its tough when they don't agree but based on what you say it doesn't sound > like she's ready to trial off. If immune function was returning to normal > then you would not be seeing so many infections imo. Are you trialing off > just because of the drama involved in IVIG needle sticks? Is switching to > SCIG an option? We had major drama on IVIG but over the last 7 weeks since > starting sub-q things have gotten really easy and she no longer freaks out > about the needle (using the minimeds) and were up in running within 5 > minutes and that includes her " prep time " where she mentally prepares > herself for each stick. I can't believe I didn't insist on SCIG sooner, way > less traumatic and I'm told her IgG levels should actually maintain at a > higher level now which means less sick time. > > > > > dueling drs > > > >I feel somewhat caught up between two great drs that I both like and > > respect. One, our pulmo, has been with us over five yrs, and as far as > > Im concerned, saved my kids on more than one occasion......when local > > drs were blowing us off, she took us seriously, found the root of most > > of the problems, and set about aggressively " fixing " them to the best > > of her ability. This dr I love,trust, and consider part of our family. > > So do my kids. > > The other, infectious disease, we've had nearly two yrs. He's a great > > guy, > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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