Guest guest Posted September 20, 2010 Report Share Posted September 20, 2010 Dear , This is a good exercise for you, to see if you really enjoy having kids, changing diapers, preparing formula and rocking them when you are really too tired to take care of yourself, much less a little person who needs constant tending. This is what it is going to be like 24/7 - do you really have the stamina? You and your husband might benefit from seeing a counselor, so he can try to understand how you feel, but you have to be sure it is what you want. If you have mixed feelings, maybe now is not the time to be thinking about motherhood. His mother (and even your mother) should have nothing to do with how you live your life as a married couple, I don't care how nice they are. You want to have a good relationship with them, but they have to understand your feelings and uphold what you want to do. What kind of relationship did they have with her mother in law, you might want to ask that question if they want to get into your personal business. You do the research and you see the right doctors and maybe everyone will change their minds, but unfortunately the burden is all on you right now. We're in your corner, so you go girl, and do what you have to do and what is right for you. Carpe diem, Lottie Duthu Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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